16/09/2026
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It was the first day of resumption, and we were taking a new route to our childrenโs school. This route required us to pass through a gated estate.
When we got to the estate gate, we were stopped.
โWe canโt let you through. Youโll have to take another route", the security guards told us.
We were surprised and, at the same time, a little concerned. It was the first day of school, and the last thing we wanted was to start the term by arriving late. ๐ฉ
My husband got down from the car and tried to engage the security men, explaining why they needed to let us through.
Apparently, they were enforcing the estateโs payment requirements for residents. (Legally questionable, but thatโs not the focus for today. ๐๐)
Now, here comes my favourite part๐๐
After speaking with the security men, my husband got back into the car.
Then our 8-year old daughter casually said:
โ๐๐๐๐๐ฒ, ๐ฒ๐จ๐ฎ ๐๐ข๐๐งโ๐ญ ๐ก๐๐ฏ๐ ๐ญ๐จ ๐๐ซ๐ ๐ฎ๐ ๐ฐ๐ข๐ญ๐ก ๐ญ๐ก๐๐ฆ ๐จ๐ซ ๐๐ฏ๐๐ง ๐๐จ๐ฆ๐ ๐๐จ๐ฐ๐ง ๐๐ซ๐จ๐ฆ ๐ญ๐ก๐ ๐๐๐ซ. ๐๐จ๐ฎ ๐๐จ๐ฎ๐ฅ๐ ๐ก๐๐ฏ๐ ๐ฃ๐ฎ๐ฌ๐ญ ๐ญ๐จ๐ฅ๐ ๐ญ๐ก๐๐ฆ ๐ญ๐ก๐๐ญ ๐ฒ๐จ๐ฎ ๐๐ง๐ ๐๐ฎ๐ฆ๐ฆ๐ฒ ๐๐ซ๐ ๐ฅ๐๐ฐ๐ฒ๐๐ซ๐ฌ, ๐๐ง๐ ๐ญ๐ก๐๐ฒ ๐ฐ๐จ๐ฎ๐ฅ๐ ๐ก๐๐ฏ๐ ๐จ๐ฉ๐๐ง๐๐ ๐ญ๐ก๐ ๐ ๐๐ญ๐.โ ๐ฏ๐
WHAT?! ๐ฏ๐ฏ
We all laughed, but her statement got me thinking.
This little girl understood something about identity and positioning that many of us struggle to grasp ๐โโ๏ธ๐ค๐ค
In her mind, once they knew who we were, the situation would change๐ซก๐คช
Of course, being a lawyer does not magically open every gate. But what fascinated me was her understanding that identity can influence how people perceive and respond to you.
And that got me thinking about something deeper: ๐๐
If you do not know who you are, you will not know how to leverage on it and how to rightly position yourself.
As believers, our identity is NOT ultimately defined by our profession, achievements, failures, background, possessions, or what people say about us.
๐๐ฎ๐ซ ๐ข๐๐๐ง๐ญ๐ข๐ญ๐ฒ ๐ข๐ฌ ๐ซ๐จ๐จ๐ญ๐๐ ๐ข๐ง ๐ฐ๐ก๐จ ๐๐จ๐ ๐ฌ๐๐ฒ๐ฌ YOU ๐๐ซ๐.
๐YOU are His child!
๐YOU are loved!
๐YOU are accepted in Christ!
๐YOU have been called and given purpose!
๐YOU have an inheritance in Him!
When you do not know who you are, you may allow circumstances, people and even your past to give you an identity that God never gave you.
And when you accept the wrong identity, you may begin to make choices from the wrong place.
You may shrink when you should stand.
You may seek validation where God has already given you acceptance.
You may walk away from opportunities because you do not believe you belong there.
You may even keep knocking on doors while forgetting who sent you.
Knowing your identity does not mean becoming proud or feeling entitled, ๐ข๐ญ ๐ฆ๐๐๐ง๐ฌ ๐๐๐๐จ๐ฆ๐ข๐ง๐ ๐ฌ๐๐๐ฎ๐ซ๐ ๐ข๐ง ๐ฐ๐ก๐จ ๐ฒ๐จ๐ฎ ๐๐ซ๐ ๐ข๐ง ๐๐จ๐, ๐ฌ๐จ ๐ญ๐ก๐๐ญ ๐ฒ๐จ๐ฎ ๐๐๐ง ๐ฐ๐๐ฅ๐ค ๐๐จ๐ง๐๐ข๐๐๐ง๐ญ๐ฅ๐ฒ ๐ข๐ง ๐ฐ๐ก๐๐ญ ๐๐ ๐ก๐๐ฌ ๐๐๐ฅ๐ฅ๐๐ ๐ฒ๐จ๐ฎ ๐ญ๐จ ๐๐จ.
Know who you are.
Know whose you are.
Know what God has placed in you.
And position yourself accordingly.
Because when you understand your identity, you stop allowing every voice to tell you who you are.
IDENTITY IS NOT JUST ABOUT WHO YOU SEE IN THE MIRROR.
IT IS ABOUT SEEING YOURSELF THROUGH THE LENS OF GOD.