25/08/2026
Our Why: A Family's 15-Year Journey with Dementia
Saturday, we lost Dad. Today, we're reflecting on why Fore' Get Me Not Golf exists—and recommitting to our mission.
Our family's story begins with love, golf, and Ipswich Town FC. Dad introduced me to the game and the sport that defined my career as a PGA professional. At six years old, he took me to watch Ipswich Town FC—sparking a passion we shared for life. We travelled the country together. We built memories together. We supported a club we loved, through thick and thin.
Dad's building business was his pride. He constructed with purpose and integrity—including the home of Sir Bobby Robson, an Ipswich legend. He also built the Centre Spot at Portman Road, which has evolved into the Legends Suite and Golden Days café—a vital community space supporting people living with dementia.
Then dementia came to our family.
3½ years ago, we lost Mum to dementia. Saturday, we lost Dad. After 15 years living this journey, we understand the weight of this disease—the loss, the love, the resilience required.
From that grief came purpose.
I founded Fore' Get Me Not Golf to support families and individuals navigating dementia through the power of sport, connection, and community. My wife Jacqui has been beside me every step. Our children Mark and Charlotte are fully committed to this mission. My brother Andy and sister Julie, along with our extended family, are equally dedicated to ensuring Dad's legacy lives on through the lives we touch and support.
We believe that golf—whether you've played for decades or never picked up a club—can transform lives. It creates moments of joy, dignity, and belonging when dementia threatens to take them away.
A moment of grace amid grief:
Mark, Charlotte and I were at Ipswich Town FC's return to the Premiership on Saturday. Through tears we felt joy as the team managed to win for us and Dad. It was so poignant—a reminder that even in our darkest moments, there are glimmers of hope and connection.
Dad was selfless, generous, and proud. His legacy lives on in every person we support through Fore' Get Me Not Golf.
Our new campaign: "Every Golf Club Can Change A Life"
We believe that every golf club has the power to make a difference. Whether through our structured programmes or simply opening your doors to people living with dementia and their families, you can be part of something transformative.
If dementia has touched your life, you're not alone. We're here to help. Whether you'd like to volunteer, donate, or simply connect with others on this journey, we'd love to hear from you.
Visit us at www.foregetmenotgolf.co.uk to:
• Learn more about our mission
• Support our crowdfunding campaign
• Volunteer with us
• Donate
• Get in touch
Rest easy, Dad. We're carrying it forward. 💙
'Fore' Get Me Not Golf provides accessible golf sessions to those with living with dementia. Weekly sessions available.