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KIDNEY BUSINESS.

I believe we have heard the story of the missing kidney.

Well, thats not what am talking about. Am drawing a lesson from the story as shared by VDM.

See the photo of the boys and the friend who has also sold his kidney for 7 million.

So this boy chop 7 million still be laidis?

This young Generation just want to have money. Money they are not prepared or trained to have.

The thing about working your way to success is that the work does not just bring the success, it prepares you to handle it and sustain it .

See boy wey chop 7 million. E no even look like say em don see 100k chop.

But thats what you get when you get money you are not prepared for .

Its juat like giving all of us a pot full of holes to fetch water.. until we learn to patch the holes with something that will hold, we will never be able to deliver water , even though we may still fetch it . It will leak away and we have to go again and again and again .

But one who took his time to learn to patch the hole and patch it correctly, will fetch once, and will always have water !

You have been informed .

MONEY BUYS HAPPINES.

You have obviously never had either.

Imagine borrowing your friend's Lamborghini for a wedding.

Does it feel the same driving it when it's borrowed as when it's yours?

Money can buy what looks like happiness, but often it's only renting it.

And somehow, the human mind knows the difference.

That's why people search for real love. If imitation was enough, nobody would care whether love was genuine or purchased.

I have encountered many people who talk about why they do not want to align with Christianity. Yet everything they point to is not even Christianity itself, but things Christians do.
Without going into detail, before you reject something, you should at least find out what it is, not what you are told it is.

People often reject Christianity because of Christians, not because they have examined Christ.

Many people, including many renowned Christian pastors, have not discovered Christianity. Rather, they are following a religion that serves them.

For what it is worth, Christianity is not a religion. It became religious as people took to it.

What do I mean?

By the very word Christianity, it means a life like Christ. To live a life the way Christ lived.
You must understand that we are all trying to seek God in one way or another, whether through tradition, atheism, Islam, or any other path. Yet none of us can claim absolute certainty. We only hope we are right.

But Christ walked the earth and demonstrated in many ways that He is the Son of God. Even if you do not believe that claim, He remains the person who has shown the closest likeness to Godliness, the way of God.

Therefore, it only makes sense that the surest way to God would be to live life as Christ lived. Godliness.

What we call church today is simply a fellowship of people seeking to live that same life.
That is what Christianity is.
Every other thing that has come upon Christianity, even as it has become a religion, is man made. God is not religious. The way to God is not religious either.

Therefore, to properly examine Christianity, one must examine the life of Christ Himself, not the failures of those who claim to follow Him.

So have you examined the life of Christ as documented, and found it wanting?

MEN ARE POLYGAMOUS IN NATURE.

A very controversial assertion!

Someone Made this post. And I gave an answer i think may benefit many. I am compressing a lot within a single comment so if you are confused , do well to ask queations or express your disagreement so it can be clarified.

Brace up! Long Teaching.

You dont need to agree, you just need to think deeper .

As part of one of the works I am currently doing , we delved into this question.

For you to understand this. You need to understand that God did not create marriage, unlike the Christian faith tries to portray it.. human beings designed marriage for the fulfilment of Gods purpose for creation.

What is Gods purpose for creation . It is clearly written in Genesis . To multiply and dominate the earth . That is to reproduce and master the earth .
So the purpose of creating Adam and Eve is for reproduction not marriage.
And across all creations, reproduction needs two parts. Even in plants .
So only the two parts necessary for reproduction was created.

Adam and Eve where not husband and wife.. cos no one wedded them, and no one witnessed it. For there to be a wedding, there will be a bride, groom, bride parents who hands over the bride to groom.

Marriage means joining. Adam and Eve was created as two sides of the same human, already joined. They had no choice to it. They existed as united.

That means any two people can be united in purpose even without beeing husband and wife.
You need to think outside the words themsleves here to understand what am driving.

That means for their to be husband and wife, there will be father inlaw and mother inlaw. And then there will be a law.. a social law. Even if they where dead . They existed.

But Adam and Eve had non of that. They where the structure of the begining . It was only after reproduction continued to populate the earth, then marriage became necessary to give order, responsibility ans commintment to our processes of reproduction.

So God did not create Adam and Eves becuase it was not necessary. God Created Adam and Eve because thats all life needed to reproduce and dominate the earth .

But one thing was for sure.
The authority to name things and control things was vested in Adam. God did not interfere with it.

When Eve was made,.she was brought to Adam, who accepted her and named her.
That means whatever He called anything or anyone is what they become.
Adam called Even woman. Thats what she is.
When a Man calls any woman his wife , 1 or 10, thats what they become.

But at the same time, he will be judged not by the number of women he named his wife, but how responsible he was to it.
Thats where God focuses on. Was he able to live upto his responsibility to whatever he has named ?

If he named 1 woman as his wife, then he will be judged for 1 woman. If he bamed 10 women as his wives, then his responsibility spreads to 10 women and he will be judged by it as well.

Men are polygamous in nature does not mean every Man must be promiscuous. No.
Polygamy here means multiple reproductive partners, not multiple marriages, because reproduction was the purpose of creation not marriage.
Hence marriage is not natrual , reproduction is.

The word there is "Nature", meaning origin !. That means Men have the capacity to have multiple women. So long as he has the capacity to be responsible for them all, he can comfortably reproduce with all of them, and protect all of them .
Thats what it means.
Yet does not mean he must, or he will.

Unfortunately a woman cannot. Does not mean she cannot try.

At the end of the day, within the limits of nature, a woman can only concieve for one Man and stay pregnant for at least 9 months
During this time, the same Man who impregnated her can easily impregnate several hundreds if not thousands of other women .

That means within natural bounds, which is biological or reproduction only, not cultural or social , a Man is polygamous, a woman is not.

But at the same time, a woman is hypergamous. It is not a natural or biologucal limitation, it is a social one.
That means she can choose the top Man to lay with .

So while a Man can only lay with women who accept him, as many as he can.
A woman can choose the best of all the Men and lay with him.

This becomes complimentary to a comment i wrote in your earleir post.

The polygamous nature of Man and the hypergamous nature of Woman creates a natural cycle that drives reproduction and evolution of the human species.

So when it is said that Men are polygamous in nature and women are not. It is strictly based on what nature has empowered them to do or not do.

Nature has empowered every woman to be a mother, carry a child within her , bond with it and know it. But no Man can have that experience within natural limits because he does not have the natural capacity to.

Today's Memory Verse.

Hello. Long time!
A few words for you today!
"Truth hurts, but it alai sets you free".
Read it again!.

What Brother Jim Iyke Says....

Ofcourse.. you don't need common sense to understand this.
But most social media modern women lack any form of sense and they are debating on this.

Men succeed by walking the path other Men has worked and approved .
If you want to be your own path breaker... its nice.. I will like to write about you.

I am Fada Solomon

Check This !
Modern Women try to shame Men for the same things they are ashamed of. 😆
You can't shame the shameless!