UrbanXplay

Happy National Coming Out Day 🏳️‍🌈

..but please, please know you can redo this day as many times as you want, or need, to

You can change your mind.

Your desires can adjust.

You are NOT stuck with the "last" thing you came out as

Or the first thing

You can celebrate coming out 🎉

Or you can simple just do you

The important thing to note is you have choice here

Freedom.

That freedom is what National Coming Out Day is all about 🙌🏾

So this is just your friendly reminder from someone who cam out as Le***an. Went through hell realizing she was Bisexual. To now today know that I'm just a q***r (k)inkster that enjoys people.

You CAN change your mind, as often as you'd like.

You are still valid and you were valid through those other versions of yourself as well 👏🏾

Pansexual is likely the logical term for me these days. But I don't even say that. Just a person that likes other persons 😋

And who knows, a year or two from now...it might all change again 🥰

That's the point..I get to decide.

And so do you

Dear Black Ki****er, finding community can be hard

But it doesn't have to be debilitating and I promise that it does get easier.

Some of us are the kind of people that walk into a room and we've never met a stranger. We find conversation relatively easy and flows with most folx. But others of us, are afraid to even join into the conversation in a comments section (no judgement lol I'm a bit of both 😋)

And honestly, the hardest part is just knowing *where* to look!! 🗣️"say, where y'all at?". You find one Black Ki****er and you just be like "Look, we're besties now and you're taking me to EVERYTHING" 😂

So this is a post about validation. This is a post about encouraging you to do hard things. And this is a post to share with you some pages and communities that have been essential in my growth as a ki****er or that I've had the pleasure of supporting and watching them support others in our growing community (and subset communities).

What is an account, a group, a community, a dope s*x worker you think we should all be following? Tag them in the comments! What about someone that is looking for community, AT them here - let's be friends 🥰

p.s. I gave you an assignment in the slides, be a good girl, a sweet boy, or precious human being and get it done, okay 😈

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It’s almost time 😈

The most indulgent night of your life is officially 3 weeks away and we cannot wait to let you peek inside our Kink Box

We’re only 1 week away from our tier III price increase. DON’T wait until the last minute, the punishment isn’t as fun as you may think ⛓️

And if you’re wondering what to wear - we have a post coming soon that should enlighten you!

Share this with a friend, tag someone who you think should cum, and know that we cannot wait to see you soon 💋

We know what your little kinky heart desires, what makes you blush a little, and we have it all right here in our Kink Box. Come take a peek inside 😈

Tonight is the night you secure your seat at the BEST lifestyle event Austin will have to offer in 2023 🙌🏾

Tickets for The Kink Box go on sale tonight, at midnight. There is limited availability for our VIP & Reserved seating options - I wouldn’t wait!

You can find out more about this event via the link in our bio!

Come see some of your favorite seductresses, Dominants, poets, and a bit of everything in between 🤤

Tag who you’re bringing with you to The Kink Box! Feel free to tag your favorite performer, we are always looking for sexy talent to expand the roster 😈

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Just in case there was any confusion 👏🏾

As the world opens up a bit more and we see more and more invites to parties, events, and other gatherings, this is your reminder that consent is paramount.

I enjoy the little sexy discussion we make kink into as much as the next hedonistic slut, but know this: regardless of if consent convos feel weird, awkward, uncomfortable, silly, etc - it’s mandatory!

Play safe and stay safe my friends 😈

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There’s something about getting all dressed up just to spend the night watching you undress me with those eyes 😈🥀

In case you find yourself all dressed up with nowhere to go…know The Kink Box is coming soon & we can’t wait to see you looking as sexy as the experience is sure to make you feel

January 1st tickets go on sale for our annual showcase of Black erotic Art, The Kink Box. This is a night to indulge your senses, explore new and old passions, and share in the Black Kink & B**M community.

Tickets go on sale January 1st at midnight! The event is February 16th here in Austin, TX.

More details can be found at the link in our bio ♥️

📸 and repost from: .b.photography_

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