11/09/2026
A young player usually knows when they’ve made a mistake. They don’t always need the touchline to remind them.
How we respond in that moment can decide whether they want the ball again or begin hiding from it.
Three things I try to remember:
🧘 Stay calm
If our reaction looks bigger than the mistake, players can become scared to take risks.
👏 Praise the decision when it was right
The pass might not have reached its target, but the player may have recognised the correct option. We can separate a good decision from poor ex*****on.
➡️ Give one clear next step
“Check your shoulder earlier” is more useful than listing everything that went wrong.
Supporting confidence doesn’t mean ignoring mistakes or lowering standards. It means helping players understand what happened and preparing them for the next action.
Young players will make mistakes. The important question is whether our response encourages them to try again.
How do you help a player recover after a mistake? 👇