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*CHARACTER ASSASSINATION*


*One mistake you should never make in life, is to allow yourself to be recruited by someone, to hate another person who hasn't wronged you*.

Hear this: *“ We must avoid making hasty conclusions because of what others are saying about someone else.."*

What people say about others, says a lot about them. I am repeating this more directly: The things you say about others, say a lot about you! I can tell a lot about a person by what they choose to see in others.

*CHARACTER ASSASSINATION* is a *pervasive and destructive phenomenon that is found everywhere*.

You find it in *FAMILIES* , *POLITICAL ARENA* , *PLACES OF WORSHIP* , *ORGANIZATIONS, WORK PLACES* , etc.

*CHARACTER ASSASSINATION is the deliberate, malicious, unjustified and sustained effort to damage the reputation or credibility of an individual.*

*CHARACTER ASSASSINATION is the slandering of a person usually with the intention of destroying public confidence in that person.*

*CHARACTER ASSASSINATION* is the act of *lowering one’s own* character in a bid to ruin the character of others.

There are people that take maximum delight in ruining others'reputations. This set of people have what I would like to call *‘Destructive Tendencies’*. They oil their own ego by pulling other people down. *PhD(pull him/her down).*

False allegations are the most chronic form of mental abuse. *When people can’t kill your dreams and purpose, they will try to assassinate your character. *There are some people that your spirit will always irritate their demons!* Once they realize hating isn’t working they start telling and spreading lies about you.

*People are assassinated once but ‘Character Assassination’ kills daily!* Character assassination is a form of emotional violence against others.

Someone once said, “A friend of my enemy is my enemy.” *One of the things that hinders us from living a fulfilling and inclusive life is bringing past bias and sentiments into present relationships*. A friend of your enemy is not necessarily your enemy; it all depends on intentions and contributions. God can use your enemy’s friend to bless you!`

*Stay away from people who talk bad about others daily; this kind of people carry a negative spirit, and a negative spirit is contagious*. The real problem is not that they are unhappy about others, but they are unhappy with themselves.

Stop the destructive habit of talking about people behind their back. Talking badly about someone else while they aren’t there to defend themselves says more about you than the person you’re talking about. When you have issues with people, try and discuss it with them. Stop discussing it with others. Someone once said, *“Don’t talk about me until you have talked to me”*. Stop spreading false information and rumours about others.

Rumours are carried by haters! *Stop creating walls of contention, rather help build bridges of understanding among people.*

*Avoid ENVY and JEALOUSY AND BACKBITING. Everyone has a different destiny.*

*LIVE A HEALTHY LIFE THIS YEAR AND DESIST FROM ASSASSINATING OTHERS.*

Teaching children the importance of conflict resolution and how to manage their emotions is crucial for their social and emotional development.

Encouraging them to walk away from heated arguments that could lead to physical altercations is a valuable life skill.

*Some ways to teach children this valuable skill include* :

*1. Modeling good behavior* : Children learn from what they see, so make sure to model calm and respectful behavior in your own interactions.

2 *. Teaching communication skills* : Encourage children to express their feelings and needs clearly and respectfully.

*3. Role-playing different scenarios:* Practice different social scenarios with your child, teaching them how to stay calm and walk away from potential conflicts.

*4. Encouraging empathy* : Teach children to consider the feelings and perspectives of others, helping them understand that everyone has different opinions and views.

*5. Praising good behavior:* Positively reinforce your child when they successfully walk away from a heated argument or manage their emotions in a difficult situation.

Remember, teaching children these skills takes time, patience, and consistency. By starting early and leading by example, you can help your child develop essential skills for a happy and harmonious life!

*DEAR PARENTS /GUARDIANS*

Mohbad means _"I am bad"_. His real name is *Ileri Oluwa* meaning _" *The Promises of God* When he started his music career as a Christian singer, he tagged himself " *Imole* ," meaning _" *Light* ."_

He changed his name to Mohbad after carelessly taking a cult leader as a role model.

Once he got caught in the snare laid by the evil squad, he was murdered before he could retrace his steps.

*Who is your role model?*

His parents are now gnashing their teeth, shifting blames.

As a parent, how are you raising your own children?

Child, why on earth would you abandoned God?

*As parents* ,

1. When last did you see your children/child in school?(including university,polytechnic, etc?)

2. Who are your child's friends?

3. Why does your child return home late (esp. at nights)?

4. The hair style, dress, necklace, tattoo, etc, that your child has, what does it mean?

5. When last did you check your child/ children in their room at night?

6. What is your child doing or who is he or she calling at midnight?

7. Why are your child's eyes sometimes red?

8. What caused changes in his/her voice, itinerary & behavior (from time to time)?

9. When last did you check the bag he is carrying up & down?

10. When last did you check:
His/her phone?
Under the bed?
His/her wardrobe?

11. What caused the wound on his/her body?

12. Why the very long fingernails?

13. What causes the strange body odour?

14. What type of iced do they prefer?

15. Why is he/she not eating mum's food, always saying 'am ok'?

16.If the family is going out together, why saying, 'go, I will meet you'?

17. Do you take time to check the movie he/she is viewing on TV?

18. Who visits when he/she is alone and Why?

19. Why is he talking to you looking down (hiding his face)?

20. Why is your child so frightful (esp. if he/she wasn't like that)

*PLEASE CHECK* , is your child in danger because you are *INSENSITIVE* ?

When you spoil your child you send him/ her to early grave.

When you don't discipline, you are preparing for a monumental shocker.

May the Almighty God not let us know the grave of our children.

May we not be victims of our child's early or sudden death.

May we not end our lives in regrets.

May God
in His Infinite mercy continue to deliver us from wicked and unreasonable forces.
Amen.

*PHILOSOPHY ABOUT TOO MUCH*

1. If you speak too much, you will lie
2. If you think too much,you will be depressed
3. If you cry too much, you will lose your sight
4. If you love too much, you will be lost
5. If you care too much,you will be taken for granted
6.If you play too much, You will not be taken seriously oftentimes.
7.If you trust too much, you will be betrayed
8.If you work too much, You will die of stress
9.If you eat too much, You will be obsessed
10.If you sleep too much, You will be idle
11. If you spend too much, You will have no future
12.If you wear make up too much, You will lose your beauty
13.If you look too much, You will lose your focus
14.If you pursue life too much, you will lose everything.

BUT..........
* When you pray too much, You will have everything
*When you have too much patience, you will have the whole world
*When you invest too much, You will have your future guaranteed
*When you let go too much, you will have peace of mind
*When you are careful too much, you will be saved from many evils.
*When you serve God too much, you will receive unlimited and unspeakable rewards and testimony.

*CHARACTER ASSASSINATION*


*One mistake you should never make in life, is to allow yourself to be recruited by someone, to hate another person who hasn't wronged you*.

Hear this: *“ We must avoid making hasty conclusions because of what others are saying about someone else.."*

What people say about others, says a lot about them. I am repeating this more directly: The things you say about others, say a lot about you! I can tell a lot about a person by what they choose to see in others.

*CHARACTER ASSASSINATION* is a *pervasive and destructive phenomenon that is found everywhere*.

You find it in *FAMILIES* , *POLITICAL ARENA* , *PLACES OF WORSHIP* , *ORGANIZATIONS, WORK PLACES* , etc.

*CHARACTER ASSASSINATION is the deliberate, malicious, unjustified and sustained effort to damage the reputation or credibility of an individual.*

*CHARACTER ASSASSINATION is the slandering of a person usually with the intention of destroying public confidence in that person.*

CHARACTER ASSASSINATION is the act of *lowering one’s own* character in a bid to ruin the character of others.

There are people that take maximum delight in ruining others'reputations. This set of people have what I would like to call *‘Destructive Tendencies’*. They oil their own ego by pulling other people down. *PhD(pull him/her down).*

False allegations are the most chronic form of mental abuse. *When people can’t kill your dreams and purpose, they will try to assassinate your character. *There are some people that your spirit will always irritate their demons!* Once they realize hating isn’t working they start telling and spreading lies about you.

*People are assassinated once but ‘Character Assassination’ kills daily!* Character assassination is a form of emotional violence against others.

Someone once said, “A friend of my enemy is my enemy.” *One of the things that hinders us from living a fulfilling and inclusive life is bringing past bias and sentiments into present relationships*. A friend of your enemy is not necessarily your enemy; it all depends on intentions and contributions. God can use your enemy’s friend to bless you!`

*Stay away from people who talk bad about others daily; this kind of people carry a negative spirit, and a negative spirit is contagious*. The real problem is not that they are unhappy about others, but they are unhappy with themselves.

Stop the destructive habit of talking about people behind their back. Talking badly about someone else while they aren’t there to defend themselves says more about you than the person you’re talking about. When you have issues with people, try and discuss it with them. Stop discussing it with others. Someone once said, *“Don’t talk about me until you have talked to me”*. Stop spreading false information and rumours about others.

Rumours are carried by haters! *Stop creating walls of contention, rather help build bridges of understanding among people.*

*Avoid ENVY and JEALOUSY AND BACKBITING. Everyone has a different destiny.*

*LIVE A HEALTHY LIFE THIS YEAR 2024 AND DESIST FROM ASSASSINATING OTHERS.*

𝟮𝟬 𝗟𝗘𝗦𝗦𝗢𝗡𝗦 𝗙𝗥𝗢𝗠 𝗧𝗛𝗘 𝗕𝗢𝗢𝗞 “𝗦𝗘𝗖𝗥𝗘𝗧𝗦 𝗢𝗙 𝗧𝗛𝗘 𝗠𝗜𝗟𝗟𝗜𝗢𝗡𝗔𝗜𝗥𝗘 𝗠𝗜𝗡𝗗”

1. If you’re not doing as well as you’d like, all that means is there’s something you don’t know.

2. It’s not what we don’t know that prevents us from succeeding; it’s what we know that just ain’t so that is our greatest obstacle.

3. If you want to move to a higher level of life, you have to be willing to let go of some of your old ways of thinking and being and adopt new ones.

4. I have a saying: “It’s not enough to be in the right place at the right time. You have to be the right person in the right place at the right time.

5. The key to success is to raise your own energy; when you do, people will naturally be attracted to you. And when they show up, bill ’em!

6. These four quadrants are the physical world, the mental world, the emotional world, and the spiritual world.

7. A lack of money is never, ever, ever a problem. A lack of money is merely a symptom of what is going on underneath.

8. Your financial blueprint consists primarily of the information or ‘programming’ you received in the past, and especially as a young child.

9. The first element of change is awareness. You can’t change something unless you know it exists.

10. The second element of change is understanding. By understanding where your ‘way of thinking’ originates, you can recognize that it has to come from outside you.

11. The third element of change is disassociation. Once you realize this way of thinking isn’t you, you can separate yourself from it and choose in the present whether to keep it or let it go—based on who you are today, and where you want to be tomorrow.

12. If your motivation for acquiring money or success comes from a nonsupportive root such as fear, anger, or the need to ‘prove’ yourself, your money will never bring you happiness.

13. Money can’t make you something you already are.

No thought lives in your head rent-free.

14. You have to believe that you are the one who creates your success, that you are the one who creates your mediocrity, and that you are the one creating your struggle around money and success.

15 . Your field of focus determines what you find in life.

16. If you want to get rich, focus on making, keeping, and investing your money. If you want to be poor, focus on spending your money.

17. Again, energy is contagious: either you affect people or infect people.

18. Resenting promotion is one of the greatest obstacles to success.

19. The size of the problem is never the issue—what matters is the size of you!

20. Living based in security is living based in fear.

*Happy Easter*.🌹🌹

*On Parenting*!

Dear parent your children need you more, bury your individual differences and train your children together. Most children from broken homes are unstable emotionally which later affect their character, relationship with people, academics, morals, and others. No stepfather, or stepmother can fit perfectly into your shoes. *THINK TWICE BEFORE YOU CLOSE THE DOOR*

This lantern produced Professors, Lawyers, Doctors, Teachers, Engineers, Nurses, Accountants,and many more.

There were households with only one lantern, but children passed Common Entrance Examinations,finished O' and A' Levels, Colleges of Education, and beyond.

But with rechargeable lamps, generators, solar panels, inverters, and electric bulbs in all the corners of our houses, children can not finish a simple task called homework or project. *What has gone wrong?* *Who should we blame?* *The parents?* *The children?* *The schools?* *Or the government?* *When and how can we get back our glorious years in education?* I'm just thinking aloud....👂