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Courtship Marriage And Life

Does God Speak When Self is Involved? Let’s Talk.👇

Have you ever felt so sure God was leading you, only to realize later it wasn’t Him? It happened to me recently, and I want to share what I learned.

After my study time yesterday, I reflected on something that happened the day before. I felt a strong leading in my spirit and assumed it was from God. I prayed about it and went on with my day.

But when I got home, I felt unsettled. Something didn’t sit right. That’s when the Holy Spirit gently reminded me of a scripture He had once shown me. It was like He was saying, “Look closely at this.”

So, I took a step back and evaluated the situation. That’s when I saw it clearly—self was at the center of it all. The “leading” was all about how it would benefit me, make me comfortable, and suit my desires.

I asked God for forgiveness, but that moment taught me something valuable: When self is involved, it’s hard to hear God clearly. You may mistake the voice of self to be his.

Why am I telling you this?

Think about choosing a partner. Many of us make up our minds first—how much we like them, how good we feel around them—and then ask God for confirmation. Here’s the problem: by that point, your heart is already set. And when your heart is involved, it’s easy to mistake your own desires for God’s voice.

You pray and feel “peace,” but deep down, that peace is tied to what you want. You convince yourself it’s God leading you, but when things go wrong, you wonder why He let it happen.

Here’s the truth:
When self is involved, what you’re hearing is often the voice of your emotions, not God.

So, how do you avoid this?

1. Seek God early. Don’t wait until you’ve already made up your mind. Ask Him to lead you before emotions cloud your judgment.

2. Surrender your desires. Be honest with yourself: are you open to a “no” from God? Or are you just looking for Him to validate your choice?

3. Be neutral. Don’t approach God with Hollywood dreams of your future with someone. Ask Him to guide you clearly, whether it’s yes, no, or wait.

God wants the best for you, but you have to let Him lead. Trust Him to guide you without self getting in the way. His plans are always better than ours.

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What are your thoughts? Have you ever been in a similar situation?

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Does God Speak When Self is Involved? Let’s Talk.

Have you ever felt so sure God was leading you, only to realize later it wasn’t Him? It happened to me recently, and I want to share what I learned.

After my study time yesterday, I reflected on something that happened the day before. I felt a strong leading in my spirit and assumed it was from God. I prayed about it and went on with my day.

But when I got home, I felt unsettled. Something didn’t sit right. That’s when the Holy Spirit gently reminded me of a scripture He had once shown me. It was like He was saying, “Look closely at this.”

So, I took a step back and evaluated the situation. That’s when I saw it clearly—self was at the center of it all. The “leading” was all about how it would benefit me, make me comfortable, and suit my desires.

I asked God for forgiveness, but that moment taught me something valuable: When self is involved, it’s hard to hear God clearly. You may mistake the voice of self to be his.

Why am I telling you this?

Think about choosing a partner. Many of us make up our minds first—how much we like them, how good we feel around them—and then ask God for confirmation. Here’s the problem: by that point, your heart is already set. And when your heart is involved, it’s easy to mistake your own desires for God’s voice.

You pray and feel “peace,” but deep down, that peace is tied to what you want. You convince yourself it’s God leading you, but when things go wrong, you wonder why He let it happen.

Here’s the truth:
When self is involved, what you’re hearing is often the voice of your emotions, not God.

So, how do you avoid this?

1. Seek God early. Don’t wait until you’ve already made up your mind. Ask Him to lead you before emotions cloud your judgment.

2. Surrender your desires. Be honest with yourself: are you open to a “no” from God? Or are you just looking for Him to validate your choice?

3. Be neutral. Don’t approach God with Hollywood dreams of your future with someone. Ask Him to guide you clearly, whether it’s yes, no, or wait.

God wants the best for you, but you have to let Him lead. Trust Him to guide you without self getting in the way. His plans are always better than ours.

What are your thoughts? Have you ever been in a similar situation?

You'll thrive! I'm rooting for you 🫶💚
© Stephanie Isaac Ayuba
Courtship Marriage And Life