Being Rubitah is a platform for all kinds of family conversations woven together in love and faith! Hi! My name is Rubitah. Do you relate to me?
I'm a certified Life Coach, a Counsellor and the Founder of Being Rubitah. Over the years through my professional and personal life, I have realized that prayers and love can do wonders to family life once you come to terms with yourself and surrender to God. Then you may like what I post here!
18/03/2026
Since February 28th, our 4th-floor view has looked a lot different. The mundane ordinary days are gone, replaced by sirens and a lot of nervous waiting.
I finally sat down to describe what these last few weeks have been like for our family and how this community has become our anchor. If you’ve been feeling the same weight lately, you can read the full post here. Link in the first comment 🔗👇
24/12/2025
“Silent night, holy night…”
Some songs don’t just sound like Christmas- they feel like it.
Here’s my personal reflection on carols, traditions and remembering what truly matters. 🎶🎄
👉 Read more - https://beingrubitah.com/silent-night-a-christmas-reflection/
25/08/2025
The one thing that never crosses your mind when you’re getting married is the possibility of losing your close friends.
32 people joined me in discussing why we lose friends after marriage and what we can do to maintain these friendships.
Click the link below to read the post
https://beingrubitah.com/do-you-lose-friends-after-marriage/
Just because it shows up in your mind doesn’t mean it’s true.
Pause. Question it. Choose what lifts you.
👇 Drop a ❤️ if you needed this reminder today.
Ever said yes just to avoid guilt… and then kicked yourself for it?
🙋♀️ Been there, done that.... more than we’d like to admit.
👉 This reel is for anyone who’s kind, helpful… but learning that kindness ≠ weakness.
👉 It’s okay to set limits. It’s okay to protect your peace.
👉 And no! Saying no doesn’t make you the villain.
💬 tell us...what’s your go-to line when you say no (without feeling bad)?
👇 drop it in the comments!
It started with three mangos.
A father.
A quiet shortcut.
And a legacy passed down without words.
This isn’t just a story about fruit....it’s about the everyday choices that shape our character, our workplaces, and our world.
In my work as a Life Coach and Trainer, I help students and corporate teams reflect on these small but powerful decisions.... because integrity isn’t built in a day, but in the quiet, daily choices we normalize.
If you're looking for values-based training that goes beyond performance to character, I’d love to connect.
📩 Reach me at [email protected]
Not everyone can fight a war.
But everyone can choose values that heal. 🕊️
28/05/2025
Exciting news!!
My children’s book “Who Made That Sound?” is now available at Bookarty!
If you're in Segaya, do drop by and pick up a copy for the little ones you love. This playful, interactive story is perfect for curious minds and giggly read-aloud moments.
Seeing this little creation of mine resting on a bookstore shelf feels incredibly special... a quiet dream come true. My heart is full, and I’m soo thankful.🥰
A big thank you to Bookarty and to everyone who’s supported this journey. It means the world!❤️🙏🏼
“Everyone’s values are different....so who’s to say what’s right?” 🤔 Sounds fair… but what if that logic is quietly polluting something we all depend on?
There’s a side to this we don’t talk about enough.
And it affects more than just you.
🌬️ Watch till the end.
It might just shift the way you see your choices.
In the quiet after results, kids don’t just replay their marks... they replay our voices.
Did we speak hope....or just pressure?
I’ve seen how deeply a parent’s words can shape a child.... lift them or leave a wound.
Dear parents right now, your belief matters more than any number on a mark sheet.
Because your voice today becomes their voice tomorrow.
Let it be one that says, “You’re more than a score. And I’m with you, no matter what.” ❤️
This week, I talked to a few students whose board results had just come in.
One of them quietly said....."I feel like I have let everyone down."
That stayed with me.
Too many young people believe their marks define their worth. That one result decides everything.
But it doesn’t. It never did.
You are more than a number. Your future is still full of possibilities.
And whatever the marks say - you still matter. Deeply.
In a world where lies sell and shortcuts win, is it foolish to live by your values?
Maybe.
But what happens when no one even tries to do the right thing?
Because when people give up on integrity, we all pay the price- with broken trust, fake relationships and a world where nothing feels safe or real.
It’s not easy to stay true. But it is powerful.
What’s one value you refuse to compromise on - no matter what? Drop it in the comments below.👇🏽