Coach Gobi Daniel

Prophetess Scholastica, I wanted to ignore the report I received in my DM about your sarcastic response to a brother who summoned all the courage in the world to engage you in a conversation. If we decide to unleash our sarcastic prowess as men, you will relocate to planet Bulaba. But we won't touch that power yet.

Now, my brother was intentional enough to practice some of the time-tested strategies I shared with him on this platform by asking you a simple question: What was the day like for you? And all you could say was one word: churchy. Haba Prophetess Scholastica! Is your hand paining you? Are you having a high fever?

You cannot continue chasing men away from your DM with your hard-to-get and rude disposition. Even if you are not interested in a guy, allow that conversation to flow until you find a point where you can politely say you are not interested in a relationship with him. You don't have to make jest of him or damage his self-esteem for your message to be passed across.

Stressing a brother who wants to have a conversation with you for whatever reason does not reflect your self-worth. There’s nothing classy about repulsive behaviour you can't find even in a bend-down select, aka okrika market.

The interesting thing about guys is that they also have circles where your matter is discussed. I hope that when you eventually find the guy that ticks your boxes, he’ll not find himself in the company of the guys you have looked down upon. It takes only a few words from that circle to scatter that thing you're hoping to build with your “Mr Right”.

You don't have to be rude to prove that you are the prettiest lady since rice and beans, and you know your self-worth. You can say no to a guy without coming across as being rude.

You are a Queen, and you should act and talk like one. We shouldn't confuse your behaviour with that of a runs girl who is looking for a Yahoo boy to come to her rescue.

Now go back to that chat and engage that brother like someone who has the fear of God.

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Prophet Omachoko, I have come back again this evening to share further updates with you. Although you didn’t comment, I know the message was successfully delivered to you.

So, you've managed to catch her attention with the secret I shared in my last post. That's great! But hold on. Resist the temptation to start sending open heavens, daily power, daily manna, and all manner of devotional messages and online prayer links. There are other prophets in her DM who are prophesying and sending her devotionals—you have to be different. Are you planning to start a bible school with her? Take it easy!

You remember the Bible says we should come out from among them and be different, right? Yes, you have to approach it differently.

You must learn to keep a conversation going by using conversation boasters and open-ended questions to make her share things you are not even asking her. For instance, avoid asking questions like, “I hope you are doing fine” or “I hope you have eaten.” Questions like that will trigger a yes or no response that will end the conversation in less than 5 minutes, and you will not have anything else to say.

Closed-ended questions like that usually irritate some ladies, especially when you show up in her DM to ask the same questions over and over again. You then come across as boring, uninteresting, and dull. You have to switch things up and be spontaneous.

You are not an interviewer - you are a potential husband material. You gerit? You have to show workings - not cho cho cho cho!

Here are some open-ended questions that will help you keep your conversation going.

- How are you doing tonight?
- What did you get up to today?
- What would a perfect day look like for you?
- What would you be doing this weekend?
- You shared on your profile that you love to sing. What’s the inspiration behind it? By the way, you sing so beautifully.

You will realise that the answers to the above questions are not yes or no. She will have to explain a little, and you can piggyback on her response and keep the conversation going. Remember to add a bit of humour to your chats, but don't become a comedian or a clown in the process.

Again, Prophet Omachoko, you are not having another counselling session with her or conducting an interview.

You need to keep the conversation going if you don't want her to start going home.

You don't have to thank me - that's why I’m here. My DM is also open; don't be shy. Come, let’s have two aside moments; more tips await you.

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One of the many challenges that Christian guys often face is how to approach a woman they are interested in. The very spiritual ones will appear with ‘Thus saith the Lord, you are my wife. And if you say no, you will miss out on the will of God for your life’’. Others will slide into the DM of the lady they are meeting for the first time and start calling her “sweetheart, dearest, darling, baby etc.

Then, when the lady decides to slam you a big NO in a clear and still accent, you begin to call them all kinds of names for a job you executed poorly.

Brother Omachoko, draw closer; let me slâp some sense into your head here. If I say you should slide into my DM and let's talk about it, you will not come. But your report always lands in my inbox like an evening sacrifice.

Now, you cannot approach a lady you are having a crush on with “thus saith the Lord’’ and expect her to say yes just because you came with a word from the “Lord”. In a time where ogugu, aleku, akpaabana, amadioha, alusi, etc are also speaking to men?

Some ladies find it really insulting when you approach them like that because they feel like you are looking down on their ability to hear God for themselves. Whatever confirmation you got from God about the lady was meant for you alone, not to be used as a wooing line.

The veil of the temple was torn from top to bottom, and we all have access to the Father, including that lady you are prophesying to. Instead of approaching her as Prophet Omachoko, why not approach her as the lover boy that you are? If she cannot connect with the “man” that you are, she cannot connect with the God of the man.

You have to drop that spiritual lingo and relate with her like a man who is in love. The relationship you want to have with her will not happen in the spirit alone; it will also happen in flesh and blood.

You have to calm down and observe the lady carefully. Show genuine interest in her passion and interests. A good way to find out is to go through her social accounts and see what she likes to talk about. And when you enter her DM, avoid the urge to call her sweetheart, darling, baby and all those sweet names. You will appear like a runs boy, hoodlum and unserious person when you do that.

Here’s an example of what to say when you enter her DM - don't worry, I won't charge you for it.

Hello Mildred, my name is Omachoko. I recently came across your profile and was genuinely inspired by your post about effective communication. I found it quite interesting, and I’m working on implementing some of the strategies you highlighted. Do you have any book you would like to recommend for me in this area? Thank you so much for all you do. I look forward to hearing from you.

No lady will open her DM, see that kind of message, and ignore it. In fact, she will blush for a while and check your profile again and again before responding to your message. The book recommendation is a hook that will keep the conversation going, and other things can sneak in as you get along.

Ladies, have I spoken your mind tonight?

Watch out for part two…

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I watched a cartoon series with my nephew sometime last year, and something interesting happened. We got to this particular scene, and these two characters talked passionately. After a while, they kissed each other.

While they kissed, I quickly fixed my gaze on my little nephew, who was barely twelve years old then, to see his reaction. He innocently looked at me and said…”Uncle Dan, why are you looking at me like that?” He smiled from chin to chin when he asked me that.

So I asked him if he knew what had just happened on TV, and he laughed and said he didn't know. I quietly took the decoder remote and blocked that cartoon channel forever to avoid stories that touch.

Please pay close attention to the cartoons that your children and younger siblings are watching at home. Don't trust any cartoon channel until you have examined the content they are showing.

Introducing subtle adult themes in children's cartoons is not for entertainment; it is a deliberate attempt to expose kids to a civilisation that will make defilement look enchanting to them.

Many children have become overly aggressive today, demanding things and carrying out all kinds of terrible activities at home and in school because of the violence that cartoon channels have introduced them to.

Don't let cartoon channels rob your children and little siblings of the innocence of being a child.

If you understand the meaning of "𝘾𝘼𝙏𝘾𝙃 𝙏𝙃𝙀𝙈 𝙔𝙊𝙐𝙉𝙂", you'll secure your borders from this invasion.

Be Wise and discerning!!!

Babylon is not resting!!!

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There’s a disturbing trend that I have observed with many of our young guys and girls in church, especially the age group we refer to as GenZ. So, while in church today, the choir sang a lovely song received and written by God’s Servant, Dr. Paul Enenche.

In the heat of the ministration, a lady who sat in front of us pulled out her phone, clicked on her Snapchat, and began to record herself singing. She also tried to get a wide-angle shot. That was how she succeeded in distracting herself and a few other people around her.

I was disgusted and angry, to say the least. If we don't tame that desire to create content out of everything for social media likes, comments and, in some cases, dollars, including solemn moments of worship in God’s presence, we will have a spiritual emergency to deal with in the nearest future.

I grew up in an Orthodox church, where we were taught to show deep respect and reverence for the presence of God whenever we gathered for fellowship. This reverence translated into how we behaved both inside and outside of the church. Even today, I continue to hold onto these values.

We are gradually losing reverence for the hallowed things of the kingdom because everything is now cruise and content. If you want to create content, stay in your house and create content. Don't let the devil borrow your vessel and that London used iPhone to distract other people during service.

The word of God is being preached, but your only obsession is the next TickTok, Instagram or Facebook video. Continue oh - until you start running from prayer house to prayer house in search of solutions that you have refused to see for yourself in the Holy Book.

Again, if you want to catch cruise and create content, stay in your house - avoid places of worship. Abi your brain no fit give you content until you come church?

I will get a hot oraimo cord for next Sunday. For some sermons, you don't preach with your mouth alone - you also deploy the cord.

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Cheers!

"And as He stands in victory
Sin's curse has lost its grip on me
For I am His and He is mine
Bought with the precious blood of Christ"

Happy Easter, Friends

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A few weeks ago, my GenZ Cousin, who is studying Telecommunications Engineering, was short on money for his school expenses and he needed financial assistance from me. So he decided to send me this funny message that cracked me up and I had to send him some money that I kept for something else. I didn't know when I opened my GTbank app and made the transfer..Lol

Why did I share this with you? You see, he presented his concerns in a subtle yet intelligent manner because he knows that it’s my choice to give him money, not his right.

I have watched with shock how some folks on this app speak, especially when they are requesting a favour from you. Someone will slide into your DM and sound like they kept 10 million dollars in your account and want to withdraw it as soon as possible.

You can't talk like a motor park tout in Oshodi under a bridge and expect people to take your concerns seriously. “I don't fear anybody; I say my mind, hoha.” Well done, oh! Mind wey no correct na em you want make we listen to?

Using disrespectful or aggressive language when making a request or expressing your opinions can lead to needless conflict and tension. In many cases, it is not what was said, but how it was said that causes problems. People have missed out on opportunities or lost favour because of careless comments or rude behaviour.

Don't let people hail you for being rude, disrespectful and foolish, because las las, na your name go cast not theirs.

As you go about your day, remember to think before you speak, especially if you're feeling offended or upset. Be respectful and tactful in your communication, and you'll find that people will be more willing to listen to you

No dey talk like mumu, you can do better!

𝗧𝗲𝘀𝘁𝗶𝗺𝗼𝗻𝘆 𝗳𝗿𝗼𝗺 𝗕𝗿𝗼 𝗖𝗼𝗱𝗲 𝟭𝟬𝟭 𝗖𝗼𝗺𝗺𝘂𝗻𝗶𝘁𝘆 📢

One of the things that gives addiction life and power is "secrecy". I told my brothers during one of the Bro Code 101 sessions never to keep their mouths shut as long as that addiction is bent on shutting them down.

I told them to be bold enough to share their wins and be vulnerable enough to cry out whenever they experience a relapse.

This brother sent me 🆘 message a few days ago and today he is back in my inbox with a testimony to share. 🥳🥳

We are going to hangout in Makurdi soon. We'll continue to celebrate every single milestone. 🥰

We are building a community of Christian guys who are not ashamed to be vulnerable.

𝗧𝗲𝘀𝘁𝗶𝗺𝗼𝗻𝘆 𝗳𝗿𝗼𝗺 𝗕𝗿𝗼 𝗖𝗼𝗱𝗲 𝟭𝟬𝟭 𝗖𝗼𝗺𝗺𝘂𝗻𝗶𝘁𝘆 📢

During one of the Bro Code 101 sessions, I admonished my brothers to focus on winning the war against their s*xual urges daily and they should consciously celebrate their wins everyday.

This brother would have messed himself today but he remembered the roar that went forth during the session and he came back to his senses.

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We are going to break bread together at Ritty’s early next week.

You see the background photo in the first slide right? That’s my mood right now!

We are building a community of Christian guys who are not ashamed to be vulnerable. ❤️

I have absolute control over my emotions!
I have absolute control over my mind!

I have heard some ladies say countless times that they feel Christian guys are not romantic at all and struggle to express their love without coming across as being overly spiritual or serious.

While some of these ladies may genuinely feel this way, unfortunately, others use this as a way to manipulate guys into having s*x just to prove their romantic capabilities.

Others said some fire guys would go as far as threatening ladies with prophetic visions they saw and how if they failed to marry them, they’d be missing out on the will of God for lives…hahaha.

I hear all kinds of things, and sometimes, I don't really blame the guys because they honestly lack the skills and technical know-how needed to invade the heart of the lady who seems to tick their boxes.

When you, as a guy, lack the wooing skills needed to win a lady’s heart, they will keep turning you down, and you will think that your village people are actually after your marital settlement.

Is it possible to be romantic and godly at the same time?

During Bro Code 101, I will share some hacks and tricks with my brothers that will make it absolutely difficult for any lady to turn them down.

We cannot be winning souls and not know how to win hearts..hahaha

So what are you waiting for? Register for Bro Code 101 and refresh the wine of your relationship with your babe.

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My first encounter with po*******hy was during my high school days; while I was scrolling through a neighbor's phone, I stumbled upon videos upon videos that messed my mind up. The scenes from those videos lived rent-free in my head until days turned to weeks, and weeks turned into months.

The moment I want to have my quiet time of prayer and study of the Bible is when those scenes would queue up and start replaying in my head. I struggled with those scenes until God came through for me, and my mind was renewed again.

I shared my story because I know that there are a good number of guys, especially my fellow church guys, who are secretly battling with p**n addiction and several other forms of addiction. Still, they cannot share their struggles with anyone because they don't want to disappoint people looking up to them or fear what they will say about them.

Some guys have cried and cried in the closet because they do not like what they are doing and how defiled they feel each time they get involved with those erotic materials. They would instead continue to fight their battles alone because they haven't found a safe space where they can be vulnerable and still feel safe after all.

It’s so sad that our wóunded soldiers would rather dîe with their secret wóunds than find help in our circles.

For this reason, I am organising a virtual 𝗕𝗿𝗼 𝗖𝗼𝗱𝗲 𝟭𝟬𝟭 𝗵𝗮𝗻𝗴𝗼𝘂𝘁 𝘀𝘁𝗮𝗿𝘁𝗶𝗻𝗴 𝗼𝗻 𝗙𝗿𝗶𝗱𝗮𝘆 𝟴𝘁𝗵 𝘁𝗼 𝗦𝘂𝗻𝗱𝗮𝘆 𝟭𝟬𝘁𝗵 𝗠𝗮𝗿𝗰𝗵, strictly for guys who are bold enough to be vulnerable about their struggles so they can find help. This is a closed and safe space for guys alone where I will lead discussions on addictions, s*x, and love.

𝗜𝗳 𝘆𝗼𝘂 𝗮𝗿𝗲 𝗮 𝗴𝘂𝘆 𝗮𝗻𝗱 𝘆𝗼𝘂 𝗮𝗿𝗲 𝗹𝗼𝗼𝗸𝗶𝗻𝗴 𝗳𝗼𝗿 𝗮 𝗰𝗼𝗺𝗺𝘂𝗻𝗶𝘁𝘆 𝗼𝗳 𝗴𝘂𝘆𝘀 𝘄𝗵𝗼 𝘄𝗶𝗹𝗹 𝗵𝗼𝗹𝗱 𝘆𝗼𝘂 𝗯𝘆 𝘁𝗵𝗲 𝗵𝗮𝗻𝗱 𝗮𝗻𝗱 𝗵𝗲𝗹𝗽 𝘆𝗼𝘂 𝗯𝗿𝗲𝗮𝗸 𝗳𝗿𝗲𝗲 𝗳𝗿𝗼𝗺 𝘁𝗵𝗮𝘁 𝗮𝗱𝗱𝗶𝗰𝘁𝗶𝗼𝗻 𝗼𝗿 𝗮𝗻𝘆𝘁𝗵𝗶𝗻𝗴 𝘆𝗼𝘂 𝗮𝗿𝗲 𝘀𝘁𝗿𝘂𝗴𝗴𝗹𝗶𝗻𝗴 𝘄𝗶𝘁𝗵, 𝘁𝗵𝗲𝗻 𝗜 𝗶𝗻𝘃𝗶𝘁𝗲 𝘆𝗼𝘂 𝘁𝗼 𝗕𝗿𝗼 𝗖𝗼𝗱𝗲 𝟭𝟬𝟭.

I’m happy to share my vulnerable moments and help you regain self-esteem. Rest assured that we will not give up on you until the man that you are meant to be is birthed.

Register today, and let’s begin this adventure together! It's absolutely free!

You are my brother; you cannot go through that alone. We dey for you!

Welcome onboard, bro! ❤️

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