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getaway from the rush of my everyday life and kick back without a worry in the world

you cannot be liked by everybody.period.

you deserve happiness!
but, cry on the days you want to..becoz pain makes you strong and beautiful! become more and more beautiful each passing day..feel all you feel, sit with it, do not run away..just run towards HOPE

making a mental note to order something out of the box😃

forgive the ones who triggered you, they taught you to learn how to love yourself..
forgive the ones who unintentionally hurt you, they could not love themselves enough..
forgive the pain, it teaches you how to transform..
forgive the darkness, it is fearful of the light..
forgive your mother, she did her best..
forgive your father, he didnt know another way..
forgive your body, it is going through a process and needs love..
forgive your inner child, he/she just wants to be playful..
forgive…

you know whats scarier than pain?
to feel happy without a person that you thought you would never be happy without.. accepting that people are not replaced, but people go and they are forgotten in time..its not the grief that hurts you more, its the idea of happiness post grief.. that someone who was so close to you, the version that you were with them, the entire thing will be forgotten and you can be happy without them

healing is not linear
its more like a roller coaster
life experiences can be super hard at times..feelin things very deeply is hard sometimes..so here i am working thru my way,slowly finding my joy alongside my sadness

life is a duality..we cnt have highs without lows,ups without downs..life becomes more easier when we embrace both seasons and allow ourselves to be imperfect