10/11/2026
The Gift of Friendship - Meditation M***a
There are some people who come into your life and become part of your story in a way that no amount of time, distance, or change can ever undo. They are the people who have known you through every version of yourself, who remember the stories you’ve long forgotten, and who can make you laugh until you p*e your pants (no joke!)
Recently, my best friend Alisa and I reunited in Newport, Rhode Island, to celebrate something pretty pretty special: 50 years of friendship!
I’m not sure we could have ever imagined all the adventures, memories, and life experiences that would unfold when our friendship began.
I was three years old, playing out on the road by myself (I’m still not sure why a three-year-old was allowed to roam the neighborhood alone, but hey, it was the ’70s!). Alisa’s family was moving in next door, and she happened to walk down the road to say hi. I looked at her and asked, “Do you want to be my best friend?” Luckily, she said yes. And just like that, our lifelong friendship began.
We spent our childhoods playing, creating endless games to entertain ourselves, and spending countless hours at the lake near our homes. We were each other’s constant companions, creating the kind of memories that become woven into the fabric of who you are.
Then came our teenage years, which were a little less innocent! We spent our time sneaking out to meet boys, drinking, getting into trouble, and collecting plenty of stories that we probably wouldn’t want our kids to know about.
Thirty years ago, I moved across the country to Texas, while Alisa stayed on the East Coast. But distance never diminished our connection. We made an intentional effort to see each other every year, and we’ve continued talking weekly throughout the decades.
The thing about a lifelong best friend is you can go months without being in the same room, but the moment you’re together, it feels like no time has passed at all. You simply pick up right where you left off.
Over the years, our daughters have even developed their own close friendship, creating another beautiful thread in the story we’ve been writing together for half a century.
It’s not every day you get to celebrate 50 years of friendship, and our time together in Newport was such a beautiful reminder that the most meaningful moments in life are often the simplest ones. We drank our morning coffee overlooking the ocean, watched an ’80s movie, pulled out old diaries filled with our teenage secrets, sipped w**e while watching the sunset, and laughed about memories that only the two of us could fully appreciate. It was absolutely perfect.
Meaningful friendships don’t thrive on good intentions alone. They thrive when we make the time. They require us to pick up the phone, plan the trip, send the message, make the invitation, and show up for one another, even when life gets busy. They ask us to be intentional about nurturing the people who nourish us in return.
Quality friendships are essential to a thriving life. They are our support system when life gets hard, our sounding board when we need perspective, our biggest cheerleaders when we need a boost, and the people who remind us who we are when we lose our way.
They give us a place to be vulnerable, to celebrate our wins, to process our challenges, and to laugh at ourselves. They remind us that we don’t have to navigate this beautiful, messy, unpredictable journey alone.
As I reflect on these 50 years with Alisa, I feel an overwhelming sense of gratitude. I am so blessed to have wonderful friendships in my life, and I never want to take a single one of them for granted.
I believe Alisa and I were destined to find each other. Sometimes I think there was a soul contract between us long before that little three-year-old girl stood on the road and asked a simple question that would shape the next five decades of her life. What a beautiful reminder that the smallest moments can lead to the most extraordinary connections.
So, I invite you to take a moment today to think about the people who make your life richer, who lift you up, who make you laugh, and who love you exactly as you are. Reach out. Make the plans. Book the trip. Have the coffee. Watch the silly movie. Stay up too late talking about everything and nothing.
Alisa, thank you for saying yes to that little girl on the road 50 years ago. I am forever grateful for our friendship, our shared history, and the beautiful soul connection that continues to grow with every passing year. Here's to the next chapter and all the laughter, adventures, and memories still waiting for us.
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