Akay Klein

"According to Psychologists, there are four types of Intelligence:

1) Intelligence Quotient (IQ)
2) Emotional Quotient (EQ)
3) Social Quotient (SQ)
4) Adversity Quotient (AQ)

1. Intelligence Quotient (IQ): this is the measure of your level of comprehension. You need IQ to solve maths, memorize things, and recall lessons.

2. Emotional Quotient (EQ): this is the measure of your ability to maintain peace with others, keep to time, be responsible, be honest, respect boundaries, be humble, genuine and considerate.

3. Social Quotient (SQ): this is the measure of your ability to build a network of friends and maintain it over a long period of time.

People that have higher EQ and SQ tend to go further in life than those with a high IQ but low EQ and SQ. Most schools capitalize on improving IQ levels while EQ and SQ are played down.

A man of high IQ can end up being employed by a man of high EQ and SQ even though he has an average IQ.

Your EQ represents your Character, while your SQ represents your Charisma. Give in to habits that will improve these three Qs, especially your EQ and SQ.

Now there is a 4th one, a new paradigm:

4. The Adversity Quotient (AQ): The measure of your ability to go through a rough patch in life, and come out of it without losing your mind.

When faced with troubles, AQ determines who will give up, who will abandon their family, and who will consider su***de.

Parents please expose your children to other areas of life than just Academics. They should adore manual labour (never use work as a form of punishment), Sports and Arts.

Develop their IQ, as well as their EQ, SQ and AQ. They should become multifaceted human beings able to do things independently of their parents.

Finally, do not prepare the road for your children. Prepare your children for the road."

KINGS.

You must learn to walk away when the relationship is becoming a thorn to your flesh.

You must learn to give up on her when she wants to leave.

You must learn to let go when you can no longer dominate her, control her or call her to order.

Learn to BACK OUT.

Not all relationships are meant to last forever, not all relationship will lead to marriage.

Sometimes the one you love and cherish with your whole heart might not feel the same way for you.

It's painful, but that's life, it's not fair.

It's not your fault, so forgive yourself and move on.

You have to learn to live with that and keep hoping for the best.

Understand that Some battles are not worth fighting and winning, you just have to loose the battles to win the war.

Never trade your peace, happiness and joy for anybody most especially if that person is a thorn to your soul.

The journey of self love begin with loving yourself above everything that will harm your wellbeing, this also includes, letting go and cutting off people or someone you love just to make sure you protect your peace, joy and happiness in life because at the end that's what matters.

Sometimes you have to give up something you love for your own safety, yes, it will hurt you now but it comes with a great beautiful long term reward.

You have to be emotionally strong as a man and this means giving room for logic to thrive always.

Be wise

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DEAR PARENTS ...

1. If you don't love each other right as husband and wife, your children might grow up with a warped view of marriage and make some bad romantic choices. You are their reference point

2. If you don't intentionally mentor your child, someone out there will mentor him/her and your child will want to grow up to be like them, not like you

3. If you don't take time to parent your children, don't blame the devil when they don't turn out right. Stop using the devil as a scapegoat, some grown adults are bad, not because of the devil's work but because the parents failed to do their work

4. If you don't go out of your way to sharpen your children's skills and talents, your children will go into careers and jobs they hate, feeling unhappy crying why you were not supportive. Your role as a parent is to help your children identify and fulfil their purpose at an early age

5. If you won't solve your own personal issues and sort matters in your marriage quickly, you will have no energy and time to dedicate to your children. Some parents are busy fighting instead of parenting

6. If you don't create an environment where your children can come to talk to you about anything; your children might go through abuse, depression, doubt, fear and suffer in silence. What are you in their lives for if they can't run to you?

7. If you keep dishing out gadgets and technology to your children but you fail to be attentive in your children's lives; don't be shocked when your children are raised by screens, socialites, social media influences, the dark web and p**n

8. If you don't talk candidly with your children about s*x, and all your approach to s*x is based on fear; don't be shocked when your children make bad s*xual choices

9. If you don't express and affirm love to your children at home, don't be shocked when your children fall prey to people who lure them with a fall sense of love, especially romantic love. Your young one is only looking for the affection

Do u know the PAIN 😭💔 of watching the person you love online and not chatting you😢💔. The pain of watching someone you love loving someone else😔😭💔, the pain of accepting the changes of the person you love 😭😢, the pain of letting go what you still love 💔😭. The pain of forcing things to work out in your relationship but everything seems getting worse💔😢, the pain of seeing your partner taking you as their last priority💔😭😢, the pain of texting them multiple times but yet not getting a response😭💔, the pain of visiting them but seems your presence is not noticed😭😢, the pain of trying your best to make them smile by the little things you do but yet not appreciated💔😭😢. My dear, just because you love someone doesn't make you a slave to them💔😭😢. Don't kill yourself trying to please someone who doesn't care about your feelings💔😭😢. You deserve better😔. They will try coming back to you when they get disappointed by those they thought were better than you😭, by then, they will realize they have lost a diamond while they were busy chasing after stones😭😔😢😔😔 pls stop wasting people's time, if you don't love them, let them know😢😢😢😭💔
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