Janelle Lynnae

Potentially our best trip yet?!? Van Lyfe driving up the West Coast with my bestie! 👩‍❤️‍💋‍👨 🚐🌳🌊😎

In my blog this week, I’m going to share ALL the details of our trip!!!

✅ So comment “YES” below to get the play-by-play of this epic journey up the coast of California!

8 days. 7 nights.

A little bit of rugged adventure in the outdoors, getting a little greasy & gritty…

Aaand of course, a little bit of boujee moments along the way 💁🏻‍♀️

We visited Malibu, Santa Barbara, Solvang, SLO, Big Sur, Caramel-by-the-Sea, Monterey, and more!

Comment “YES” and I’ll send you everywhere we went & stayed & ate in an upcoming blog on Friday!

Put this on your bucket list with your spouse, best friend, or plan to do it with your future husband or wife!!! 🥰

Thank you Jesus for an amazing trip with my incredible husband!!!! 🙏🏼🙏🏼🙏🏼

xoxo, Janelle

Save this FLIRTING wisdom for single Christian women 📌🙃

✅ And then comment “READY” below & I’ll send you my free masterclass on the mindset shifts that actually change your dating life.

A student inside my course (Attract Your Husband Academy) & I were having this convo recently!

The *definition* of what flirty means makes all the difference.

Hot take: If a woman ISN’T flirty at all, it can unintentionally make a man feel less confident…

which will probably slow down or even stop his pursuit. 🫠

Also…

You don’t need to be 100% sure he’s your future husband before you are playful or flirty or provide banter. LOL.

The whole goal of dating apps is to get him to ask you on a date so you can see if you enjoy each other IN PERSON!

And lastly…

Spoiler alert for those of you who don’t want to put the energy forth to be flirty…

Even after you get married, you still have to be intentional to flirt with your husband to keep things playful and fun!

The same energy that attracts a husband is the energy that keeps a marriage alive.

So I promise learning a little healthy banter is going to be a skill that keeps giving 😘

xoxo,

Janelle

Save these 5 sentences to STOP saying! 🙊📌

But first!!! ✅ Comment “WIFEY MATERIAL” below & I’ll send you a link to my free Christian dating mindset masterclass 🙏🏼🧠✨

👏🏼 Your words have power 👏🏼

PLEASE stop repeating these statements:

1️⃣ “Maybe God is just calling me to a life of singleness.”

2️⃣ “All the hot Christian guys are already married.”

3️⃣ “Even if he is a Christian, there’s no way he’s going to be willing to wait to have s*x til we’re married”

4️⃣ “Dating sucks in my city! Dating apps suck. Men in this generation suck.”

5️⃣ “I’m so lonely. Life is going to be so much easier and so perfect once I’m married!”

The Bible tells us that the tongue has the power of life and death.

Please use your tongue to speak LIFE over your dating. 🌱

I’m not talking about toxic positivity where you never validate any of your emotions...

But I’m also still saying that how you speak about your dating experience is going to continue to directly shape your experience.

Cheers to starting to control your tongue TODAY🥂

xoxo, Janelle

P.S. >> I teach Christian Women how to HEAL subconscious patterns and start dating with
INTENTIONALITY inside of my online course, AYHA.

(Attract Your Husband Academy💍✨)

✅ Comment: “WIFEY MATERIAL” down below 👇🏼 for the link to join our free masterclass and to learn more about our Academy!



Photography by the incredible Sophia Savage | Southern California Wedding Photographer

Save these 5 signs you should break up with your boyfriend 📌😳😅🩷

✅ Comment: “SUBSTACK” below👇🏼 to read the article I wrote & dive muchhh deeper into this whole topic.

btw, this advice is primarily for Christian women who are trying to decide if they should get married or not.

I swear… every time I talk about this, I get a bunch of (primarily male) trolls who say really mean things about me being the problem.

And hey, they aren’t wrong 😂

I was part of the problem!

And he was part of the problem 🤷🏻‍♀️

And we weren’t the right fit for each other ultimately…

And then I broke up with him…

Spent time healing & falling more in love with Jesus and honestly getting to know myself wayyyy better!

And then I met my now husband & living happily ever after 🥰🥰🥰🥰

We’ve been married for over 6 years, together for over 7

and we’re still super obsessed with each other! 😍

So the haters can hate… but I’m really dang happy with my decision.

and every day I thank myself for having the courage to walk away when I knew it wasn’t right.

And that’s what I want for you too 🫶🏼

xoxo,

Janelle

Comment “STILLNESS” below if this is resonating + you want to keep reading 🤎

In my brand new article,

13 Revelations God Showed Me in a Season of Stillness

I share all the ways God grew me when I slowed down 🌱

(Even though I really didn’t want to slow down and take a sabbatical when my career was at an all time high!!!)

But when we say YES to what God is asking us to do…

He shows up big time!

He reveals our idols!

He leads us closer to Him & closer to peace!

Pray and ask God to reveal where He is inviting you to surrender, be still, and trust Him again.

He is a good and loving Father.

Let Him wrap you up is His warm embrace.

xoxo,

Janelle

P.S. Had to share some of my fave Paris pics from December that never made it to the feed! 🙃

Want to join our 21 day prayer challenge?!

✅ Comment “PRAYER CHALLENGE” below 👇🏼

Pray for your future husband & future marriage every day for the next 3 weeks!

👉🏼 If you start TODAY (March 16th) you’ll finish on Easter Sunday!

Which i believe is symbolic of God renewing hope!!!

And bringing the resurrection power of JESUS to an area of your life that might feel dead, hopeless, or impossible. ✝️🕊️🔥✨

Maybe the idea of finding your husband feels hopeless & impossible….

Maybe you think you’re too old…

Maybe you think your story is too messy…

Maybe you’ve had your heart broken by men you thought you could trust…

✨RUN TO JESUS✨

Let Him heal your heart ❤️‍🩹

Breathe fresh life into you 🌱

Instill confidence into you 💪🏼

Give you new visions of your future 🧠

Prayer changes things!!!!

Sometimes the internal needs to change before the external can change!

Comment “PRAYER CHALLENGE” below 👇🏼

xoxo, Janelle

P.S. Ladies who are now dating someone or engaged 💍 or married because of doing this 21 day prayer challenge (or any version of fervent prayer, I don’t care if it was my challenge)…

PLEASE comment below, share your story & encourage your single sisters!!!! 👯‍♀️

I’ve gotten soooo many DMs & emails from you amazing women sharing Gods provision from praying and I want everyone to know how GOOD God is!!!