12/09/2021
I use to blame everyone instead of taking ownership
I use to blame
My parents
My teaches
My coaches
For the lack of success
I remember someone I respected saying Jon stop being a victim.
What did they mean by that?
Playing the victim
Blaming circumstances and blaming others for the problems we are facing.
Going external when we need to go internal.
It’s because of them
It’s because of that
Theses types of feelings of the victim can be:
Anger
Scared
Bad attitude
Finger pointing
Pride
“Bad lack” make me cringe that one 🤦♂️ 🤣
And we create a story to justify our actions
Eg blaming or giving up
As soon as we play the blame game we lose our power to make changes needed
As soon as you take ownership and realise everything comes from self it will give us the power and certainty to make the changes needed to achieve our goals.
Everything is a mirror at the end of the day
We go from being a victim to become a victor 💪