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How One Wise Man Taught Me about Wisdom “Knowledge is knowing what; wisdom is knowing when.”This quote resonated deeply ...
19/09/2026

How One Wise Man Taught Me about Wisdom

“Knowledge is knowing what; wisdom is knowing when.”

This quote resonated deeply with me during the Master Coaching programme I attended with the late Wai K Leong last year.

It feels especially pertinent when I think about the many intelligent and highly capable professionals I meet through coaching and workshops. As I listen to the challenges they face at work, I often find that it is not the technical aspects of their work that they struggle with most. More often, it is the people part that makes things complex.

Even when there are gaps in leadership capabilities, whether in aligning people, creating a vision, strategising, delegating or managing change, the body of knowledge can readily be picked up, with resources aplenty.

What is much harder to learn is the wisdom of knowing when, with whom, and how:

🫢 When do I speak, and when do I hold back?
🫢 When do I challenge, and when do I give space?
🫢 How to best serve this person at this moment?
🫢 How do I say in a way that will be heard? 🫢 Who is this person and who is this person becoming that I have a part to play?

I was deeply saddened to learn of the passing of my Master Coach trainer. It has been three days, and I am still grieving the loss of a gentle giant in coaching. He exemplified wisdom, not only in his words, but also in his actions, repeatedly and consistently over the 5 months I had the privilege to be under his wings.

Wai K knew when to say what needed to be said, and how to say it in a way that inspired us to reflect, learn and do better. Perhaps that was one of his greatest lessons to us:

Wisdom is not simply what we know, but how and when we choose to bring that knowing into the world.

Wai K, thank you for walking ahead of so many of us in the coaching community, and for showing us the way.

You will be dearly remembered.

10/09/2026

Comfort in Routine

On my trip to Chengdu last week, I had the opportunity to experience many remarkable sights and wonders:

• Jiuzhaigou Valley, a UNESCO World Heritage Site, with its breathtaking turquoise lakes, cascading waterfalls and spectacular landscapes. Journey to the West was partially filmed there.

• Dujiangyan, an ingenious irrigation system built around 256 BC under the leadership of Li Bing. More than 2k years later, this engineering masterpiece continues to regulate the natural flow of the river, providing water for agriculture while helping flood prevention.

• China’s national treasure, the giant pandas! Beyond their irresistible charm, the extensive research, conservation efforts and careful protection ensured their survival.

• Chengdu’s People’s Park, a window into everyday community life, from the famous matchmaking corner, traditional tea houses to ground-up social activities.

Despite these extraordinary experiences, my mum’s favourite part of the tour was the theatre show. Really? None of these magnificent wonders topped her list?

When we returned to the hotel each evening, I noticed my mom simply settling in for the night by watching the news on television, that routine seemed to bring her a sense of familiarity and comfort.

When I returned home and resumed work this week, one of the first routines I returned to was jogging. Perhaps my mum’s television routine and my jog served much the same purpose.

Our routines can be anchors.

When we are surrounded by new places, unfamiliar experiences and constant stimulation, returning to something familiar can help us feel grounded again.

However, there is something to be gained from occasionally stepping outside our routines too.

So, on this trip, I decided to do something different. I bought myself a Chinese book to brush up on my Chinese, and appreciate the thinking in this culture. The last time I read a Chinese book was the school textbook many moons ago! 😅

Perhaps we need both: Routines that ground us, and moments that stretch us.

🕘 What is one routine you return to because it gives you comfort?

🪄 What is one routine you might be willing to break and make room for something new?

19/08/2026

What Your Work Energy Looks Like

I asked for a metaphor that each thinks their energy is like when motivated. Here's what it looks like.

For me, it is like a fluttering butterfly whizzing from flower to flower.

Happy to have facilitated Team Management Profile (TMP) for this team of Medicine experts. Do you enjoy Advising, Innovating, Promoting, Developing, Organising, Producing, Inspecting or Maintaining?

Harmonising Work and PlayLearning to work and play at the same time at Ho Chi Minh last week. Not gonna wait for retirem...
10/08/2026

Harmonising Work and Play

Learning to work and play at the same time at Ho Chi Minh last week.

Not gonna wait for retirement to play. Neither work till I can't play no more.

How are you harmonising your multiple priorities?



Work and Play at Ho Chi Minh. Satisfying to facilitate Leaders as Coaches for this group of managers.
10/08/2026

Work and Play at Ho Chi Minh.

Satisfying to facilitate Leaders as Coaches for this group of managers.

31/07/2026

The Art of Malleability: What Pottery Taught Me About Better Conversations

Pottery is an artistic expression.

A potter can stretch, mould and reshape clay repeatedly because of its malleability. The interaction between water and clay particles creates a plasticity that allows the clay to change form without breaking, even under pressure.

As I prepare for two coaching classes next week, a university and an MNC, I find myself returning to my pottery experience. It reminds me that for feedback and career conversations to be truly fruitful, both the employee and the manager need to be malleable, regardless of age, generation or culture.

When people disagree, whether upward or downward, the real challenge is often not the disagreement itself. More often, it is a misalignment of mental models: our context, assumptions, definitions and interpretations shaped by our own experiences. Two people may use the same words yet attach very different meanings to them. The result is often a two-way pushback, with each trying harder to prove they are right.

Meaningful conversations begin when neither party allows ego to take centre stage. Instead, both are genuinely curious about the other person's mental model. Only when we first align our understanding can solutions be meaningfully created.

Just as water gives clay its plasticity, humility gives us the malleability to remain open, curious and willing to be reshaped.

Here are ways to help create that space for malleability:
💦Explore Willingness → For Openness

💦Explore Meaning → For Significance

💦 Explore Evidence → For Objectivity

💦 Explore Future → For Commitment

As I look forward to facilitating these classes next week, I learnt that the richest conversations are not those where we shape the other person, but those where both parties are willing to be reshaped, growing not only in understanding, but also in wisdom.

When is the Student Ready?The Chinese proverb, "When the student is ready, the teacher will appear," is one that has alw...
10/07/2026

When is the Student Ready?

The Chinese proverb, "When the student is ready, the teacher will appear," is one that has always resonated with me. This week's Developing and Empowering Your People workshop was a beautiful reminder of this truth.

Over the two days, it was personally rewarding to me to witness a cohort of managers who came ready to learn. They demonstrated a genuine spirit of curiosity and growth by:

😀 Participating actively throughout the sessions, both asking thoughtful questions and contributing their perspectives.

😀 Freely sharing real workplace situations, both their successes and struggles, and leadership dilemmas with openness and honesty.

😀 Making full use of their learning journals to capture insights, with some even highlighting key ideas to deepen connections.

😀 Remaining fully present throughout the programme, choosing engagement over distractions from phones or laptops.

😀 Taking photos of the recommended books, eager to continue learning beyond the workshop.

😀 Sharing thoughtful personal reflections and meaningful takeaways at the end of each day.

😀 Most significantly, choosing not to blame their reporting officer or their teams for the challenges they face, but willing to look inward and ask, "Is my ego the hindrance?"

As I listened to their check-out reflections after two days, I was moved. Hearing several participants acknowledge how their own assumptions and habits might have been getting in the way and expressing a sincere willingness to practise what they had learned was a real privilege to witness.

In that moment, I felt profoundly grateful.
These experiences remind me why I continue to do this work.

There is a second part to the proverb that is quoted less often: "When the student is truly ready, the teacher will disappear." To me, that is the true measure of learning, not just what happens in the classroom, but what continues long after it.

I look forward to our follow-up session, where I hope to hear stories of how these managers have translated insight into practice, and leaning into lasting change.

Afterall, knowing is not doing.


Painting Our Canvas of LifeThis morning's Walk the Talk was organised by MentorsHub, where I have been serving as a stre...
27/06/2026

Painting Our Canvas of Life
This morning's Walk the Talk was organised by MentorsHub, where I have been serving as a strengths coach since 2021. The network supports undergraduates and young graduates through mentoring and coaching, helping them navigate the transition from university into the working world.

Meeting fellow mentors and coaches was a timely reminder that mentoring is not a top-down, one-way journey. As we shared our experiences, we reflected not only on our own paths but also on the privilege of walking alongside the next generation. Conversations with the mentee alumni offered a refreshing exchange of perspectives, keeping us connected to one another's different seasons of work and life, and reminding us how our perspectives evolve over time.

More than 30 years ago, when I was an undergraduate, my own journey was far from easy. I worked part-time to pay my university fees, and many days were incredibly exhausting. Looking back, what sustained me was not simply perseverance, but a deep grounding in my spiritual life, a quiet confidence to lean on God's strength rather than my own.

I also remember with deep gratitude the mentors in my church who journeyed with me, offering wisdom, encouragement, and hope during some of my dimmest days.

Reflecting on what it means to pour into others, my takeaway is that it does not require us to have "made it" in life, reached retirement, or feel completely equipped. We do not even need to have all the answers.

Often, what mentees remember is simply that someone was there, someone cared enough to be present, to listen, and to walk alongside them.

This is the masterpiece I envision life to be, that each of us adding brushstrokes to one another's lives, sometimes in ways we may never fully realise.

Lessons from the Dining Table The dining table offered many lessons on love and sacrifice when I was a child. I was born...
21/06/2026

Lessons from the Dining Table

The dining table offered many lessons on love and sacrifice when I was a child.

I was born into a humble family. Making ends meet for a family of five children on a single income was no easy feat for my late father.

There were many days when I noticed that all he ate was plain rice with warm water, while dishes were laid out on the table for the rest of us. When he returned from overtime work, he would occasionally bring home supper, and we children would gather eagerly for what felt like a real treat. Looking back now, I realise that those nights could have been his payday.

It is easy to give to your family when you have plenty.

It is easy to offer the biggest piece to your children whilst you have the other pieces.

It gets  difficult to keep giving when you have little.

Thanks, Pa, for the sacrifice you taught me:

❤️Give even if you may have close to nothing, for love is what you have left on the table.

Happy Father's Day!

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Presence Beyond PreferenceWhen words fail to express what you truly mean, the picture takes over. It has a way of depict...
14/06/2026

Presence Beyond Preference

When words fail to express what you truly mean, the picture takes over. It has a way of depicting what is hidden, lurking in the corner, buried beneath the surface, or floating above you. Especially when a picture is abstract, there is more than one way to interpret it, as each person sees it differently.

Spending an evening at the Gajah Gallery at the Singapore Arts Museum reminded me of the quote from John Keatingm, the English teacher from the movie “Dead Poets Society”:

“Medicine, law, business, engineering, these are noble pursuits and necessary to sustain life. But poetry, beauty, romance, love, these are what we stay alive for."

Humans are whole beings, and our decisions involve both the logical and analytical, as well as the intuitive and holistic aspects of our thinking and processing. One without the other handicaps our decisions, making them too skewed and simplistic.

In reality, we do tend to lean towards one or the other according to our preferences. When we coach, we engage the whole of the client. To stay present to the person in front of us, we need to tune into both sides of our thinking.

⚖️ When our presence is heavily hijacked by rational thinking, we risk becoming overly analytical or rigid in our interpretation. Coaching may then be reduced to a cognitive exercise that risks losing opportunities to notice unconscious cues, experience integration as a whole person, and support embodied transformation for the client.

❤️‍🩹 When our presence becomes over-empathetic, we risk losing perspective through emotional immersion. When we become acquiescent, we lose the opportunity to challenge, expand awareness, and awaken the client.

Like standing in front of each artwork, there is no single right interpretation, only an invitation to notice what emerges. The question then is not whether we are rational or intuitive, but whether we are aware of which part of us is taking the lead. What are we noticing, and what might we be missing? Not to judge, but to be present. Not to fix, but to awakening awareness.

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