when youāve been through something hardā¦
whether itās trauma, stress, burnout, or just a really overwhelming season of lifeā¦
your nervous system isnāt in a place to āgo all inā.
And thatās where most women get stuck.
You try to diet.
You try to get back into the gym.
You try to be consistentā¦
ā¦but everything feels too hard.
So you give up altogether and feel like a failure š„ŗ
What most people donāt realise is that thereās a phase BEFORE the glow up⦠šāØ
A phase where you:
ā regulate your nervous system
ā start to trust yourself again
ā slowly ease back into movement
ā stop forcing and start supporting your body
And then⦠you GO FOR IT š„
If you need help with thisā¦
Iām currently offering 33% off coaching to celebrate my 33rd birthday! š
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Iāve never done an offer like this before⦠and I wonāt be doing it again š
Youāve got until the end of April to take advantage ā³
If youāre ready to feel like YOU againā¦
DM me ācoachingā and letās chat š
Ebuni Louise - Mindset & Identity Coach
Helping mums rebuild self-belief & identity after burnout, breakups & big life changes š¦
If youāre struggling to balance the gym, healthy meals, kids, wine with the girls and a clean home⦠this is for you š«¶š½
As a single mum of 2 in my 30s, I donāt have time for 5 workouts a week.
I donāt even have time for 3 š„²
But I still want to feel strong, confident, energisedā¦
and enjoy my life āØ
The all-or-nothing approach is so 2020 and it just doesnāt work.
The good news is⦠It doesnāt have to. š
You just need a plan that fits your life, not takes over it šš½
One that focuses on the main things that really gets results and letās go of the things that just add more to your plate.
Iām currently offering 33% off coaching to celebrate my 33rd birthday š
⨠3 months = pay for 2, get 1 month free
⨠6 months = pay for 4, get 2 months free
Youāve got until the end of April ā³
DM ācoachingā if you want results without burning yourself out š
I have a confession to makeā¦
(watch to the end to see Romeo being hilarious š)
For a long time after my son was born, I acted from fear of judgement rather than trusting myself to do what was best for me and what Iām most good at.
I didnāt take on any new fitness clients for a whileā¦
I told myself I didnāt want to be in the fitness industry anymoreā¦
but the truth was⦠I wasnāt ready to face the pressure of looking like a fitness coach š«
I had a whole year away from the gym.
My body changed after having my second baby.
I was dealing with an injury.
And I was stuck in survival mode.
I felt like coaching others when I wasnāt training or meal prepping was hypocritical.
Until I realised⦠this is EXACTLY why I should be coaching š
Because I know there are other women out there, like me, juggling mum life or going through something challengingā¦
And we need a slightly different approach š¤
When youāve been through something hardā¦
your nervous system isnāt in a place to āgo all inā.
And thatās where most women get stuck.
You try to diet.
You try to get back into the gym.
You try to be consistentā¦
ā¦but everything feels too hard.
So you give up and feel like a failure š„ŗ
What most people donāt realise is that thereās a phase BEFORE the glow up⦠šāØ
A phase where you:
ā regulate your nervous system
ā start to trust yourself again
ā slowly ease back into movement
ā stop forcing and start supporting your body
And then⦠you GO FOR IT š„
Thatās what Iām doing now.
And itās sooo much easier to stay consistent (even with my chaotic life), not beat myself up on āoffā days, and actually train hard⦠because I laid the foundations first šš½
As a mum of 2 in my mid-thirties š«£ life looks different now.
I donāt have time to workout 5 days a week but I still want to feel strong.
Confident.
Energised.
Whilst enjoying my life āØ
If thatās what you want too⦠I can help you š¤
With 33% off online coaching:
⨠3 months = pay for 2, get 1 month free
⨠6 months = pay for 4, get 2 months free
Youāve got until the end of April ā³
DM ācoachingā and letās chat š
31/03/2026
Before & after photos donāt tell the full storyā¦
They donāt show the confidence, the mindset shifts, or how someone actually feels in their body.
Thatās what I focus on š«¶š½
If you want results that last, message me āCOACHINGā and letās chat š¤
If the gym feels intimidating⦠this is for you š
Comment or message āSTARTā and Iāll send you the details š¤
I know youād love to be one of those women who ooze confidence⦠inside the gym and out.
But right now⦠it feels like that could never be you.
Thatās not true, but it can feel that way when no oneās ever shown you how to train in a way that actually feels simple, safe, and gets results.
Most of the women I speak to are:
⢠unsure what exercises to do
⢠second guessing their form
⢠doing random workouts with no real progress
⢠or avoiding the gym altogether because it feels too intimidating
And when youāre already busy, overwhelmed, or a mumā¦
itās so easy to keep putting it off š„“
But honestlyā¦
In just 12 weeks⦠itāll be summer š
The best time to start was months ago
The second best time is now ā³
Thatās exactly why I created this.
A simple, structured way to help you:
ā feel confident in the gym
ā know exactly what youāre doing
ā build strength and actually start seeing results
without spending hours there or cutting out your favourite foods š„
Iām opening a small number of 1:1 personal training spaces this month.
This includes:
⢠weekly PT sessions
⢠a custom training programme
⢠simple, realistic nutrition plan
⢠app access + ongoing support
šø From Ā£160/month
š Burgess Hill
If you want one of the spaces, comment or message āSTARTā and Iāll send you the details š¤
23/03/2026
Comment CONSISTENCY and Iāll send you my method for free š¤
If I had to start from scratch with my fitnessā¦
I wouldnāt rely on motivation
I wouldnāt try to go all in on day one
And I definitely wouldnāt keep changing my plan every week or two š„“
You gotta know by now that the problem isnāt discipline or motivation.
Itās trying to become a completely different person overnight š
Real consistency comes from:
ā Regulating your nervous system
ā Simplifying your approach
ā And becoming the woman who actually follows through
Thatās exactly what I break down inside the Consistency Method.
Comment CONSISTENCY and Iāll send it to you š¤
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It didnāt feel like the right choice when I moved out at 8 months pregnant.
It didnāt feel like the right choice when I walked into the police station and told them everything.
It didnāt feel like the right choice when I had to start over⦠again.
Making the right choice doesnāt always feel like it at the time.
Sometimes it feels like your world is endingā¦
or even like a literal death š„²
Especially if youāve spent years putting other peopleās needs before your own.
But the truth isā¦
The right choices donāt always feel safe.
They often feel unfamiliar.
And unfamiliar feels terrifying when youāre used to settling.
But the best thing about endings is new beginnings.
The best thing about ālosing yourselfā is the version of you that you get to rebuild ā¤ļøāš„
Rebuild your confidence.
Rebuild your life.
Rebuild yourself mentally and physically.
If youāre in a season of making hard decisions, rebuilding or starting overā¦youāre not alone š¤
šš½ Follow for your physical, mental & emotional glow up š¦
17/03/2026
Struggling with confidence? Hereās how I rebuilt mine in just a few monthsā¦
[Save this post to come back to when youāre lacking self confidence]
š§ I regulated my nervous system first
Trauma keeps you stuck in survival mode, where everything feels like a threat. I had to feel safe again before I could grow.
š§ I set boundaries that protected my peace
This felt so uncomfortable at first. After years of having my boundaries ignored, putting myself first felt unnatural⦠but it was necessary.
š I raised my standards for my life
I decided I would never again tolerate being mistreated, by anyone, including myself. Self care stopped being optional.
šš½āāļø I got back into fitness
After having a baby and moving house 3 times in a year, the gym felt impossible. But I started small and used it as a way to rebuild trust with myself by keeping the promises I made.
š½ļø I became intentional about what I consume, mentally and physically.
I unfollowed anything that didnāt feel good and reconnected with nourishing my body through simple, wholesome meals.
⨠Most importantly⦠I shifted my identity
I decided who I wanted to be and stopped letting my circumstances define me. I worked through the limiting beliefs I had picked up and started visualising the life I actually want to create.
Hereās the tea āļøšš½
So many women spend years doubting themselves, shrinking themselves, or thinking theyāll magically feel more confident when theyāve changed their appearance.
But confidence isnāt something that just happens.
Itās something you build.
And Iāve created a system that helps you rebuild your body, your mindset, and your self belief so you can glow up physically, mentally, and emotionally āØ
Because creating a life youāre proud of starts with becoming the woman youāre proud to be š¤
Comment āGLOW UPā and Iāll send you the details š¬
If you struggle to put your needs first, it might not be a confidence problem.
For a lot of people, the real issue is that somewhere along the way they learned that choosing themselves led to punishment.
Maybe when you spoke up for yourself you were criticised.
Maybe love or approval was withdrawn.
Maybe you were made to feel selfish or dramatic.
So your brain learned that staying quiet and keeping the peace was safer.
Thatās why setting boundaries can feel so uncomfortable, even when you know itās the right thing to doā¦
But rebuilding self-trust often starts with choosing yourself.
Saying no without over-explaining.
Being honest about what you want.
Allowing someone to be disappointed.
Youāre allowed to take up space in your own life.
Is this something you struggle with? Let me know šš½
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