Nana Quasi-Gamor

Dear Sisters,

I have been disturbed over an issue for a very long time and I hope I get the best advice tonight.

It all started 5 months ago, where my sister had to undergo a surgery and the family didn't have the money to pay for the surgery.

I confided in a senior colleague at work and she was willing to help but it came with a condition. This 48-year old woman said she will give me the said amount of money only if I spend one night with her.

I'm about half her age and this is the condition she’s giving me? I thought to myself.

I had asked several friends for help but nothing fruitful came out of it. Things were proving difficult for me and my sister's life was on the line. I finally gave in to this 48-year old woman and slept with her.

She gave me the money afterwards as promised and my sister's surgery was fully paid for.
I have been feeling so guilty about what I had done because I have a girlfriend. I have tried to take my mind off it but it's just not working.

I feel I should just come clean with my girlfriend about it. It's really eating me up, please help me.

My Husband Is Mourning His Dead Mistress - three months ago, the woman who was having an affair with my husband died suddenly from an accident. I found out about the affair only two days after her funeral. I thought she was simply a co-worker and I was wondering why my husband was so disturbed and emotional. He quit his job, saying it was too traumatic to go to work. She was in the early weeks of pregnancy when she died and my husband doesn't know whether he or her husband was the father. So, on top of everything, he's also grieving for a baby which may or may not have been his. I find it extremely difficult to be emotionally supportive when he wakes up at 3 a.m. crying and trembling-yet I don't have the heart to yell at him like I want to. He says she's dead, so there's no reason for me to feel jealous or threatened, and asks for my understanding as he grieves. We've barely talked these last weeks because I don't know how to respond to my husband when he cries and says he misses her and wishes she were here, then also how much he loves me and that he never intended to leave me. I asked him to visit a marriage therapist together and he said he's "not ready" to work on our marriage, and thinks he needs to see a grief therapist instead. Do I need to give him time to mourn the loss of his mistress? Or should demand he focus on our marriage?

COMMON EWE NAMES AND THEIR MEANING.

Aƒefa:👉🏿Peaceful house/calm house
Aƒeke:👉🏿 Root of the house
Aƒelete:👉🏿Established home
Agbe:👉🏿Life
Agbeko:👉🏿If only there is life
Agbemabiase:👉🏿Life can't question destiny
Agbemaƒle:👉🏿Life can't be bought/Life is priceless
Agbenyefia:👉🏿Life is the king
Agbenyega:👉🏿Life is the greatest
Agbenyo:👉🏿Life is good
Agbesi:👉🏿In the hands of life
Akɔfa: Comfort/Peaceful heart
Akɔfala: Consoler/comforter
Akpe:👉🏿Thanks
Akpenamawu:👉🏿Thank God
Akpene:👉🏿Thank thee
Amenyo:👉🏿Human is good
Ameteƒe:👉🏿Replacement/Advocate (a son whose father died before his birth)
Amewu/Amewuga: Human is precious than money
Asiwome:👉🏿In thy hands
Aseye:👉🏿Praises
Awoe:👉🏿He (God) will do
Awoenam:👉🏿He (God) will do it for me
Blewu:👉🏿Slow/Patient
Bubune:👉🏿Honour onto Him(God)
Butsɔme:👉🏿Think of tomorrow
Butsɔmekpɔ:👉🏿Think of tomorrow n see
Dela:👉🏿Savior/redeemer
Deladem:👉🏿The savior redeems me
Delali:👉🏿The savior lives/The redeemer lives
Delana:👉🏿The savior gives
Delanya:👉🏿The savior knows
Delasi:👉🏿In the savior’s hands/The saviors has heard
Desiadenyo:👉🏿All is good
Dodzi:👉🏿Fortitude
Dogbeda:👉🏿Pray
Dɔmenyo:👉🏿Kindness
Dzidedi:👉🏿Comfort
Dzidudu:👉🏿Victory
Dzidula:👉🏿Conqueror
Dzidzeme:👉🏿Peaceful heart
Dzidzor:👉🏿Joy/Happiness
Dzidzorm:👉🏿Am happy
Dziedzorm:👉🏿Glad i am
Dzifa:👉🏿Comfort/Peace at heart
Dzigbɔdi:👉🏿Patient
Dzɔdzoe:👉🏿Righteous/Just
Dzɔgbenyui:👉🏿Good luck
Edem:👉🏿He (God) has saved me/He (God) has delivered me
Edemi:👉🏿He (God) has saved us/He (God) has delivered us
Edudzi:👉🏿He (God) has vanquish
Edotom:👉🏿He (God) has heed me
Edotomi:👉🏿He (God) has heard us
Edrɔlali:👉🏿The judge lives
Edinam:👉🏿Am lucky
Edinami:👉🏿We are lucky
Edzɔdzi:👉🏿 It makes happiness
Edzɔdzinam:👉🏿It made me happy
Edzɔdzinawo:👉🏿It made them happy
Edzɔdzinami:👉🏿It made us happy
Efakor/Efakornam:👉🏿He (God) has comforted me
Ɛhenyuive:👉🏿Bringer of joy
Ekplɔm:👉🏿He (God) leads me
Eleagbe:👉🏿He (God) is alive
Eli:👉🏿He (God) lives
Elinam:👉🏿He (God) lives for me
Elinami:👉🏿He (God) lives for us
Elivava:👉🏿He (God) lives truely
Elikplim:👉🏿He (God) is with me
Elikplimi:👉🏿He (God) is with us
Elikɛ:👉🏿Rooted in solid ground/established
Elikɛm:👉🏿He (God) has established/fortified me
Elikɛmi:👉🏿He (God) has established/fortified us
Elemawusi:👉🏿In the hands of God
Elolo:👉🏿He (God) is great
Etriakɔ:👉🏿He (God) is undefeatable
Elɔm:👉🏿He (God) loves me
Elɔmi:👉🏿He (God) loves us
Emefa:👉🏿The is calm
Ena:👉🏿He (God) gives
Enam:👉🏿He (God) gives me
Enami:👉🏿He (God) gives us
Enya:👉🏿He (God) knows
Enyam:👉🏿He (God) knows me
Enyami:👉🏿He (God) knows us
Enyo:👉🏿It's good
Enyonam:👉🏿It’s good for me
Ese:👉🏿He (God) hears
Esenam:👉🏿He (God) has heard me
Eselali:👉🏿The hearer (God) lives
Eselase:👉🏿The hearer (God) had heard
Esinu:👉🏿Waiting upon the Lord
Etɔ:👉🏿Belongs to him (God)/He (God) has answered
Etɔnam:👉🏿He (God) has answered me
Etɔnami:👉🏿He (God) has answered us
Etɔna:👉🏿He (God) answers
Eyra:👉🏿He (God) blesses
Eyiram:👉🏿He (God) has blessed me/Am blessed
Eyirami:👉🏿He (God) has blessed us/We are blessed
Eyrae:👉🏿He (God) has blessed him/her
Ewe/Ewoe:👉🏿He (God) has done it
Ewenan/Ewoenam:👉🏿He (God) has done it for me
Ewenami/Ewoenami:👉🏿He (God) has done it for us
Exɔnam:👉🏿He ( God) has saved/rescued me
Fafa:👉🏿Peace/calmness
Fafali:👉🏿There is peace/calmness
Fiavi:👉🏿Prince/Princess
Tsoeke:👉🏿Forgive
Tsoekewo:👉🏿Forgive them
Foli:👉🏿First son
Gameli:👉🏿There is time
Ganyo:👉🏿Money is good
Galevo:👉🏿Money is different
Ganyebusu:👉🏿money is evil
Gayra:Bless again
Gayram:👉🏿Bless me again
Gayrami:👉🏿Bless us again
Kafui:👉🏿Praise him(God)
Kekeli/Kekle: Light/ brightness
Kle:👉🏿Shine /bright
Klenam:👉🏿Shine for me
Klenami:👉🏿Shine for us
Kplɔm:👉🏿Lead me
Kplɔla:👉🏿Leader/shepherd
Lebenam:👉🏿Take good care of me
Lebene:Take good care of him/her/it
Lɔm:👉🏿Love/adore me
Lɔlɔnyo:👉🏿Love is good/Is good to love
Lɔlɔ:👉🏿Love
Lɔne:👉🏿Agree for him/her
Mawuƒɛmɔ:👉🏿God's way
Mawuko:👉🏿Only God/Except God
Mawunyo:👉🏿God is good
Mawusi:👉🏿In God’s hands
Mawuli:👉🏿God lives
Mawulinam:👉🏿God lives for me
Mawulɔm:👉🏿God loves me
Mawuena:👉🏿It's God who gave
Mawuenam:👉🏿It's God who gave me
Mawunya:👉🏿God knows/God's word
Mawulikplim:👉🏿God is with me
Mawulikplimi:👉🏿God is with us
Mawuenyega:👉🏿God is the greatest
Mawuse:👉🏿God hears
Mawulolo:👉🏿God is great
Mawutor:👉🏿Belongs to God/God has answered
Mawueyram:👉🏿It's God who blessed me
Wawuworge:👉🏿God will do it
Mawuwoe:👉🏿God has done it
Makafui:👉🏿I will praise him (God)
Maziŋpki:👉🏿I'll be silent
Morkpɔkpɔ:👉🏿Hope
Nalikem:👉🏿Establish/Fortify me
Nuna:👉🏿Gift
Nunana:👉🏿Gift/Talent
Nunya:👉🏿Knowledge/wisdom
Nunyati:👉🏿Tree of knowledge/wisdom
Nuku:👉🏿Wonder
Nukunu/Ŋkunu miracle
Nyuitɔ:👉🏿Perfect/Best
Se:👉🏿Law/Destiny/Fate
Sedem:👉🏿Destiny/Fate has saved/delivered me
Sedemi:👉🏿Destiny/Fate has saved/delivered us
Sedinam:👉🏿Destiny/Fate made me lucky
Sedotom:👉🏿 Destiny has heard me
Sedufia:👉🏿Destiny/Fate is crown king
Sedudzi:👉🏿Destiny/Fate has triumph
Sefakor:👉🏿Destiny/Fate has comforted me
Sefadzi:👉🏿Destiny/Fate has given me solace
Seli:👉🏿Destiny/Fate lives
Selinam:👉🏿Destiny/Fate lives for me
Seyiram:👉🏿Destiny/Fate has blessed me
Seyirami:👉🏿Destiny/Fate has blessed us
Selɔm:👉🏿Destiny/Fate loves me.
Sesi/Seshi:👉🏿In the hands of destiny/Fate
Sesɛ:👉🏿Destiny/Fate hears
Sena:👉🏿Destiny/fate gives
Senam:👉🏿Destiny gives me/Destiny’s gift to me
Sename:👉🏿Destiny's gift to mankind
Senya:👉🏿Destiny knows
Selase:👉🏿The hearer (God) has heard
Senyo:👉🏿Destiny/Fate is good
Sedotom:👉🏿Destiny/Fate has heard me
Setɔ:👉🏿Belongs to Destiny/ Destiny has answered
Suboe:👉🏿Worship him
Sitso/Sitsoƒe:👉🏿Salvation
Xoese:👉🏿Believe
Xɔse:👉🏿Faith
Xɔnam:👉🏿Save me
Wɔlanyo:👉🏿The creator (God) is good
Vadem:👉🏿Come and save me
Valikem:👉🏿Come and establishe me
Vayram:👉🏿Come and bless me
Vɔmawu:👉🏿Fear God
Yra:👉🏿Bless
Yayra:👉🏿Blessing
Yiram:👉🏿Bless me
Yirami:👉🏿Bless us
Yingɔ:👉🏿Excell
EWE NAMES ARE UNISEX

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Diana Aku Agyare, Nanayaw Desire Philip, Frank Osei, Jennifer Mensah, Nana Oware Jnr

Me and my husband have different cars, but we still borrow each others own and run errands.

But for 3 years now, he hardly feels comfortable when I use his car. So last year January he bought a new car and gave me his old car and told me that I should stay off his new car.

I didn't read meaning to this thing until I overheard our apprentice boys over the kitchen window, discussing how they used to see different condoms inside my husband's new car.

I didn't believe till I saw them myself last week. He came back drunk last week and was so soaked in alcohol and he slept off. I went to his and I saw a lot.

Condoms and even g strings pants with labels still on them. I saw some empty antibiotics medication, and that took me back to the test I had last 5 months when I was having rashes on my private, and it became so sore.

I started asking myself how I got this infection because I have never ever cheated on my husband.
I saw 2 Samsung phones, and I switched on one and read messages that gave me a heart attack.

Even that day he came back drunk, he slept with somebody's wife and the woman was telling him that she didn't get enough of him, that she will want them to spend the whole of next Saturday together, that she has a wedding and will use that as an excuse. He is sleeping with almost 7 married women. I will stop here, ma.

How do I handle this. We have 2 boys. My husband is 48 years old, and I am 40 years old. 14 years of marriage.

Please hide my identity.

I just found out I'm pregnant for my sister's husband. It could also be for my husband..I'm not sure but based on my calculations and the last time I and my husband did it, I'm not sure it's for husbee.

So my younger sis gave birth some weeks ago and I have been going there to help her take care of her baby. Our mum is late, and I'm her only sister. Hmmm how her husband and I started doing it is a long story but we know ourselves from way back. He and I were classmates and he used to visit my house and that's how he met my sis. No one knows, but her husband was the one who broke my virginity in Secondary School but we never called it a relationship cos we were young and just playing around.

This is the first time my safe period has betrayed me. Cos last year before the two got married, we made a mistake and did shuperu at his house and before that we have done it other times during my safe period. We didn't mean to but I don't know..we have this weird attraction. The problem is that I'm married. I have tried to have a baby with my husband for 6 years and no show. I'm sure my brother-in-law will tell me to abort it if he finds out. The right thing is to abort cos I don't want to hurt my sis like this.

But my husband and I have been praying for a child and I am tempted to just give it to him. The thing too, I have a feeling it could be for my husband cos I have done it with both men.

Please advice is needed.

More Grace Apostle 🔥🔥🔥

An elephant and a dog became pregnant at same time. Three months down the line the dog gave birth to six puppies. Six months later the dog was pregnant again, and nine months on it gave birth to another dozen puppies. The pattern continued.

On the eighteenth month the dog approached the elephant questioning, "Are you sure that you are pregnant? We became pregnant on the same date, I have given birth three times to a dozen puppies and they are now grown to become big dogs, yet you are still pregnant. Whats going on?". The elephant replied, "There is something I want you to understand. What I am carrying is not a puppy but an elephant. I only give birth to one in two years. When my baby hits the ground, the earth feels it. When my baby crosses the road, human beings stop and watch in admiration, what I carry draws attention. So what I'm carrying is mighty and great."

Moral Of The Story.

Don't lose faith when you see others receive answers to their prayers. Don't be envious of others testimony.
If you haven't received your own blessings, don't despair. Say to yourself "My time is coming, and when it hits the surface of the earth, people shall yield in admiration."
Always stay encouraged!.

ANONYMOUS
My wife cheated on me with her ex, got pregnant and passed the pregnancy off to me. I didn't know. When I remember the 16000 I spent on CS, NICU and other things and I get angry now. When the boy was 3 years old, her ex came back from the USA and my loving wife's attitude changed. Last last she left the boy with me to spend a whole weekend with the guy.

I told her never to step foot in the house again because I don't want my son to know the kind of woman his mother is. She asked me, "what son?" I couldn't sleep that night because she refused to answer my calls. I nearly went crazy.

3 months later, she came crying for forgiveness because the ex secretly got married but my mind was already made up. Our families came in, the court gave us some exercises but though I tried my mind wasn't it. I did a secret DNA and confirmed the boy isn't mine. I drove her out with the boy and refused to take any responsibility.

It's been a year now and people keep sending me photos of the bad state of the boy. Sometimes he doesn't go to school (school fees I guess) and she seems to be struggling taking care of him but I'm not moved. She left her bowl of fufu to chew hard bread. She should continue, I don't care anymore.