Kate - - Holistic Grief Coach

17/09/2026

A wind phone is a quiet, public installation where people can speak to those they’ve lost.

A wind phone is an old-fashioned rotary telephone that isn’t connected to anything physical, but offers a deeply symbolic space for grief. You pick up the receiver, dial their number, and say whatever is in your heart - talk, cry, whisper, or sit in silence. There’s no right or wrong way to use it.

Inspired by the original Wind Phone created in Japan in 2010, wind phones are appearing all over the world. The UK has a small number - this is the first in North London (I installed it in June in the run up to Fathers Day). You can find it at Enfield Crematorium and is available for anyone to use - go up the staircase at the back of the car park and head left, it's under a large Yew tree.

This is a project with love at its very core. Dedicated to my parents Wendy and Paul, this is their old rotary phone.

Who would you call today?

12/09/2026

A heartfelt thank you to everyone who joined us at the Enfield Grief Cafe today. It's such a privilege to facilitate this space for people to come together.

Lots of new faces today alongside those who've attended before. Everyone is always welcome, whether it is a recent loss or you've been carrying the weight of grief for years. This space is whatever you need it to be - an opportunity to share your experience, to ask questions, to laugh, to cry or to just to listen. Come just as you are.

It's normal to feel nervous the first time you attend, but be reassured that you'll be warmly welcomed. You'll meet tears and laughter, and people who just get it. We're not here to offer a therapy session or to fix anything, but instead a space to help people feel less alone. There's lots of tissues on hand, and a selection of some of my favourite grief books if you just need a quiet moment. Just grab a coffee or cake and come and say hi.

A big thank you to Dee from Blake & Horlock Funeral Directors for co-hosting the cafe with me today, and as always to DAC for letting us use the space.

We'll be back next month:

📍DAC
🗓 Saturday 10th October
⏰️ 10.30am-12 (free drop in)

If you have any questions about what a grief cafe is, or if it's right for you - please don't hesitate to reach out. You can DM me or drop me an email at [email protected]

Love Your DoorStep Enfield

11/09/2026

Setting up for a beautiful day at East London Cemetery and Crematorium for their Wellness Festival.

The sun is shining and there's lots going on - pop down for a coffee and a chat if you're in the area.

08/09/2026

Come and find me on Friday at the East London Cemetery & Crematorium Wellness Festival 🤍

We are all getting so excited. This Friday will be our first ever free wellness festival. Open to the whole community to bring people together, help us all to heal and to spread a little joy in our lives. We have tons of fun and feel-good activities planned and it's all totally free. Come along, bring your friends and let's all have some calm time together ❤️🌻
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02/09/2026

Are you joining us this month?

🗓 Saturday 12th September 2026
🕥 10.30am-12 (drop in at any point)
📍Dugdale Arts Centre, Enfield

This is a gentle space for anyone in the midst of grief, whether this is a recent loss, or a weight carried for many years. All grief is welcome here.

There is no fee, and no booking required. Come and chat, listen or just be present, surrounded by people who get it.

This is not a therapy session. We're not here to fix or offer solutions, and there is no obligation for you to share your grief journey.

Just come as you are, and sit softly alongside others who know grief.

The Enfield Grief Cafe is hosted by Kate, holistic grief coach at Each Ordinary Moment, and the lovely Dee from Blake & Horlock Funeral Directors in Enfield Town.

Our venue is in the centre of Enfield Town - you'll spot us as soon as you enter - grab a hot drink from the cafe and come and make yourself comfortable.

Please don't hesitate to reach out if you have any questions - these steps to find connection in grief can feel scary, but you're so welcome here.

Love Your DoorStep Enfield

08/08/2026

A heartfelt thank you to everyone who joined us at the Enfield Grief Cafe today. It's such a privilege to facilitate this space for people to come together.

Lots of new faces today alongside those who've attended before. Everyone is always welcome, whether it is a recent loss or you've been carrying the weight of grief for years. This space is whatever you need it to be - an opportunity to share your experience, to ask questions, to laugh, to cry or to just to listen. Come just as you are.

A big thank you to Caroline from Blake & Horlock Funeral Directors for co-hosting the cafe with me today.

We'll be back next month:

📍DAC
🗓 Saturday 12th September
⏰️ 10.30am-12 (free drop in)

Hope to see you there - if you have any questions about what a grief cafe is, or if it's right for you - please don't hesitate to reach out.

Love Your DoorStep Enfield

07/08/2026

Wondering if it's too hot to attend a grief cafe tomorrow?

Don't worry, our beautiful space at Dugdale Arts Centre is air conditioned, so it's a comfortable space to be. The cafe makes a great cup of coffee and you would be very welcome.

📍 Dugdale Arts Centre
🗓 Saturday 8th August
⏰️ 10.30am - 12pm

If it's your first time coming along, don't worry. You'll spot us as you enter and I'll be there, along with the lovely Caroline from Blake & Horlock Funeral Directors to welcome you, with no pressure and no expectations. It's a drop in, so come as you are, when you're ready.

If you have any questions, please don't hesitate to reach out

Kate

04/08/2026

Are you joining us on Saturday?

🗓 Saturday 8th August 2026
🕥 10.30am-12 (drop in at any point)
📍Dugdale Arts Centre, Enfield

This is a gentle space for anyone in the midst of grief, whether this is a recent loss, or a weight carried for many years. All grief is welcome here.

There is no fee, and no booking required. Come and chat, listen or just be present, surrounded by people who get it.

This is not a therapy session. We're not here to fix or offer solutions, and there is no obligation for you to share your grief journey.

Just come as you are, and sit softly alongside others who know grief.

The Enfield Grief Cafe is hosted by Kate, holistic grief coach at Each Ordinary Moment, and is supported by Blake and Horlock Funeral directors in Enfield Town. At the August cafe I'll be co-hosting with the lovely Caroline.

Our venue is in the centre of Enfield Town - you'll spot us as soon as you enter - grab a hot drink from the cafe and come and make yourself comfortable.

Please don't hesitate to reach out if you have any questions - these steps to find connection in grief can feel scary, but you're so welcome here.

Love Your DoorStep Enfield