3 Things I’ll NEVER Do as a Life & Leadership Coach
After 8 years in this work and helping over 1,000 people transform their lives, I’ve learned what actually moves the needle and what keeps us stuck.
Here’s what I’ll never do:
1. Punish myself when I fall short. Self-punishment doesn’t create change, it perpetuates the same cycle of hate and conflict we’re trying to heal in the world. Compassion is the only real catalyst for growth.
2. Chain myself to my past. The moment you over-identify with who you were, you box yourself in. Your history informs you, but it doesn’t define your capacity for what’s next.
3. Process my problems exclusively with AI. Not every relationship is designed to hold your deepest work. Real transformation requires intentionality in how we speak to ourselves, how we honor our journey, and what we invite into our process. A computer isn’t a human being.
What’s one pattern you’ve had to unlearn on your own growth journey?
Tarita Preston
Life & Leadership Coach. A trusted source for transformation. Intuitive Channel.Question Czar. Mystic
3 Things I’ll NEVER Do as a Life & Leadership Coach
After 8 years in this work and helping over 1,000 people transform their lives, I’ve learned what actually moves the needle and what keeps us stuck.
Here’s what I’ll never do:
1. Punish myself when I fall short. Self-punishment doesn’t create change, it perpetuates the same cycle of hate and conflict we’re trying to heal in the world. Compassion is the only real catalyst for growth.
2. Chain myself to my past. The moment you over-identify with who you were, you box yourself in. Your history informs you, but it doesn’t define your capacity for what’s next.
3. Process my problems exclusively with AI. Not everything is designed to hold your deepest work. Real transformation requires intentionality in how we speak to ourselves, how we honor our journey, and what we invite into our process. A computer isn’t a human being.
What’s one pattern you’ve had to unlearn on your own growth journey?
I hate to say it….🙅🏾♀️🙅🏾♀️🙅🏾♀️🙅🏾♀️
When you don’t listen to your own voice, you start living based on other people’s standards.
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08/12/2025
I’m nearing the finish line of the Cincinnati African American Chamber Executive Business Accelerator Program—a nine-month journey focused on mastering business fundamentals and scaling for growth.
One highlight? A powerhouse workshop with Vada Hill, CMO of Taco Bell. 🌟 His insights on brand, leadership, and strategy were game-changing.
I’m so grateful to the Chamber for offering a program that equips, connects, and inspires business leaders like me. Here are a few of my top takeaways from Vada’s session…
07/30/2025
Are you proving your worth or providing real value at work?
There’s a difference.
Most leaders are unconsciously proving, validating why they belong, jumping through hoops, trying to be seen as likable, competent, accepted.
You’d be surprised how many people go to work seeking love, affirmation, or approval.
At Advanced Leadership for Women, we’re taking “proving” off the table.
We’re doubling down on a truth: your worth isn’t up for measurement.
Instead, we ask a more powerful question:
👉 What value am I providing, and is it truly useful?
When our focus is on being seen, the ego runs the show and that limits our impact.
When our focus is on service, growth, and usefulness, we lead from a deeper, more expansive place.
Come learn advanced leadership skills that expand your consciousness and your capacity.
Our doors close August 20th.
Let’s stop proving. Let’s lead.
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07/24/2025
🚨 Early bird pricing ends this Friday, July 25th!
Advanced Leadership for Women is quickly selling out.
To the women leaders:
What if work could be a place of healing and growth?
What if everything happening in your world was happening for you?
Come for the community.
Stay for the transformation.
Leave with a renewed sense of power, purpose, and possibility.
I hope to see you there. 💫
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07/19/2025
July Photo Dump: Masterpiece, Mastering peace.
07/15/2025
One of my favorite parts of running a business is getting to create.
Designing materials that reflect my voice and vision brings me so much joY and when I launched Advanced Leadership for Women, I knew I needed a team that could bring that vision to life.
Enter Edelmade, a Cincinnati-based branding studio run by the incredible husband-and-wife duo, Lauren and Mike Hauss. If you didn’t know, Lauren and I go way back, I was her HR manager during our GE days. When I made the leap into coaching, Lauren was one of the first people I called. She helped me build the first Curated Coaching Brand, and she’s been helping shape my branding voice ever since—eight years and counting.
From logos to color palettes to full-on brand guides, they’ve supported every chapter of my growth as a coach and business owner. So when I shared my vision for Advanced Leadership for Women—and what I wanted to design for my website and in the world—they were all in.
✨ So today, I’m sharing a few of the posters we created for my upcoming event at Music Hall. These are designed to spark reflection in women leaders:
— Are you a soft place to land for yourself in leadership?
— Are you your harshest critic?
— What’s your relationship with you?
Take a moment to reflect on those. And if you’d like a poster to hang in your office or business to spark similar conversations—send me a DM. I’d love to send one your way. Our early bird ticket sales end on July 25th. Afterward our price increases.
06/29/2025
This August, Advance Leadership for Women— a powerful experience designed to elevate women leaders to their next level of impact and influence will occur in Music Hall.
Curious what will happen during our time together? We’re hosting two complimentary workshops to share what we’ve learned leading and coaching hundreds of women—and to unpack two powerful distinctions we see come up again and again.
📅 Join us July 8th & 9th at 10 a.m. EST
One of the distinctions we’ll explore is this:
👉 Proving your worth vs. Providing value
Are you walking into meetings trying to be seen, liked, or validated? Or are you grounded in service, bringing your full brilliance and insight forward?
These sessions are an invitation to slow down, reflect, and reconnect to the kind of leader you want to be.
Here is the zoom link for registration:
https://chief.zoom.us/meeting/register/12mFMJYVS2aA_59JUgZZlQ
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