High Vibes with Binu

Two questions that changed the way we communicate in our marriage:

“What are you thinking?”

and

“Are you open to hearing my thoughts on this?”

That’s it.

Years ago, my husband had no idea I was quietly using some of my coaching techniques on him. 😂

One day I finally told him.

We laughed.

But here’s the thing…

It worked.

31 years into marriage, I can genuinely say our communication is top notch.

We don’t fight.

We disagree often.
We see things differently often.
We are two very different people.

But we’ve learned that neither person has to be wrong for the other person to be right.

Curiosity leads.

Calm tone leads.

Asking instead of assuming leads.

And giving each other the space to actually share what we’re thinking …without immediately correcting, defending or trying to change the other person’s mind …leads.

Sometimes the most powerful shift in a relationship isn’t having better answers.

It’s learning to ask better questions.

“What are you thinking?”

“Are you open to hearing my thoughts on this?”

Try them.

Take what you need today. 🤍

[New here? Hiya, I’m Binu 👋🏽
Life + biz mentor for women 50–75. Mom of 3 adults. Podcast + event host. We talk energy, Universal spirituality, using your voice + content for impact at home and online, and women making more money unapologetically.
If that’s your vibe, welcome to my world. ✨]

The deep excitement I feel when I CATCH myself AHHHHHHHH it’s actually liberating!

The human brain is the human brain…gotta love it but also …. “Damn girl (with love) … get out of my way I’ve got impactful, Universe guided work to do (my souls voice)! “😂

That’s what happened to me this week.

And instead of judging myself for it, I’m actually celebrating that I caught it. Whoohoo!

Because every time we come back to our own voice, we strengthen our self-trust. ALWAYSSSSS!!!

We remember our own soul signature.
That’s why it’s called a signature, it’s unique!
Just like the signature I signed at the car repair place today! 😆

I know who I am.
I know what I want.
And I trust myself enough to act like it.

And THAT is speaking up.

That is self knowing and self concept!

Let’s go! Maybe this helps you catch yourself today too! Tell me if it did!!! Then take a breath and put your hand on your heart, say I LOVE YA, LET’s GO to yourself, and carry on….
Xo. Binu

P.S. If this is something you’re working on right now, I created SPEAK UP for exactly this … trusting your own voice, saying what you actually think, want and need, and experiencing what changes when you stop holding yourself back.

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💫[And this is me, in my authentic aligned unique energy, thanks for being here, I love you all ❤️]💫

This is a conversation I seem to be having more and more lately.

Maybe it’s my age and stage. Beautiful things are happening. There is joy, celebration, gratitude and so much to look forward to.

And at the very same time, there can be things happening behind the scenes that are hard. Family things. Life things. Kid things. Career things. Things we don’t necessarily share online.

You don’t need to choose one or the other.
You can hold both.
You get to experience it all.
We are spiritual beings here to have a human experience.
And sometimes that experience is hard.

But just like every other time, you made it to the other side wiser, more grateful and more aware of what matters most.

I think this is why it matters so much to have safe spaces in our lives where we can share the truth about all of it.

Where we don’t have to pretend everything is amazing , or forget that there is still so much goodness when something is hard.

❤️