Carla Mendoza

Predatory Behavior has always existed ...

But people were staying quiet because of fear or shame, but secretly being victims of

🛑 Sexual Abuse and more
🛑 Manipulation
🛑 Coersion
🛑 Control

It has affected vulnerable women for years! But more recently It has began to affect the Children of both genders more openly , and I believe it's time we start being each other's keeper.

The world is filled with low vibrating, evil, shallow and selfish ways ..

Some wearing suits, ties, carrying Bibles or in leadership or " respectable " positions in society. They don't hide in dark places anymore 😔

But the secrets they hide behind those masks and cover ups, cause innocent ones much pain

There are so many beautiful souls that deserve better and are being coerced and their suffering minimized by authorities .

Let us spread awareness about predators and stop turning a blind eye ...

Enough is enough

If we speak more about it, the victims will know it was not their fault

No more shame. Speak up
and end the game ‼️

Start living like you love yourself 💕

😎 No free samples 😎

📌 So many of us women are under a lot of pressure to perform and be like the "modern women ".

We live in a society where values are outdated and lack of morals celebrated. 🙄

"Nobody lives like that anymore", they say.

"Oh, nobody will be interested if you don't give free samples" says another.

Excuse me, I missed the part where something was on sale.

A woman is not a product you try out to see if it works. A woman is a beautiful soul , to cherish and to hold. Not a free sample to test until it's sold 😕

So in a free sample society , be that woman that a man will go to war for ...

Be that woman that will cause a man to save all his money to afford the ring 💍

Because though others may have long lines of potentials wanting to test the product

How many of these potentials are actually buying into a commited relationship?

Having standards is not bad ...

Having standards protects you from becoming a victim of those that don't have any .

So you be you. Set your bar High 💎

The short ones will complain that they can't reach it, and that you will stay alone

But the tall ones won't have a problem 😉

Stay High Value my queens 👑

Don't lower your standards

Be the standard !

Love and Blessings ,
Coach Carla Mendoza
"Uncensored"

I always dreamt of being a mother ...as far back as I can remember 🌸

Even as a top performer In all my years of schooling, still my biggest goal was to be a mother. My biggest dream was to get that M.R.S degree so I could get that M.O.M degree. Lol.

But it was only when I became a devoted and passionate mother that i realized how unfair our society is set up . ⛓️

Being a Mother was only one of my dreams

But now I was consumed raising, caring, cooking , and handling all of childcare almost alone 😢 While still having to work to help in the home financially. I ate exhaustion for breakfast daily 😩

At some point there was a part of me that broke inside as I silently whispered....this is so not fair! I have a life too 🫂

A mother is NOT a voiceless, childbearing housemaid without ambition 🛑

The burden of Parenting is not on the mother alone, it should be a shared load carried by two people who dreamt of being parents .... Not just for a nice photo, but for the tough parts too. The first years than drain you down to your soul 🫂

So to any mother out there who may be struggling through the tough years of motherhood....feeling alone and isolated ...

They grow up soon mama

Find other mamas and hang out as you all watch the kids together . Join The Mama gang 😎

In the mean time take time to still take care of you 💕

Do that little sugar and honey scrub while the baby plays 😉

Take time to still dream and set goals, even if they stay in your heart for a little longer or materialize slowly 🐢

It's not forever , and if you need to, ask your family for Help every now and then ...

Because your voice, your health, your dream and your life matter too mama 💓

And no matter how you became a mother, the fact that you chose to bring to this world, says a whole lot about the woman you are ♀️

Sending you love and blessings today

Carla Mendoza
Happy Mother of These 😊

🌸We all have a Journey ..

The Chaos and confusion that leads us to the dark and dry dessert roads. 🌵

The pain and the tears, the confusion and doubt ... 😢

The wondering , the not knowing , the uncertainty, all lead us to seek deeper, push harder and sometimes stop pushing as we wait for the darkness to pass 🛑

The digging deeper helps us realize that there is water in the dessert , somewhere where we can only feel ...

And once we connect to that source, we begin to bloom again. 🌸

The chaos and confusion then becomes clarity, calm and confidence 😉

Don't give up , keep digging until you find your water source.

Where do you seek answers? I had to dig deep into God's word to find my way.

But I think I finally have found a beautiful fountain of peace...

And so can you ❤️🌸

Yesterday I went to buy a new pair of Shoes . ..

I want to start this year on better feet .

2024 , much like these old shoes right here

Took me through rough paths, muddy places and hard days

But it also helped me face life and raise me a little professionally 😎

But tomorrow. I forget the hard walks and tiring moments , I throw these old shoes away...

And start FRESH ❤️

What are you letting go of this year?

Whatever it is, if it stresses you, then maybe you can let it go!

Happy New YOU 2025!