Yvette The Coach M.A., CDC, Narcissistic Abuse Support

Missing Dr. Wayne Dyer's pertinent insights that always seemed to show up with synchronized timing. “You leave old habits behind by starting out with the thought, “I release the need for this in my life.'” — Wayne Dyer

If you want a perfect example of a narcissistic episode and rampage look up trump's post on his so-called social media platform on Youtube, posting the Obama's as monkeys in a video while he did his usual false rampage about the 2020 election being stolen. His behavior over the last few days has escalated and accelerated into a massive narcissistic episode exploding last night on his platform. Narcissistic episodes usually last at the longest around 72 hours. Let's watch today and tomorrow and see if he breaks the usual pattern.

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Donald Trump's Racist Post: Obama Depicted as Monkeys #trump #obama #shorts US President Donald Trump has been slammed as 'disgusting' for appearing to share a video of Michelle and Barack Obama as apesWith no words on the Truth Soci...

An MD's take on "Shared Parenting." Her experience with working with children shuffled back and forth between two households in all the chaos with that and with the different rules. It's absolutely ludicrous.

Joint Custody Children going back and forth, sane or insane? Joint custody: going back and forth between parents-- sane or insane?

A follow up article on shared parenting. Again assuming that both parents are stable and no emotional abuse or manipulation is going on. It's like a candy coated, fluffy world is out there where every child is so much better off with both parents. As we all know...this could not be farther from the truth. Especially since more and more women are staying in the abusive marriage, taking the brunt of the abuse so that the children will not have to spend time with the abuser for days at a time all by themselves with no buffer. Once again women are reduced to being of little worth other than a buffer to a raging, personality disordered misogynist. This automatic shared parenting culture is dangerous and needs to be stopped. We should never "assume" all is well.

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Finally, some data on the "Shared Parenting" fiasco. Worst legislation ever accepted. For the courts to assume that all parents are fantastic parents, and have a right to equal time with their children, is a huge problem in this country.

Kentucky’s Equal Custody Law Shows Why America Needs Shared Parenting Presumptions — National Parents Organization The Wall Street Journal recently spotlighted Kentucky’s groundbreaking equal custody law in an article titled “The Equal-Custody Experiment.” The piece confirms what advocates of shared parenting have long known: children benefit when both parents are fully involved in their lives, and familie...

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Feeling like you need rescuing? Hang in there. The rescue is coming!

Stranded Koala Rescued by Students in Canoe In what might be the cutest animal rescue ever, college students in Australia rescued a koala stranded in a tree. The rescuers think it got stuck after water...

The delusions begin to become comical after a while don't they. We all fantasize about better days, situations, jobs, careers, lives...but delusions are far more serious. The king the narcissists believe they are is grandiose to the point of hysteria. When we are deceiving ourselves by believing outrageous things we are delusional.

Believing you are going to get something better with a horrible NPD person, might be delusional since it's kind of outrageous to think they will suddenly become someone else. But it's doubtful you are going to stay with a horrible narcissist. You just want something better so you might fantasize about it being like it was in the beginning. It's very likely you will get out at some point. And getting out is not delusional! That is highly probable! Hang in there. Freedom is closer.

This apology sounds like a reflection, yet once again deflects the abuser away from actively taking responsibility and truly apologizing. It again leaves you not realizing until later that once again you didn't get an apology.

This apology has a hint that there's a need to apologize, yet relieves the narcissist from actually apologizing. You still don't get what you deserve -- a heartfelt apology and being heard.

So this apology creates a conversation about what other people think and relieves the abuser of talking about themselves and admitting they did something wrong. After a long, swirling array of switchbacks and gaslighting, you realize you never got the apology you wanted.

This apology allows the narcissist to pretend to have no idea what they really did, so they can release themselves from all past, present, and future abuses, and continue to be horrible people -- that is if you want to call them people.