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You may remember that I didn’t get my usual Christmas card done last year. Yes, it's September 2026, and I'm talking about 2025. 🤫

For the first time in years, it just didn’t happen. I did make hand-drawn cards, which I loved, but our annual family portrait still matters to me. A lot. A whole lot.

So I finally got it done.

Our kids are grown now, which makes these portraits feel even more important to me. They’re not about everyone being little and adorable in matching outfits. Although, let’s be clear, I still think they’re adorable, and matching outfits have absolutely happened. They’re about this season of who we are now, with our personalities, our rescue cats, our slightly dramatic ideas, and whatever creative world we come up with together this time. 😅

You know by now that I love fantasy portraits.

They don’t have to be only for young children. They can be playful, personal, a little ridiculous in the best way, and still incredibly meaningful.

And in my world, a family portrait is also a tradition, a time capsule, and proof that imagination doesn’t have an age limit.

𝐌𝐢𝐧𝐝𝐟𝐮𝐥 𝐌𝐨𝐧𝐝𝐚𝐲

I had this idea to make bubble art. In my head, it looked easy enough and like a lot of fun. It's the kind of thing that looks effortless in a tutorial and makes you think, “Oh, I can totally do that.” Famous last words.

I started experimenting with watercolor, acrylics, and mica powder. It was interesting, but also a little underwhelming.

I kept going because I wasn’t really making anything that had to turn out a certain way. I was just playing and testing things. I was also making a mess, just like I did when painting as a child. The good thing is, this time I didn't get in trouble, and that made it even more fun. 🤫

I think that, as adults, many of us have forgotten that creativity can be fun. We want a reason, a result, and a finished product that proves the time was worth it. As kids, we didn't care much about any of that. We tried something, reacted to it, changed direction, and kept going. Today, we're wondering if a page full of bubbles was a productive use of our afternoon.

I'm the first to admit that this was a learning curve for me. Productivity and perfectionism used to be high on my list. I forgot how much fun it can be just to play for no particular reason.

I’m not throwing any of these pages out. I don’t know what they’ll become yet, but I’ll keep an open mind. Maybe they’ll turn into backgrounds for something else, or I'll cut them up for another project. Maybe they’ll sit in a pile until I find them months from now. They'll be in good company with my other unfinished things.

Either way, they already did their job. They gave me time to play, experiment, and enjoy creating without needing the outcome to be impressive.

Hopefully, this Mindful Monday reminder will encourage you to play, make a mess, and do something just because it sounds like fun. And if anyone asks what you're doing, you can always call it “research.” Works beautifully for adults. 😄

This week I dabbled in abstract art, which is a very interesting activity for a recovering perfectionist. 😅

I played with watercolor, ink, pencils, oil pastels, acrylics, and a few “let’s see what happens if I do this” decisions. Some parts surprised me in a good way, and others made me wonder if I had taken the whole “play” thing a little too far.

The last one? Not my favorite. But I already have an idea for it, and it involves cutting it up. So we’re not done yet.

I also had a great time at this week's Zentangle class, which reminded me again how much I love watching people settle into the process, one line at a time.

A little experimenting, a little learning, a little mess, and plenty of joy.

I’m trying to get into the habit of posting a little “What did I create this week?” reel on Sundays.

I already missed last Sunday, so clearly this routine is off to a very professional start. 😅

But I still created, and that’s the part I actually care about.

I finished my Zentangle , which was a lot. A lot of tiny lines, a lot of “am I done yet?”, and a lot of joy.

I also played with watercolor some more. I’m still figuring it out, which means some parts work beautifully while others make me stare at the paper wondering what I'm doing.

But the fairy mushroom? 🍄 Love it!

So here’s my slightly late weekly creative check-in. Finished pieces, experiments, learning curves, and a reminder that creating still counts even if I remember sharing on Tuesday instead of Sunday.

I asked ChatGPT how it thinks this makes me feel.

The summary of the answer?

“𝐒𝐨𝐦𝐞𝐰𝐡𝐞𝐫𝐞 𝐛𝐞𝐭𝐰𝐞𝐞𝐧 𝐞𝐲𝐞 𝐫𝐨𝐥𝐥, 𝐢𝐫𝐫𝐢𝐭𝐚𝐭𝐢𝐨𝐧, 𝐚𝐧𝐝 ‘𝐨𝐡, 𝐩𝐥𝐞𝐚𝐬𝐞.’”

Pretty accurate!

I'm not here to dismiss AI. It has its place.

But every time I see posts promising that AI can make something “look like a professional photographer did it,” I feel that twitch.

Because photography isn’t just pushing a button and transforming a file.

A professional portrait experience starts long before the final image. It’s the idea, the planning, the styling, the conversation, the trust, calming nerves, the tiny adjustments, the way someone slowly relaxes in front of the camera, and the moment they begin to see themselves differently.

- It’s knowing how to guide a child into a story so they forget they’re being photographed.

- It’s helping a woman feel beautiful again when she hasn’t felt that way in a long time.

- It’s creating a fantasy world that actually means something to the person in it.

- It’s noticing the expression that matters, not just the one that looks “perfect.”

AI can do impressive things. No argument there.

But the experience I create for my clients is not a prompt. It’s personal, collaborative, and thoughtful. I care deeply about connection, the process, and the final product. For many of my clients, that's worth just as much as the portrait itself.