02/10/2026
I know to my own cost that no one applauds you for healing. In fact, you usually get resentment.
When you are neurodivergent, a survivor of trauma and/or toxic relationships, you are conditioned to keep everyone else comfortable. You mask your pain through performance and shrink your needs just so everyone else can take up space.
But the moment you stop self-abandoning, people get angry because you establish boundaries sending a signal you are no longer conveniently available for their mistreatment.
In my trauma recovery I lost my family, a partner, and friends and it left a quiet, heavy lonely space because my new life had to cost my old one. But honestly, I believe you HAVE to choose the discomfort of self-protection through strong boundaries over self-abandonment.
This exact reality is what drives my Trauma-Sensitive Yoga Therapy.
I do not practice a sweet version of yoga - I use it to reclaim power. We use somatic movement to help you discharge the anger of what youâve survived, and build an internal fortress so you can finally be the person you fall back on.
The quiet after you clear the toxicity isnât an empty voidâit is your safety. Your doors are open here. đ¤
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