Mahurangi Riding School

Miko has been watching and learning - sit tall, eyes up, smiling collar bone... now he just needs the saddle to be on the horse 🤣

Incase you missed us on the socials... Chevy and I recently attended the Met Gala 💁🏼‍♀️🙆🏼‍♀️🤣

Gooooood morning from my unemployed freeloaders 🤣 they are bloody cute though!!!

Worth a read ❤️

As riding instructors we spend a lot of time managing the gap between what new students expect riding to be and what it actually is. Most of that gap could be narrowed significantly with one honest conversation before the first lesson ever happens. So here is everything I wish every new student and every new riding family walked in already knowing...

1. Riding is harder than it looks
This is the one that surprises people most. Watching a good rider looks effortless but it is not effortless. It is years of muscle memory, feel, balance, and body awareness built through consistent work over a long time. Your first lessons will feel awkward and uncoordinated and that is completely normal. Every rider you have ever admired felt exactly the way you feel right now when they were starting out.

2. The horse is not a bicycle
It is a living animal with its own personality, its own opinions, and its own good days and bad days. It does not always do what you ask the first time and that is not always your fault but it is always your responsibility to figure out the communication. Learning to work with a horse rather than on top of one is one of the most valuable things riding teaches and it starts from the very first lesson.

3. Progress is not linear
Some weeks you will feel like you have jumped forward three levels. Other weeks you will feel like you have forgotten everything you learned last month. Both are completely normal parts of learning to ride. The students who improve consistently are not the ones who never have bad lessons but they are the ones who show up anyway and keep working through the frustrating ones.

4. One lesson a week is a start but not a program
A single lesson per week gives you exposure to riding. Two lessons per week builds skill significantly faster. The riders who progress quickest are the ones who ride consistently and frequently enough that their muscles and nervous system have time to develop real memory around what correct feels like. If budget allows for more than one lesson per week it is worth it.

5. Your position will feel wrong before it feels right
Correct position in the saddle feels deeply unnatural to most people at first. Heels down feels like you are pushing your foot through the floor. Sitting tall feels like you are leaning back. An independent hand feels like you are doing nothing. Trust the process and trust your instructor. The things that feel strange now become automatic eventually but only if you commit to doing them correctly rather than defaulting back to what feels comfortable.

6. The time around the lesson matters as much as the lesson itself
Grooming your horse before you ride. Learning to tack up correctly. Understanding how to read your horse's body language in the cross ties. This is not the boring part before the real lesson begins. This is horsemanship and it makes you a better rider than an hour in the saddle alone ever will.

7. Bad rides happen to every rider at every level
Including the ones you look up to most. A bad lesson does not mean you are not cut out for this, it just means you are learning something hard and doing it on the back of a living animal that is also having a day. Come back next week and it will be different.
Your instructor is on your side.

8. Every correction we give is in service of your progress and your safety
We are not pointing out what is wrong to make you feel bad but we are pointing out what needs to change so you can get where you want to go faster and more safely. The students who improve fastest are the ones who hear a correction as information rather than criticism and apply it without taking it personally.

9. Riding changes you in ways you will not expect
The patience it builds, the confidence that comes from communicating with an animal ten times your size and being understood. The resilience that develops from falling short of a goal and coming back for it anyway. The community you find at the barn. None of that shows up in the first lesson or even the tenth but it will show up at one point. For most riders it becomes one of the most significant things in their life and not just what they do on Tuesday afternoons but part of who they are.

If you are a riding instructor share this with every new family who walks through your gate. If you are a new student or a parent of one - welcome. You picked something genuinely worth doing!

What do you wish someone had told you before your very first riding lesson?

Mother's Day morning may have been spent concreting posts into holes with Andy while also trying to parent... but it was worth it - hellooooo, lean to!!

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Happy Mother’s Day to all the incredible women in our MRS community ❤️

Today we celebrate the mums - the ones who spend their weekends at competitions, their afternoons driving to lessons, and their evenings playing taxi driver and groom. The mums videoing on the sidelines, learning horse terms they never expected to know, and giving so much of their time, energy, love, and support to help their children chase their equestrian dreams.

We also celebrate the women finding their way back into the saddle - rediscovering a passion that has always lived quietly in their hearts. Between work, family, responsibilities, and life’s demands, making time again for horses is something truly special.

And to the mums balancing motherhood alongside being a horse mum too - somehow juggling little hands, big emotions, enough snacks, muddy boots, many changes of clothes, and stable chores (never mind getting a ride in) all in the same day - we see you. The balancing act of is real, and your dedication is extraordinary.

Today can also be a tender day for many. We hold space for those longing to become mothers, those who have lost a mum, those missing a child, and anyone finding today difficult. You are part of our community and held with love.
Horses have a beautiful way of bringing people together, healing hearts, building confidence, and creating lifelong memories and so many of those moments are made possible because of the women behind the scenes.

To every kind of mum, caregiver, mentor, and supporter in our equestrian family, thank you for all that you do. We hope today you feel appreciated, celebrated, and deeply loved 🤍

Things are looking up 🤣🤣🥹❤️ my little horsey girl!