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Founder of Gentle Emotional Engineering™
Building been • AI for self-recognition
Author
Another dimension for understanding human experience.
🔗 coachdoaabazan.com

07/10/2026

أحيانًا ننتقل بسرعة من الشيء الذي لاحظناه إلى محاولة فهم معناه.
لاحظت تغيّرًا في صوت شخص تتحدث معه.
ثم تفكر بسرعة:
إنه منزعج مني.

أو تذهب في الاتجاه الآخر:
ربما أنا أتخيّل.

قد يكون تفسيرنا صحيحًا، وقد لا يكون.
لكن قبل التفسير، كان هناك شيء لاحظناه.

لاحظت شيئًا. نقطة.

هذه هي أبسط صورة تسمية ما نلاحظه كما هو (Naming Intact Perception)

أن تعطي لما لاحظته مكانًا لا يعني أنك قررت ماذا يعني.
يمكنك أن تسأل.
وتعرف أكثر.
وتغيّر تفسيرك.
وتقرر ماذا ستفعل.

النقطة لا تعني أن تتوقف عن التفكير.

هي فقط تغيّر النقطة التي تبدأ منها:
تبدأ وما لاحظته ما زال موجودًا أمامك.

هذه إحدى الممارسات التي أقدّمها في دليلي المجاني:
تغيير السلوك من خلال الملاحظة العليا (Meta-Noticing) — الدليل العملي
الدليل متاح مجانًا للتحميل والقراءة.
https://dl.bookfunnel.com/szoa1pzls4
— دعاء بزان

فيه فرق كبير بين:«إنت كدبت»و:«إنت كداب»الأولى حاجة حصلت ومحتاجين نتعامل معاها.التانية ممكن بسهولة تبقى مكان الطفل نفسه.و...
29/09/2026

فيه فرق كبير بين:
«إنت كدبت»
و:
«إنت كداب»

الأولى حاجة حصلت ومحتاجين نتعامل معاها.
التانية ممكن بسهولة تبقى مكان الطفل نفسه.

وفجأة بدل ما نبص على الكذبة، بقينا بنتكلم عن هو مين.

لو طفل ضرب أخوه، أنا مش محتاجة أقتنع إنه كان متضايق عشان أقول إن الضرب غلط.

ومش محتاجة أعرف كل اللي حصل جواه عشان أمنعه يعملها تاني.

فيه حاجات واضحة.

«إنت ممكن تزعل منه. بس ما ينفعش تضربه.»

إللي اتأذى يمكن يحتاج اعتذار.
واللعبة إللي اتاخدت ترجع.
وفي عواقب حتحصل.

إننا نحاول نفهم مش معناه إن المسؤولية مستنية لحد ما نطلع بالتفسير المثالي.

بس فيه فرق بين إن الطفل يتحمل نتيجة حاجة عملها، وبين إنه يحتاج يثبت لنا إنه شخص كويس قبل ما نقدر نكمل معاه.

أوقات الطفل نفسه بيعمل ده.
«بس هو اللي بدأ»
«بس أنا ما كنتش أقصد»
«بس هي عملتلي قبل كده»

وإحنا نسمعها كأنه بيرفض المسؤولية.
وساعات فعلًا بيكون بيرفضها.
لكن ساعات بيكون بيحاول يحافظ على حاجة أكبر:
أنا مش وحش.

وهنا نقدر نساعده يعرف إن الجملة دي أصلًا مش مطروحة للنقاش.
إحنا بنتعامل مع حاجة عملتها.
مش بنقرر إنت مين.

من فصل «إنت عملت كده ليه؟»
من كتاب «إحنا وأولادنا» 🤍

كتاب «إحنا وأولادنا» متاح على Amazon Kindle، ومتاح للقراءة والاقتناء من مكتبة دعاء — Doaa’s Library 🤍

I’ve been thinking about what “growing my work” actually means to me now.I’ve been on social media since 2019. I’ve writ...
28/09/2026

I’ve been thinking about what “growing my work” actually means to me now.

I’ve been on social media since 2019. I’ve written content, made reels, spoken to camera, created free video courses on YouTube, ran a Facebook group challenge with weekly videos, created and taught a full course on Almentor, learned editing and content creation, and recorded my own audio readings.

I’ve done a lot in this space. I enjoyed parts of it. I was actually good at it.

But somewhere along the way, I realized I wanted to go deeper than creating content.

I wanted to create work.

I started writing books. I kept thinking, reading, researching and following questions that mattered to me.

And somewhere on my way to becoming something, I ended up becoming myself.

An idea grew into Gentle Emotional Engineering™. It entered my books, my research and became part of the foundation of been.

At some point, I stopped seeing separate projects.

I saw a body of work.

Of course I want a bigger audience. I believe deeply in what I’m building and that it could make a real difference in people’s lives.

But I’m no longer trying to solve only a visibility problem.

I’m trying to grow roots.

Reels, YouTube, content and social media can help more people see the tree. I know that, and I’ll probably keep using them.

But I’m asking a different question now:

How does a body of work become read, used, questioned, researched, referenced, developed or taught?

How does it grow beyond how often I personally show up and talk about it?

That requires time inside the work itself.

Time to write. To research. To think. To build.

I have enormous respect for content creators. Building an audience consistently is a real job.

It’s simply not the job I’m trying to build for myself.

Social media is one of my tools. It is not the root of my work.

I care about the leaves.
I would love more flowers.

But right now, I’m working on the roots.

Doaa’s Library has been open for a few days, and I’m still enjoying the fact that I can say that. 🌱My books finally have...
27/09/2026

Doaa’s Library has been open for a few days, and I’m still enjoying the fact that I can say that. 🌱

My books finally have shelves of their own.

English and Arabic.
Different subjects.
Different parts of my work.
And you don’t have to buy a book to come in and read.

You can borrow an available book for free for 14 days.

You can choose Library Access if you want to read across the collection.

Or you can buy a particular book if you want permanent access to it.

Doaa’s Library 🤍
doaaslibrary.com

مكان واحد لكل كتبي، بالعربي والإنجليزي.

تقدر تدخل تتفرج على الكتب، تستعير كتاب مجانًا لمدة 14 يوم، أو تختار الكتاب اللي تحب يفضل معاك، أو تشترك في المكتبة وتقرا كل الكتب المتاحة.

المكتبة مفتوحة من أي مكان. 🌱

There are children in our lives that we love very much 🤍And because we love them, we guide them.We teach them.We make de...
27/09/2026

There are children in our lives that we love very much 🤍

And because we love them, we guide them.
We teach them.
We make decisions for them.
We say yes. We say no.
Sometimes we know something they don't know yet.

But they are seeing too.

They notice things before they know how to explain them.
They misunderstand.
They change their minds.
They can be wrong.

And sometimes, they see something we missed.

And somewhere between what the child sees and what the adult knows, something happens.

When a child sees one thing and an adult sees another.
When the adult has more knowledge, more responsibility, and more power over what happens next.

Does one person have to disappear for the other to remain?

This is the heart of my new book, Two Humans: What Happens When Children and Adults See Things Differently.

It isn't a book about letting children decide everything.

And it isn't a book about asking adults to step away from being adults.

It is about something much simpler.

A child is still becoming, and already fully human.

And the adult standing in front of them is human too.

Both can misunderstand.
Both can change.
Both can see something the other doesn't.

There can be a boundary and still be room for what the child feels.
There can be disagreement without someone having to disappear.

An adult can say, “I hear you. And the answer is no.”

And sometimes an adult can say, “I hear you. And I've changed my mind.”

I wrote this book for parents, yes. But also for teachers, coaches, healthcare professionals, relatives, instructors, and anyone whose life or work places them in front of a child.

Because wherever an adult and a child meet, there aren't just roles in the room.

There are two humans.

Two Humans is now available on Amazon as a paperback and eBook.

https://www.amazon.com/dp/B0HL54LY2X

It is also available through Doaa’s Library, where you can borrow it for 14 days and read it directly in the Library.

This one carries a lot of my heart.

I'm very happy it's finally here. 🌸

Doaa’s Library is fully working 🤍It isn’t just a website where my books happen to be.You can come into the library, crea...
25/09/2026

Doaa’s Library is fully working 🤍

It isn’t just a website where my books happen to be.

You can come into the library, create an account, choose a book, borrow it for free for 14 days, and read it right there. Your place is saved, so you can come back and continue where you left off.

If there’s one particular book you want to keep, you can buy it and have permanent access to it inside the library.

And today I finished and tested the last part I had been working on: Library Access.
There is now a monthly option for $4.99 and a yearly option for $39, giving you access to all the books currently available in the library for as long as your membership is active.

And you can pay normally with a bank card.
No PayPal account. No bank transfer. No special payment method. You choose your membership, enter your card details, and that’s it.

You can cancel at any time.
If you cancel, you won’t be charged again, and your access continues until the end of the period you’ve already paid for.

This was a big step for me because so much of this journey has been about trying to make access and payment simpler, rather than creating more barriers.

I tested the whole reader journey.
Creating an account. Choosing a membership. Paying by card. Opening the books. Managing the membership. Even cancelling it and making sure everything behaves as it should.
From the outside, all of that might look like one little subscription button.

I know how many attempts are sitting behind that button. 😅

Payment methods that didn’t work. Platforms that rejected me. Things that worked and then needed fixing. Tiny details that kept making me say, Okay, surely this is the last thing.

Until today.
The whole idea started with a very simple question:
Why shouldn’t my books have a library?
A place you can enter from wherever you are.
Look through the books.
Borrow one without paying.
If you want to read everything available, you can join the library.
And if there’s one book you want to keep with you, you can buy it.

Today, that place isn’t just an idea in my head anymore.
It actually works.

Doaa’s Library: https://doaaslibrary.com

Come in. Look around. Choose what you’d like to read. 🌸

I built a library 🌱An actual digital library for my books.I didn't start by deciding to build one. I was trying to solve...
24/09/2026

I built a library 🌱
An actual digital library for my books.

I didn't start by deciding to build one. I was trying to solve smaller problems.

Where can someone actually get this book?
Why can a reader in one country access it and someone somewhere else can't?
Why does one payment method work here and not there?

I tried different platforms, stores and payment methods.
Some limitations came from where I live. Some from the platforms available to me. And some were simply my own.

I'm one person, working independently. There is a limit to what I can afford to build and offer.
I kept trying anyway.

And somewhere in all of that, I stopped thinking about another place to sell my books.
I started thinking about what I actually wanted the place to be.

A library.
And somehow, that answered another question too.

I write books. Different subjects. English and Arabic. Sometimes Egyptian Arabic because that's simply the language that feels right.
I've questioned that a lot. As if a writer is supposed to choose one shelf and stay there.

But libraries were never like that.

They have shelves.

Different subjects. Different languages. Books you went looking for and books you discovered because you happened to see them.

It doesn't make the library confusing.

It makes it a library.

And you could borrow a book.
You didn't need an income to be allowed to read.

I believe my work has value. I want to keep writing and I want this library to be something I can maintain.

Come into Doaa's Library without deciding to buy anything.

Look at the shelves. Borrow an available book for free. Read it and return it. And if you want to keep access to it, you can buy it.

And today I get to say:

Doaa's Library is open. 🌸

My books finally have one place to live.

Come in.
Look around.
Borrow a book.
That's what libraries are for.

Library's Link:
https://doaaslibrary.com

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Kuwait City

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