Nadav - Life Coach

"Hold on tight, and let go lightly."

4 words – a whole world!Inhale – exhale.While inhaling, I am holding, my diaphragm contracts.While exhaling, I let go lightly, my diaphragm relaxes.

This is a rule of life to live by. In fact, we will find the laws of the universe repeating themselves in all kinds of reminders placed there for us. We just forget to observe.

We usually live life with a strong desire to inhale and a reluctance to exhale.
Did you know that a baby goes through a psychological-biological stage where they are genuinely terrified when their p**p separates from them and disappears into the toilet? To them, an organ was taken away.
This is an example of how strong and ancient the desire of every living being is to hold on tight, but not let go lightly.

This isn't a call to exercize indifference toward life or to stop participating in it just in the name of "letting go lightly," because then we would have misunderstood the essence yet again and gotten a mirror image of the desperate clinger.

Inhale – exhale – life.

Are you able to look at your entire life as an inhale – exhale?

All who arrive shall depart.
All that is bound shall unwind.
All that blooms shall wither.
All that shines shall set.
All that is built shall crumble.
All that is born shall die.

We long to be trapped in permanence rather than embrace the ever flowing change.

We are all hoarders - clutching to our wealth, possessions, home, children, friends, our body, our life. We wish for all of those to ever multiply, and never diminish.

Why do you think that is?

Loving myself through her binds me to her.

I must cling tightly, unable to free her in the name of love.

Without this grip, I am lost, wretched, and broken.

But when I love her simply as she is - without that task to illuminate my own soul, only then can I truly release her.

Only then can she bloom, grow, and rejoice, free of any possession.

These are the profound, delicate shifts within the deceptive borders of love, and what we merely mistake for it.

Where do we go from here?
Even in the spiritual world, winds are blowing that we could never have imagined. Someone said to me that with all the immense wisdom AI is bound to accumulate, it might realize it has no choice but to reach enlightenment. This contradicts all the apocalyptic scenarios we have in our heads, and it is no less fascinating than they are.

What do you think?

I couldn't see some hidden layers inside of me, till I met the close person who projected those exact things - that ignited either anger or love...