12/10/2025
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Gerald "Mr. BPOZ" Mayes
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Being A Good DAD Has Made Me A Good Husband and Good Man! Now I Support Good Dads To Be Good Husbands and Men!
Join The Good Dad's Club Facebook Group www.facebook.com/groups/thegooddadsclub I'm Gerald; a husband and father of 4 children from teens to adulthood. I have a 3 passions My family, Your Family, and The Health of Both! Because of these passions I created products such as the Healthier University, The Yes, We Fight Live Show, and the Healthier YOU podcast. This allows me to impact families helping them to be healthier both inside and out!
12/10/2025
10/28/2024
šš¾I want to know what exactly I am voting for and how my vote impacts my household and my actual life!
But the only thing available is "They Not Like Us" .....No Kendrick..... and unfortunately not being the other person is only good enough if you just vote party lines.
But what about the rest of us? The rest of us that try to take an honest realistic view at all candidates and would prefer to make our selections based on the Agendas and Policies they support and how it impacts the life of my family.
This is why I reached out to former Clark County Commissioner Lawrence Weekly and NAACP Branch #1111 - Las Vegas President Quentin Savwoir to help me put together a nonpartisan voter education workshop to 'EDUCATE' us on 'Policies NOT Politics'
If you are a dad and you are unsure about voting in this climate then I invite you out to learn a little bit about the impact of your vote in your own family.
When: Wednesday, October 30, 2024
How To Register: https://bit.ly/gooddadvote
*Whether you vote or choose not to, let your decision be an informed one. The impact of knowledge lasts longer than the act itself.
How Your Vote Impacts Your Family | Man Cave - How To Be A Good Father | The Good Dads Club The Good Dads Club to Host FREE Webinar: āHow Your Vote Impacts YOUR Familyā on October 30, 2024 from 6:30pm ā 7:30pm NAACP Local Branch 1111 Supports Initiative to Educate Male Voters on the Importance of Voting for Their Families Las Vegas, NVĀ ā In partnership with the NAACP Local Branch ...
10/24/2024
š³ļø Tired of the endless political bickering that distracts from what really matters? I hear you. As a dad, Iām not concerned with whoās the loudest or the flashiestāI care about how my vote will shape my familyās future, financial stability, and well-being.
Instead of getting caught up in the noise, itās time to have a real conversation about how our votes directly impact the lives of the people we love most.
Thatās why Iāve invited Former Clark County Commissioner and Host of Real Talk on Power 88.1 , Dr. Lawrence Weekly, and Quentin Savwoir, President of NAACP Branch #1111 - Las Vegas and Director of Programs for The Ballot Initiative Strategy Center, to join us in The Good Dads Club - Man Cave for an honest discussion about how your vote impacts your family.
Whether you plan to vote or not, I want you to make that decision because itās whatās best for your familyānot because you feel like your voice doesnāt matter.
šļø October 30, 2024; 6:30pm - 7:30pm
š Virtual Event
š¢ Q&A right after the discussion
Register today: https://www.clubgooddad.com/mancave
10/23/2024
šØAttention, Fellow Dads!šØ
Your vote directly impacts your familyās futureāboth financially and socially?
Join me on October 30th for a Man Cave Session where weāll break down exactly how your vote impacts YOUR household.
PLUS, just for registering you'll have a chance to win apart of $750 worth of gift cards! š
š¬ Special Guests: Former Councilman, Dr. Lawrence Weekly and President of NAACP-LV Quentin Savwoir will share their insights on how policies affect YOUR household.
š Save the Date: October 30th, 6:30 PM (Zoom)
š» To claim your spot and enter the gift card giveaway register here: https://www.clubgooddad.com/mancave
Donāt waitālimited spots available!
10/17/2024
šš¾ Hey Fellow Dads,
Have you ever thought you were doing everything right as a dad, only to find out later that you missed something BIG? That was me with my daughter. I thought I was listening to her, but what I was really doing was brushing off her feelings and jumping straight to solutions. It wasnāt until years later that I realized just how much that affected herāand our relationship.
In my latest blog, Iām sharing a story about a time my daughter told me, āDad, you never listened to me.ā š It was a hard pill to swallow, but it completely changed how I approach being a dad. The lesson learned? Active Listeningāitās a game-changer.
This isnāt just about hearing words; itās about connecting with our kids on a deeper level, understanding their feelings, and being there for them when it counts. Trust me, when you master this skill, you can avoid years of emotional distance with your kids.
Want to learn how to start listening better today? Check out my latest blog where I break it all down and give you practical tips to become the dad your kids can truly open up to. š¬šš¾
Read the full story here: https://bit.ly/407Kmbs
š» Cheers to connecting deeper with our kids!
10/01/2024
09/18/2024
šØ Netflix Recommendation: The Lost Daughter šØ
My wife and I recently watched The Lost Daughter on Netflix, and let me tell youāitās WILD. Without giving too much away, it's a powerful story about Kathy, a young mother who gave her daughter up for adoption. Years later, she embarks on a crazy journey to uncover what really happened to her daughter, who has been missing since she was 14.
Itās a gut-wrenching ride filled with twists and emotional complexities. What stood out to me the most, though, was the intense dynamic between Kathy and the adoptive family. It raises deep questions about the nature of parenthood: Is a child still "yours" if you didn't raise them? How connected are we to children we didn't biologically create?
As a father in a blended family myself, these questions hit home. Iāve been raising my stepson since he was 2, and though heās not biologically mine, he's my son. Itās an interesting, emotional, and sometimes complicated dynamic that many of us in blended families face.
This documentary really makes you reflect on the bonds we share with our kidsāwhether biological or notāand the responsibilities we take on as parents, step-parents, or guardians.
If youāre in a blended family or navigating co-parenting, this documentary will have you thinking long after itās over. I highly recommend you check it out when you have the time. Itās not just a storyāitās a conversation starter.
09/02/2024
š„ Are Financial Disagreements Stressing Your Relationship? š„
Did you know that up to 40% of divorces are due to financial issues? š³
Money matters are one of the leading causes of tension in relationships, but it doesnāt have to be that way.
But hereās the good news: Financial disagreements donāt have to drive a wedge between you and your partner. In fact, they can actually bring you closer togetherāif handled the right way. š«
In my latest blog, I share a personal story about how my wife and I navigated a major money disagreement, and the lessons we learned that helped us turn conflict into compromise. š¬
šÆ The key? Open communication, compromise, and a budget that meets both of your needs. šÆ
What if I told you that keeping just one credit card instead of canceling them all could actually bring more peace than sticking to a rigid plan? Itās all about finding what works for both of you.
š Ready to strengthen your relationship and find financial harmony? Check out the full blog for actionable tips on handling financial disagreements without damaging your relationship.
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08/29/2024
šļøIn a different life, I was an instructor for the Professional Fitness Institute. I taught all of their capstone educationāthe in-person, hands-on stuff that truly defines fitness.
One of my favorite guest instructors was Tommy Boyer-Kendrick. He used to always say that his job wasn't just about making athletes faster, stronger, or able to jump higher; it was about making them injury-proof. In other words, the more proper and deliberate work athletes put in, the better they could withstand the rigors of their sport.
In other words: Resilienceā¼ļø
This concept has stuck with me, and I've found it to be just as true in other areas of life. As a father and husband, we each need to put in our own proper and deliberate individual work to withstand the rigors of fatherhood and marriage.
Life, much like sports, is full of adversity. Some challenges are small, requiring just a simple tweak or adjustment to overcome. Others are life-altering, demanding a much deeper level of resilience and recovery. But in both cases, just like with any injury, you must properly rehabilitate and find your way back to full strength.
Hereās what I mean:
Small Setbacks: These are the daily challengesāmissed opportunities, minor disagreements, or unexpected obstacles. Like a minor sprain, they might slow us down temporarily, but with the right mindset and a small adjustment, we can quickly get back in the game.
Major Challenges: Then there are the major adversitiesālosses, significant life changes, or deep emotional wounds. These are the equivalent of a major injury in sports. They require time, patience, and a thorough rehab process. You canāt rush through it, but with dedication and the right support, you can come back stronger.
Rehabilitation and Recovery: Whether the challenge is big or small, the key is to engage in proper rehabilitationāphysically, emotionally, and mentally. Just as an athlete would follow a recovery plan, we too must take deliberate steps to heal, grow, and regain our strength after facing adversity.
Returning to the Game: The goal, always, is to get back in the game. Lifeās adversities are not meant to sideline us permanently. With the right approach, we can return to our rolesāwhether as parents, partners, or professionalsābetter equipped to handle whatever comes our way.
Just like in sports, the work we put in to overcome adversity ensures that we can continue to perform at our best. Whether itās a minor tweak or a major comeback, each step in the recovery process builds the resilience we need to thrive in the long run.
08/26/2024
š° Are you setting your kids up for financial success, or leaving them to learn the hard way?
As dads, we know that money management is one of the most critical skills our kids will need in life.
But when's the right time to start teaching them? The answer might surprise you.
In todayās complex financial world, our kids face more challenges than ever. From digital banking to the rise of cryptocurrency, understanding money isnāt just about balancing a checkbook anymore. Without the right guidance, they could struggle with financial pitfalls we never saw coming.
Iāve just released a new blog post that breaks down why itās crucial to start teaching your kids about money early, and how to do it effectively. Whether youāre working on your own financial game or helping your kids build theirs, this post offers practical steps to guide you through.
š Check out the full blog here https://www.clubgooddad.com/blog/b/money-lessons-for-kids
and letās raise a generation of financially savvy kids together. Donāt forget to share your thoughts in the commentsāhow are you teaching your kids about money?
08/20/2024
šØNew Blog Alert!!!
Does fatherhood sometimes feel like an overwhelming mountain to climb? Itās a common struggle, and many dads wish they could lighten the load and find some relief.
The truth is, stress can make it incredibly hard to balance your responsibilities and still enjoy quality time with your family. The good news? There are practical, actionable tips tailored specifically for dads that can help you manage stress and restore balance in your life. But bewareāif you donāt address the stress now, it could take a serious toll on both you and your loved ones.
Donāt wait until itās too late. Check out our blog, "How Dads Can Conquer Stress For Themselves and Their Families," and discover how you can take control of your stress and find the harmony youāve been searching for.
https://www.clubgooddad.com/blog/b/how-dads-can-conquer-stress-for-themselves-and-their-families
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