Milou Hilhorst

Milou Hilhorst

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Helping all genders break free from narcissistic abuse, conditioning & survival mode. Ready to take your life back? Let’s go.

Reclaim your worth, stop the spiral, and create a life that feels like yours—peaceful, powerful, and real. I’m Milou — single mum of two, trauma-informed coach, and creator of The Narcissist Translator™. After a nervous breakdown, burnout, and years of people-pleasing, I realised I wasn’t broken — I was conditioned. Navigating life with a narcissist while raising my boys cracked me open and forced

31/12/2025

If you’re still waiting for a sign…
consider this it. 💌

We start tomorrow.
Tonight? Doors close.

Not in a dramatic “scarcity” way —
just in a this is when it starts way.

If you sit this one out, here’s what you’re actually skipping:
– a daily reset that stops the not-good-enough spiral
– fewer arguments with yourself
– less overthinking after normal conversations
– more control over your own head (finally)

It’s 10–12 minutes a day.
No live calls.
No pressure to perform.
No pretending you’ve got endless motivation.

And yes — it costs less than the takeaway you’ll regret ordering later 🙃

So the real question isn’t “should I?”
It's "Why shouldn't I?"
It’s whether you want to carry this into another year…

🚪 Doors close tonight, LAST CHANCE:

https://www.milouhilhorstcoaching.com/30daychallenge

You've got this!
And I've got you! 😘

31/12/2025

We start tomorrow.

Not in a “new year, new me” way.
More in a “I’m done carrying this sh*t into another year” way.

Here’s what this actually looks like in real life:
• One short video a day (3–5 minutes)
• One simple prompt
• About 10–12 minutes total

That’s it.

Not a personality overhaul.
Not a productivity project.
Just enough space each day to stop the not good enough loop from running the show.

No live calls.
No pressure to share.
No pretending you’ve suddenly got endless motivation.

And yes — everything’s set up in one place so you don’t have to chase links or “catch up later” (we both know how that ends).

If you’re tired of:
– replaying conversations
– doubting every decision
– ending the day annoyed and disappointed with yourself

THIS IS YOUR RESET

We start TOMORROW.
Doors close tonight.

It’s $27 — less than one impulse purchase you won’t even remember next week.

👉 Join here:
https://www.milouhilhorstcoaching.com/30daychallenge

Because you deserve to put yourself first for a change..

Milou 💛

Photos from Milou Hilhorst's post 30/12/2025

So… how does the 30-Day Challenge actually work?

👇 Here’s the scoop 👇

✅ Daily 4–5 min videos + prompts → Short, doable shifts you can fit into even the craziest day.
✅ Weekly themes → So your brain isn’t all over the place.
✅ Everything inside the online hub → One new video unlocks each day, so there’s no overwhelm.
✅ A safe community → Because you’re not meant to do this alone.
🎉 Closing integration session. Yes, we celebrate — because you deserve it.

It’s light. It’s simple.
And it’s designed to help you finally ditch the “not good enough” feelings without adding more overwhelm.

👉 Click here to grab your spot now:
https://www.milouhilhorstcoaching.com/30daychallenge

We kick off 1 January 2026. Don’t overthink it. Just jump in.

DOORS CLOSE TOMORROW!!

With excitement and warmth,
Milou 💛

29/12/2025

This relationship runs on:
☕ coffee
🙃 sarcasm
🚫 and absolutely no tolerance for unnecessary drama

Including the internal kind.
Especially the “you’re not good enough” nonsense.

Because here’s the thing —
life already feels like a full-blown Muppet Show some days.
You don’t need Miss Piggy levels of inner chaos on top of it.

The 30-Day Challenge isn’t about fixing you.
It’s about dropping the drama, the overthinking, and the self-sabotage
so you can actually enjoy your own life again.

Less noise.
More freedom.
Way more joy.

✨ We start January 1st, you in?

https://www.milouhilhorstcoaching.com/30daychallenge

28/12/2025

If this is the first time you’re seeing this, here’s what you need to know:

I run a 30-Day Challenge for people who are tired of living inside their own head —
overthinking, second-guessing, and still feeling like they’re somehow doing life wrong.

It’s not therapy.
And it certainly isn’t another “new year, new me” BS.

For 30 days, this is what you get out of it:

– You stop replaying conversations on a loop after they’ve already happened
– You make decisions without immediately doubting yourself
– You catch the “not good enough” voice while it’s happening — and don’t spiral
– You stop explaining yourself just to feel safe
– You end the day without mentally beating yourself up for everything you didn’t do

Not perfectly.
Not forever.
But noticeably.

Enough to feel the difference in real life —
at work, in relationships, in your own head.

It takes 10–12 minutes a day.
And it’s built for people who usually give up when things feel like too much.

We start January 1st.
Same life. Less internal nonsense. Way more JOY!!!

Join here:
https://www.milouhilhorstcoaching.com/30daychallenge

27/12/2025

The pond looks peaceful.
Until you realise you’ve been stepping around goose sh*t like it’s an Olympic sport. 🦆💩

That’s basically life with “not good enough.”
From a distance? Fine.
Up close? Constant dodging, overthinking, apologising, explaining, adjusting…

And somehow still feeling like you’re doing it wrong.

January isn’t about becoming a new person.
It’s about cleaning this sh*t up so you can actually enjoy your own life again.

The 30-Day Challenge is for people who are DONE:
✔ done overthinking
✔ done people-pleasing
✔ done dragging the same crap into another year

10–12 minutes a day.
No overwhelm.
No pretending you’re calm and healed.

Just less internal nonsense.

👇JOIN HERE 👇
https://www.milouhilhorstcoaching.com/30daychallenge

Come clean the pond.

25/12/2025

🎄 Merry Christmas 🎄
to all my friends and family
🏡 near and far 🌎

May your hearts be full with love and joy 💖💖

30-Day Challenge to Get Rid of -Not Good Enough- Feelings 24/12/2025

New year. Same BS? Nahh... Not this time.

We DON'T do “new year, new you” fantasies anymore. 😅

Enough of it!

This is a 30-day reset for people who are tired of overthinking, people-pleasing, and never feeling enough — no matter how hard they try.

Small daily shifts. Real change.

👇 Grab your spot here. 👇
https://www.milouhilhorstcoaching.com/30daychallenge

January 2026 is for you.

30-Day Challenge to Get Rid of -Not Good Enough- Feelings Sick & tired of never feeling enough? The 30-Day Challenge helps you reset in 30 days—free your mind, feel worthy, and live life on your terms.

30-Day Challenge to Get Rid of -Not Good Enough- Feelings 22/12/2025

💪 30-DAY CHALLENGE TO DITCH THE -NOT GOOD ENOUGH- 💪

Opt-in for the next round is officially open.
We start on 1 January 2026 —
a clean slate, without the usual “new year, new me” nonsense.

This challenge is simple by design:
30 days. One tiny daily shift. Zero overwhelm.

A reset that works because it fits real life, not some perfect version of it.

If you want to start the new year grounded, clearer, and done with the -I’m not good enough- loop…

👇 YOU CAN JOIN NOW HERE 👇

https://www.milouhilhorstcoaching.com/30daychallenge

Because life is too short to waste another year...

30-Day Challenge to Get Rid of -Not Good Enough- Feelings Sick & tired of never feeling enough? The 30-Day Challenge helps you reset in 30 days—free your mind, feel worthy, and live life on your terms.

20/12/2025

This Monday, 22 December, I’m opening opt-in for the next round of the 30-Day Challenge to ditch the “not good enough”.

We start on 1 January 2026 — the perfect moment to begin the new year with a transformation that actually lasts, not a resolution you’ll forget by week two.

If you’ve spent 2025 carrying the
“I should be better by now”
or
“I’m failing at life…”
feeling around with you…

Then this is the reset you’ll want going into the new year.

If you’re interested, comment “YES, I want that!”
I’ll make sure you get the exclusive early-access opt-in.

Milou

01/12/2025

Before doors close tonight… here’s what this whole Black Friday week reminded me:

Most people aren’t stuck because they’re weak.
They’re stuck because they’ve spent YEARS putting everyone else first…
and calling it “being a good person.”

And if this week proved anything, it’s that you deserve more than survival-mode mornings and “I’m fine” lies.

If you’ve been hovering, overthinking, debating, doing the whole
“maybe next time… maybe next year… maybe when life calms down” dance —
this is your permission slip to choose yourself without apologising for it.

If you’re exhausted, stretched thin, and running on fumes — you don’t have to keep living like that.

🖤 Grab what you need before it’s gone:

https://www.milouhilhorstcoaching.com/blackfriday2025

You’ve shown up for everyone else all year.
Tonight is about you. 💛

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