16/10/2026
BUT THEY KNEW HOW TO BECOME CALM AGAIN.
I remember plenty of races when the wind picked up, the boat accelerated and communication became difficult. Wind, waves, sails, water rushing past the hull. Everyone was working harder, concentrating harder and trying to anticipate what would happen next.
And yet, on our best days, there was surprisingly little talking.
We had sailed together for years. My crews knew how I steered, how I communicated and what I expected. Most of the time, we managed to maintain a certain calm on board.
But match racing had its exceptions. đ
When we believed our opponent had broken a rule, we could become incredibly loud. Suddenly everyone was shouting at the umpires, demanding a penalty.
Then came the decision.
Sometimes in our favour. Sometimes not.
And within seconds, we had to forget about it and get back to racing. The opponent was still there, the next wind shift was approaching and another manoeuvre needed our attention.
What fascinated me was how naturally experienced crews could make that transition.
Nobody needed to tell everyone to calm down.
We simply returned to the way we worked together.
Looking back, I think that was one of the most valuable lessons racing taught me.
And it matters just as much when cruising.
An unexpected squall, a difficult anchoring manoeuvre or entering an unfamiliar harbour can create plenty of tension.
The real test is how your crew behaves afterwards.
Iâve been revisiting many of these experiences while writing my new book, THE SYSTEM ON BOARD, about leadership, communication and decision-making at sea.
And one thing has become increasingly clear to me.
Calm isnât just something you bring on board.
Itâs something a crew learns to create together.
How does your crew find its way back to calm after a stressful moment?
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