Ena Bautista - The Divine Awakener

‼️ I had to unfollow my coach… ‼️

Not because there was something she was doing wrong.

But because following her, absorbing her content and being influenced by it, was messing with my head.

📌 At the time I didn’t know what it was, but I was constantly flipping between wanting to approach things in business in a very different way than she was, opposite of her teachings…

And questioning whether it was good enough, whether I was doing things wrong (because it wasn’t her way), and whether it would get her seal of approval.

Only to talk myself out of it and not do anything about it.

Then 3-4 months down the line, someone would launch a similar offer with nearly identical positioning.

❤️‍ I had to do some soul-searching and self-coaching, to look at the stories I was telling myself and what was behind the resistance to do things my way.

What I uncovered was massive…

📌I couldn’t figure out who I was without her as a guide and a teacher, because I credited some of my biggest learnings and breakthroughs to working with her. And I was afraid I wouldn’t know how to grow without her influence.

📌Being in her circles and around her content energetically disrupted my flow - I was talking myself out of incredible ideas and out of uplevelling my messaging because my inner critic kept arguing that it was not good enough, that it wouldn’t be matching her standards and her teachings

📌I realised my inner people pleaser was fawning over her success, that I couldn’t recognise the mismatch in values, which was stopping me from shifting the way I did things in my business.

Ultimately, it delayed me in making my business and messaging more inclusive and shifting my work from hyper-individualism to community building.

❗️ To be clear, I do not place any blame on my coach, it was my thing I needed to resolve and my codependency I needed to release.

It required a radical action on my part because I needed to completely detach from it energetically all, in order to regain the clear channel to my own voice and inner truth.

And that meant I had to remove her from all my areas. I unsubscribed from her emails and unfollowed or muted her on all socials.

Too much? Maybe… But it was what I needed to be able to move forward in my own way.

This is the kind of work I do with my clients in the 1-2-1 coaching session…

I help you:

✳️ Unravel what is causing the dilemmas and preventing you from making expansive or difficult decisions

✳️ Uncover which subconscious beliefs & conditioning are standing in the way of you trusting your intuition and what’s clouding your wisdom

✳️ Uncover any potential resistance and resentment that’s making you go into avoidance and creating distractions

And for the next 4 days, you can get 1 hour of my coaching for £250 instead of £350.

Book your session here https://calendly.com/book-ena/clear-resistance

Love,
Ena

Ps. I’m happy to report that nearly 2 years later, I’m the most confident I’ve ever been in my own decision-making.

My channel to wisdom is clear and I don’t dwell too much whether what I’m doing with my business is right or wrong!

I KNOW it is right for me and for my values.

I KNOW it is right for the way that I want to build community and contribute to it.

There are 4 days to go for the limited time discount for the 1-2-1 coaching session with me.

Let me guide you in uncovering what’s underneath the resistance and your dilemmas.

🎉 Eeeek! Wasn’t planning on doing anything for Black Friday and Cyber Monday, but when I get the intuitive call to offer a sale for this week - I trust my inner wisdom. I don’t dwell on it.

Save £100 on my 1-hour coaching session for coaches, healers, mentors & online service providers.

If you’ve been:

📌 Feeling conflicted hearing the guidance from relationship & love coaches to keep working on yourself vs
online creators that tell you to dump your partner no matter the circumstances (and you’re not sure what’s best for you)…

📌 Contemplating getting separated/divorced from your partner, feeling like you want to experience more in a relationship,
but you keep being swayed to stay because those around you wouldn’t understand and would judge you…

📌 Considering making big changes in how you run your business,
but you’re avoiding and resisting it for a reason you can’t pinpoint…

Then this 1-2-1 coaching session is the perfect solution to that…

✳️ Add nuance to your relationship dynamics and clarify the dilemmas about whether it is time to part ways or keep working on it

✳️ Uncover which subconscious beliefs & conditioning are standing in the way of you trusting your intuition and what’s clouding your wisdom

✳️ Get clear on what’s standing in the way of you making a choice and taking proactive steps (what's causing the dilemmas)

✳️ Connect with your truth and inner wisdom, and strip away the annoying voice of doubts

✳️ Uncover any potential resistance and resentment that’s making you go into avoidance and creating distractions

The investment for this session is usually £350, but for the next 5 days you can get coached by me for £250.

Book your call here https://calendly.com/book-ena/clear-resistance

And if you have any questions feel free to DM me.

Love,
Ena

📌 In your business you’re the one in charge, you’re the powerhouse - but when it comes to personal life, there are certain parts of it where you feel like you’re not fully in control.

It is as if you walked into another season of life, having others made decisions for you.

📌 Where you look around and you realise much of it was created not by conscious choice…

But by a domino effect of actions to fulfil societal expectations.

As if for the big part of your life you lived it for others, always being the “good one”.

The sensible one.

Predictably doing the right things, a high achiever and a go-getter, doing the right things.

📌 You find yourself wondering who are you, really?

Wondering what parts of your identity, your choices and current circumstances are actually yours & because you wanted it.

❤️ The answers lie within you. Within the parts of you which you’re avoiding to look at.

And if you’re ready to find them, let me guide you.

❤️ Let me support you as you start the journey of coming back to self. To source. To your truth.

There are multiple ways of working with me, so DM me to see if we are a good fit to work together or book a call https://calendly.com/book-ena/exploration-call

With love
Ena

...You to abandon all that you are, all your hobbies and your whole identity.

They do no require for you to abandon all your free time to make it work.

Equitable relationships require compromises on both sides, yes.

But not at the cost of one person abandoning everything about themselves while the other one continues with minimal disruption to their life.

If you feel like you've abandoned yourself and your dreams to make the marriage, partnership, or relationship work...

And now you want to go back to doing things you used to love doing, like dance classes or creating art.

To discover what brings you joy and who you are in this stage of life...

But the worry about how is your partner going to take it, whether your relationship will go downhill and if your partner is going to take the lead...

Is stopping you from taking proactive steps - then you're in the right place.

I talk about what it takes to make bold steps & make difficult decisions, and feel at peace when advocating for yourself & putting yourself first.

What parts of yourself have you abandoned that are craving to come back to the surface?
What hobbies are you longing to go back to?

Comment below or send me a DM.

And in this era, I’m:

🔥 Devoted to deepening the love & trust in myself, getting to know myself intimately

🔥 Being intentional about the business goals & decisions I make, so I still make a meaningful impact with it, it satisfies my financial needs and I get to be present with my kid and have fun doing it.

🔥 Being fully sovereign in my decision-making, and at peace with whatever I might “lose”, or whoever might deselect themselves in the process.

🔥 Choosing to distance myself from relationships & experiences that no longer fulfil the purpose or feel expansive. Grounded in the knowing that it is the right decision.

🔥 Making accommodations for my health needs without guilt and shame.

What do you need to let go of in order to do the same for yourself?
What do you need to own more?

✳️ That next level (as in - next stage), a new depth of personal growth, a different layer of healing will feel quite different.

🔥 The space where you acknowledge your growth, noticing the poise and composure with which you react to things that would have sent you into a spiral before.

🔥 Where you notice the steadiness, calm and peace with which you face challenges and obstacles. Trusting your wisdom, experience and resourcefulness.

🔥 Where you notice the absence of instant and habitual guilt, shame and blame you used to feel when you made a mistake.

Detaching from what you used to make it mean about you, and decoupling your worth from the things you do or don’t do.

🔥 Recognising the way you now take on responsibility for only your part in disagreements. No longer making yourself at fault for things not working out.

🔥 The space where breakthroughs and a-ha moments come without as much fanfare, without the Big Bang.

They come with deep self-assuredness, trust and love.

In this peaceful space, you will notice how much more love and appreciation you have for yourself.

There is a stillness, anchored in sovereignty, boldness and conviction.

This is possible when you:

❌ Stop being the “fix it” person for the family dramas, abandoning your needs & desires to make others happy…

❌ Stop trying to explain & prove yourself to people who are bent on misunderstanding you and not taking responsibility

❌ Stop being a martyr to yourself for not achieving (often unrealistic) goals, making mistakes, or not knowing better.

If you’re ready to take charge of that and stop waiting for when it will happen…

Relying on the Universe, faith, external circumstances, or something else outside of yourself…

Let’s speed up that process, take matters into your own hands and come and work with me inside the Grounded Sovereignty… Comment Deeper and I will send you the details.

With all my love,

Ena

If you're craving to:

✳️ Be in charge of your life and figure out, for the first time in your life, how you want to move forward with intention, after many years of taking care of everyone else around

✳️ Get the courage to leave your partner because you are done settling for the crumbs of attention, love & effort - and send a powerful message to your kid(s) to set high standards & not settle for breadcrumbs

✳️ Be supported and guided through the whirlwind of emotions as you end the relationship - because you want your kid(s) to see what a happy, joyful and fulfilled mum looks like after years of struggle

✳️ Find your identity and who you truly are besides a mother & a wife, and reconnect with your hobbies like art, playing instruments and dancing

✳️ Be more courageous to speak up about “politics” in your business, social justice and global issues, without fearing it will negatively impact your business - because you see what’s happening in the world and can’t carry on with business as usual

Or,

✳️ Reconnect with your power and uniqueness so you can go solo with your business, after many years of supporting others without recognition of your contribution and skills, and eroded confidence

Then come and work with me… That’s what I support my clients with.

When you work with me, I:

❤️‍ Foster a safe space for that transformation to happen and coach you through the resistance, the doubts and fears.

❤️‍ Embody the unapologetic, sovereign and grounded energy that’s needed to take such expansive action.

❤️‍ Take a methodical approach to coaching and take into consideration not only your personal circumstances, but the bigger systems at play (like capitalism, patriarchy, colonialism) and

❤️‍ Give you perspectives that connect all the different aspects together, so you can have a deeper understanding of yourself & the world, and finally be able to articulate all that you desire and interpret all that you’re feeling but lacking the words to express

If this resonates with you and you’re feeling the pull to work with me, DM me to see in which ways I can support you or book an exploratory call with me.

With love,
Ena
Your Divine Awakener

In my coaching practice with high-achieving entrepreneurs, the topic of relationships & how to deal with husbands not being able to handle their financial and professional success comes up for discussion a lot.

📌 It often boils down to women actively slowing down their growth, because they’re afraid to “lose” the relationship should they go over a certain threshold of success.

📌 Deep down they know that if they became fully unapologetic in their business, it would require of them to do that in all areas of their life.

And the underlying conclusion is that, if they became fully unapologetic in their personal life, their relationship would be at stake. And for a myriad of reasons, they’re not ready for that and they continue to suppress themselves.

📌Sometimes that fear is so strong & so deeply subconscious - they convince themselves that they don’t really want to progress as much and that they’re happy with the level of their professional & financial growth.

📌 They shrink their personality, intelligence, aspirations, resourcefulness, and achievements because they fear it will threaten the ego of the man.

The fear of the loss of the man bigger than the fear of the loss & abandonment of themselves…

❤️‍ When you coach with me, I will not be the one to tell you what you need to do and what are your next steps. You have all the answers within you.

❤️‍ I am, however, going to be the mirror for you, all your wishes, desires & non-negotiables…

❤️‍ I will coach you through the doubts about whether you’re making the right decision…

Through the insecurities about whether you are THAT powerful and strong.

Through the fears of the worst-case scenarios of you becoming more unapologetic.

❤️‍ I will hold the energy for you to feel your emotions, from grief, fear, and anger, to disappointment - and coach you through the phases of when you feel like going back on your decisions

❤️‍ I will guide you on how to increase the sense of safety whilst you’re taking the big, bold & expansive actions to embody this unapologetic & multifaceted you