10/01/2026
10 years ago today, my best friend John Coffee had a stroke. There’s a peculiar duality to how time has passed.
It feels like just yesterday, and I feel like just the same person, while simultaneously feeling like a lifetime ago, where I don’t recognize myself at all.
Being with him and his team was the first time I ever felt like I belonged. While it was gone far too soon, I still consider myself so lucky to have met him and the people as part of his gym. Some people are never lucky enough to experience something that special and dear, but I was. I’m forever grateful.
For the sake of survival and figuring out what life is really about, I forced myself out and have really started to see the rest of the world. Were it not for losing him, I’d have been perfectly content settling in Marietta, Georgia for the rest of my life.
I’ve gotten to learn so much about life, and that the world is much bigger than Coffee’s Gym, or Marietta, Georgia, or the United States. That there is much more to life than Weightlifting. There’s a whole world out there that’s waiting to be explored.
I’m excited to learn what all is out there. I’m excited to grow and become a better person. And when the time is right, I’m excited to fulfill the promise I made to John the last time we spoke before he passed.
I sure do miss John, and wish I could share everything that I’ve learned and experienced the last years. I can’t help but feel there were many more journeys we were meant to take. But another 100 years likely wouldn’t have felt enough.
But I also can’t help but think he’d be proud of the journey I’ve embarked on.
I thought 10 years would be plenty of time to figure life out, but maybe you never truly figure it all out?
When I woke up this morning, I put on Spotify and the first song I played was Starman off of David Bowie’s The Rise and Fall of Ziggy Stardust.
That CD was the last thing John ever gave me before his stroke. A nice little reminder from John. I’ll never forget him.
Thank you all for supporting this page; I’ve gotten to see incredible places, have incredible experiences, and meet incredible people all because of you. I hope you’ll stick around.
- Edward