16/09/2026
If this type of infant water-safety and self-rescue course were more widely taught in the UK too, perhaps we would be having a very different conversation today. Rather than immediately saying “how cruel” or criticising the methods used by US instructors, I wish we could also look at the purpose behind these lessons — teaching young children essential skills that could potentially save their lives.
This tragedy involving a 3-year-old boy is absolutely heartbreaking. My deepest condolences go to his family and loved ones. Rest in peace, little one. 💙
Yes, this video may look upsetting. Nobody is denying that. But when these techniques are taught by properly trained professionals, in a controlled environment and with appropriate supervision, children can be taught how to respond instinctively in the water — how to float, how to roll onto their backs, and how to conserve energy while waiting for help.
I genuinely believe survival skills should be prioritised alongside play. Of course children need fun, confidence and enjoyment in the water, but if they are attending lessons for weeks, surely some of that time should also be dedicated to skills that could one day save their lives.
The UK could perhaps be more open to different approaches to teaching water safety. A few weeks of learning something that may feel challenging or uncomfortable at times, with professional guidance and appropriate safeguards, versus the potential consequences of a child not knowing what to do in an emergency — that's a conversation worth having.
One of my biggest pet peeves is also hearing adults say they don't want to learn to swim on their backs, or that they're happy simply getting from A to B with their face out of the water using a bit of doggy paddle.
But what happens if you get a cramp? What if someone jumps into the water close to you and you panic when your face goes under? What if someone grabs hold of you or accidentally pushes you underneath?
You don't need to be a competitive swimmer. You don't need to learn every racing stroke, tumble turn or starting dive. But everyone should know the basics of water survival — how to stay afloat, how to recover from an unexpected fall into the water, how to help someone safely, and, importantly, how to protect yourself when someone else is in difficulty.
You have to make sure you are safe before attempting to save somebody else. Even trained lifeguards learn specific techniques for dealing with a panicking or struggling swimmer, because a person fighting for breath can unintentionally pull or push their rescuer underwater.
That is why I believe learning to swim properly is about so much more than swimming lengths.
If we start early, get little ones comfortable and familiar with the water, and teach them essential survival skills — particularly floating on their backs and being able to roll onto their backs to breathe — we can give children another layer of protection and potentially reduce the risk of drowning.
Water should become familiar, not something to fear. But familiarity needs to come with respect, knowledge and survival skills. 💙