Venzo Chaar

How can I help you as a Bioneuroemotion® Practitioner?

Bioneuroemotion® is a method that helps promote health from a biopsychosocial perspective.

Through the development of self-awareness, Bioneuroemotion helps to understand the origin of emotional experiences and conflicts, providing resources that allow individuals to manage them with greater empowerment and responsibility.

📍In what areas can Bioneuroemotion® be applied?

➢Physcosomatic symptoms
➢Relationship & marriage problems
➢Family & work conflicts

📍What are the objectives of the methodology?

➢ To promote a change in perception regarding conflicts that generate stress in people's lives.

➢ To manage the impact that emotions have on people's health.

➢ To enhance emotional management skills to improve personal well-being and health.

➢ To understand the influence of family history on current issues and interpersonal relationships.

📍4 steps to find the emotional origin of conflict:

1- Analysis

Identify a situation of stress, interpersonal conflict, and/or physical or emotional blockage.

2- Understanding

Discover the origin of the emotional conflicts related to the reason for the inquiry.

3- Learning
Regain a proactive role within the nature of the conflict.

4- Application

Acquire resources and apply them to find new solutions, broaden perception, and enhance well-being.

📍What is the Bioneuroemotion® Method based on?

➢ Psychoneuroimmunoendocrinology
➢ Emotions
➢ Behavioral Epigenetics
➢ Biology
➢ Neuro-Linguistic Programming (NLP)
➢ Psychology

Bioneuroemotion® cannot be equated to therapy in psychology as it has different objectives, dynamics, and paradigms; however, it is a perfect complement to it.

Having worked with couples for the past 4 years,

I have seen that one of the main reasons behind most of the breakups or divorces is:

→ Lack of vulnerable communication

The higher the ego walls, the less vulnerable you can be.

Which leads to 0 depth in the connections or relationships you have in all aspects of your life.

This is obviously causing too many fights and conflicts on a recurrent basis and you feel like you can't take it anymore.

But how can you break those ego walls you've been building all your life?

You need to connect and heal your inner child. (The young child you once were).

1- Heal the wounds
2- Work on your insecurities
3- Let go of the shame, guilt and fear

📞 If you're having relationship problems or interpersonal conflicts at work, feel free to book your free discovery call using the link in my website.

📥 Or send me a private message if interested in attending my next INNER CHILD ONLINE WORKSHOP on Tuesday August 27th at 7pm till 9pm Beirut time.

👶 Inner Child Online Workshop - Tuesday August 27 at 7pm - 9pm Beirut time.

Send me a DM saying: "INNER CHILD" if interested in attending and I'll send you the details.

📞 If you have any questions, feel free to book your free discovery call using the link in my bio.

🗣️ Do you feel like you're taking care of others way too much?

This often comes from not having had a secure attachment with your parents as a kid.

They were too busy and most of the times you felt neglected with barely any attention coming your way.

And because neglect is so painful, your inner child most likely didn't want to feel that pain again.

So what you did was suppress it and then you invented ways to get the attention you needed as a child.

Your inner child is getting love and attention in the form of appraisal and approval for doing good things like helping or taking care of others.

Taking care of others was a coping strategy that has now become part of your identity.

And one way some people become aware of this ego mask (The Caretaker) they are wearing is via the recurrent physical pain or illness.

The body is actually telling you: "Knock knock, you've been suppressing your emotions and your inner child needs you."

The chronic pain, the migraines, the auto-immune diseases are not random.

Many factors play a role in regards to why the illness is there.

But a big aspect behind illnesses comes from the emotions you've been suppressing and from the inner child wounds you've never healed.

The body is constantly whispering and giving us signals. But the more we ignore those signals, the louder the body will scream later on (chronic pain and illness).

How happy and relaxed would you be if the actions you take come from a place of feeling enough?

Instead of doing it to:

1- Become famous
2- Prove others wrong
3- Impress people you don't like

How about taking action from a place of confidence, presence, and clarity?

These 3 can be attained when you become self-aware of what your inner child needs.

Remember that no amount of money and fame can heal a hurt inner child.

Your inner child needs your reassurance, love and acceptance first.

📥 If you want to work on reparenting your inner child, send me a DM.

👶 Next inner child online workshop is on Tuesday August 27th at 7pm Beirut time.

→Why would you want to be with someone that doesn't want to be with you?

If the answer is: "Because I love them and they love me"

Then you need to ask yourself if it is love OR if it is your inner child being attached to the story that they are in love with you.

Wars, insensitivity, crimes, corruption, you name it.

Most of those come from adults with wounded inner children.

Children that were:

1- Traumatized and never taught how to sit with their emotions.

2- Smashed across the face for expressing themselves and were told to shut up and stop crying.

3- Left alone and unattended, where they never learned how to process how they're feeling.

It is so sad how we're in 2024 and still so many schools around the world are teaching the same old subjects.

It is time to start teaching kids how to:

- Express how they're feeling
- Process their emotions
- Name the emotion
- Breathe

One book I recommend for kids is:

"MAYA THE MINDFUL MONEY:
A reminder to breathe when the monkey mind takes over" - Sara Boutine

📥 Amazon link in the comments section.

Do you force your partner to give you attention?

The love your inner child never received from your parents, is the attention you demand from your husband/wife.

This can lead your partner to move away or ask for a divorce because they feel like they're suffocating due to all the demands you place on them.

Too many couples end up divorcing or breaking up because they don't have any vulnerable communication.

Vulnerable communication ≠ Demanding aggressively

Vulnerable communication is about taking off the ego coats and expressing calmly what your inner child needs instead of forcing your spouse to give you attention.

Expecting your partner to know what your inner child wants without having any vulnerable communication will most likely lead to frustration.

📥 If you want to learn how to vulnerably communicate, feel free to send me a private message saying: "INNER CHILD"

➡️ Few spots left for: "How to connect with your inner child - Online Workshop"

👶 Tuesday August 13th at 7pm - 9pm Beirut time.

$25 per person or $15 if you join as a group.

To what extent do you negate part of your authenticity in order to maintain a certain social circle?

1- Not speaking up when deep down you want to.

BUT you don't because you're scared of people moving away from you.

2- Not setting boundaries when in reality you can't take it anymore.

BUT you don't due to the fear of others thinking you're disrespectful.

3- Not saying no, when you really don't want to go out.

BUT you say yes because you don't want others to talk about you or think you're boring.

4- People pleasing because you want to control the perception others have of you.

BUT deep down what you really want is to fit in and not be rejected.

The reason why you can't be authentic is because your inner child doesn't feel good enough deep down.

Your inner child wants to feel safe and secure.

And one way to do that is by you reparenting him/her.

📥 If you want to connect and reparent your inner child, feel free to send me DM saying: "INNER CHILD".

👶 My next inner child online workshop is on Tuesday August 13th at 7pm - 9pm Beirut time.