Co-Founder, Aligned Attraction: A modern relationship school for women
Hunger for Truth is a deeply er0t!c experience…to FEEL ALL the of emotions that come up (especially when we confront a hard Truth) — w/o pushing them away, minimizing them, avoiding them — is truly sensational 💥 WTF did we come here for if not to feel and experience it all?! If not to know the Truth about our greatness (by way of seeing all the illusions we’ve kept ourselves stuck & suffering inside of)?! If not to Re-member that we ARE LOVE?!❤️
Humble musings: my inner peace doesn’t come from outside of me. That’s an inside job between me and me/me and God. When i release my husband from that covert contract (needing to be the source of my peace), i reclaim my True Power and resolve the pattern single handedly (inside of myself). P**f 💨 painful pattern: gone ✅ and what do ya know? Plenty of energy to actually give/receive the love and connection I deeply desire. ❤️
A few weeks ago I confessed that I love sniffing my husband’s armpits.
The internet responded with:
“WAIT. I DO THIS TOO.”
Naturally, I went down a research rabbit hole.
Apparently women rank smell as more important than men do when choosing a partner.
Apparently women use scent cues more than men.
And apparently women who are more satisfied with their partner’s scent also report higher relationship satisfaction.
So what I’m hearing is…
I’m not weird.
I’m conducting highly sophisticated relationship research. 🧐
Please tell me I’m not alone.
🫠 = you love your partner’s smell
🚩 = we’re all completely unhinged
STOP 🛑 trying to change your partner. You have no control over them (and truly, you don’t want control over them bc that’s not real intimacy. Trying to control people and things outside of you only creates a deeper sense of powerlessness, NOT power). Instead look at what you actually have agency over (hint: something inside of you), and adjust that instead. 💪🏽 PS. This post is NOT about tolerating genuinely harmful behavior, you can still remove yourself from dangerous situations, have healthy boundaries, and make requests for your needs to be met. But don’t become dependent on other people and things needing to change for you to feel safe and at ease inside yourself. ♥️
A MUST HAVE skill if you want a hot, healthy relationship ❤️🔥