Pam Buswell EFT Soul Coach

What is the point of healing a relationship once a parent has died ?

I would love to share something that happened to me a couple of weeks ago .

While alive my mother and I had a very formal relationship - she was acutely unmaternal to put it mildly ...I can count on the fingers of one hand the times she actually showed spontaneous affection to me . Fortunately for me I had a Nanny until I turned 13 who adored my brother and I and showed it non stop . During my 4th decade I finally found a way to begin to heal my mother wound and my life got a lot better....my mother had died by then but I began to feel her spirit and had several intense psychic encounters with her.

2 week ago I had a sudden thought ..'its a while since I felt my mothers spirit '

That night I had a dream and during the dream at some point I was outside in the rain with someone - we got totally drenched and went back inside and I was standing in front of this person who was not my mother but I was close to her and felt concern for her. I was draping a towel around her shoulders to dry her and suddenly BOOM - My Mothers head pushed through what felt like an energetic curtain and she kissed me on my cheek . It was over in a second but she was so real - the feel and exact tone and translucence of her skin ( i had forgotten quite how delicate her skin was ) ...the smell of her , her eyes , her BEING , it was like in an instant my dream when from dreamlike to HD full technicolour x100. I awoke immediately and just said ;

"thank you thank you thank you and well done to break through the veil to me like that".

I finally got a spontaneous kiss , 25 years after she passed.

This my dear readers is why , in my opinion ,there is a point to heal relationships even if it feels too late and pointless. The love is always there if we can heal ourselves enough to let go of the painful years- and stories we have built up around them- and see the lessons in why life had to be a certain way. Then real growth can happen.

I am happy to talk to anyone further and explain more of how I began to heal myself with EFT and Matrix Reimprinting and how I might help you , if this resonates.

here she is as an 18 year old approx...

This graph shows the superior lasting results of energy psychology/EFT over traditional talk therapy/ CBT …. with EFT the blocked emotional energy is found and transformed so the results are permanent.

I love a good graph...... and deciphering it! 😂

This is our EFT vs CBT food craving trial - and the participants' progress over 12 months after an 8-week program.

Blue is EFT
Black is CBT

While both groups achieved outcomes during the 8-week programs (except the CBT group didn't get any reduction of depressive symptoms at all), by 12-months the CBT group were almost as anxious as they started.

The differences here were all statically significant - EFT was superior by far 🎶

You Are Powerful!

As you shift and change your own experience, the experience of the whole human race begins to shift and change as well. So this is important work you are doing, this business of changing your life.

Why would we work on ourselves ?
I believe it’s so that we can live our lives in our driver seat holding our own wheel !

Because otherwise - I speak for myself before I did a lot of healing on my childhood- we live through projection which means we make up stories unconsciously about everyone and everything.

So choose to work on yourself with as much awareness and self love as possible, moment by moment .
And consider trying Matrix Reimprinting to heal the inner child because this is still running many peoples lives.
Book a call with me to find out more .

What will you do today?

"I can do nothing for you but work on myself.
You can do nothing for me but work on yourself." - Ram Dass

what it mean to ‘own your sh*t(wound stories) and heal yourself ?
listen to Monique - she can tell you

https://youtu.be/w5FlNGSI2ic

If you only knew how good it feels to bring your brain into a Coherent State, you would never allow yourself to forget it .

http://freesession.eftsoulcoach.com/

Are you experiencing a dark night of the Soul?

If I had of known what I know now , my own dark night wouldn’t have taken so long to pass through, 25 years ago !

I am happy to chat and see how I may help anyone who is questioning the point of existence right now . http://freesession.eftsoulcoach.com/

Eckart Tolle-“You are meant to arrive at a place of conceptual meaninglessness. Or one could say a state of ignorance – where things lose the meaning that you had given them, which was all conditioned and cultural and so on. Then you can look upon the world without imposing a mind-made framework of meaning. It looks of course as if you no longer understand anything. That’s why it’s so scary when it happens to you, instead of you actually consciously embracing it. It can bring about the dark night of the soul – to go around the Universe without any longer interpreting it compulsively, as an innocent presence. You look upon events, people, and so on with a deep sense of aliveness. Your sense the aliveness through your own sense of aliveness, but you are not trying to fit your experience into a conceptual framework anymore.”

This one question could be the most important of them all ❤️