Lion Woman

Hint: Anger helps you do this.

Clean up your network, clean up your life :)

If you’re staring out your window at the snow, with Lana Del Ray’s Dark Paradise playing softly in the background..

because That Guy hasn’t texted back since last Monday, even though you saw him online every night…

Wondering if maybe that joke you told offended him, or you laughed a little too loudly over drinks...

Stop.

You’re not the one who is always in the wrong.

For all you know, his cat could have died, or his phone could have been stolen…

OR maybe your pink earrings reminded him of his abusive ex, and that made him want to run for the hills even though he doesn’t know why.

The point is- sometimes people’s reactions have nothing to do with you.

You could be the prettiest angel on earth, and there would be men who want to hurl when they see you…

Or you could be a gold-digging mean slob, and there would be men who would worship you and want to marry you on the first date (cough mommy issues cough)

So…how do you find someone who vibes with you, who will support all your big dreams.

and won’t suddenly drop you like a hot potato because he doesn’t like your Instagram posts?

You NORMALIZE good treatment across all your relationships.

When you have different types of high-quality relationships with people who genuinely care about you…

You’ll be less likely to be drawn to people who treat you with anything less than love and respect.

It’s like switching to a low-carb diet after years of junk food- after a while, pizza just doesn’t seem all that great anymore.

And if you’d like to know the EIGHT different types of relationships that every woman needs to live a life of success and joy- I’m going live tomorrow (Dec 2nd) on this page to talk to you about this.

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...and that's where we get it all twisted.

Being still and silent achieves NOTHING.

OK, scratch that.

Being still and silent serves as a gigantic advertisement that you're a doormat.

Cue more pain, betrayal, and the feeling of being used.

True, you don't need to go all Mahakali on your kittens and colleagues.

But do let that damn voice out and TELL people what you're feeling, instead of playing 'good girl' until you explode.

Learn to a) recognize your anger in the moment
b) set boundaries and enforce them kindly and firmly

and you'll find you don't feel like screaming nearly as much.

And if you had a cr*ppy childhood, where no one taught you how to do any of that... you know where to find me :)

What if you could USE your anger to feel…powerful?

What if you could use that anger as rocket fuel to

- launch a wildly successful enterprise that gets you featured on national media?

- manifest a life partner so awesome that your ex looks like Pumbaa from the Lion King next to them?

- heal from your past, so much so that you could walk into a room, look over at your former abusers, and feel… no emotion at all?

Sounds awesome?

Come join us at the Kopa Up Virtual Anger Room for Women this Dec 9th, where you’ll learn how to do exactly that.

Click on the "Send Message" button and I'll send you more details, and the link to register (hint- there's just 20 spots left ;) )

Let's hear it from my beautiful client Kare from Canada!

"A few weeks ago I was having difficulty in my relationships. I found myself chasing after someone, constantly waiting for their response, being anxious and trying to figure out what to say to them so we could connect. I didn't like how this felt in my body and it was making me really anxious. In our coaching call, Shavini used her laser sharp intuition and helped me realize that I was craving connection, and that was why I was chasing after this person. She then helped me realize my need for community and I focused on that. I was able to find community within a few days after receiving Shavini's coaching, and I didn't feel like chasing that person anymore and felt more secure in myself and also in my relationships. I would recommend Shavini's coaching, she really knows her stuff!! Thank you, Shavini!"

If you're an ambitious woman who wants to manifest the LLC (life, love, and career) you've always wanted to have- drop me a message to see how we can work together.

I’m starting a Virtual Anger Room for women!

No, not the kind where you smash things- or watch things being smashed.

The kind where you can talk, yell, or cry about anything that’s bothering you, and release it into a virtual fireplace.

No ads, no networking, no awkward social interaction (although you can hang around with others after the event if that’s your jam)

Just come for an hour, take your turn to howl at the moon, and go back home.

This isn’t coaching or therapy. No advice will be given, no judgment offered, not even an “Oh” will be uttered to you.

First meeting’s this week.

So…who wants in?