Tequila's Tribe

09/13/2026

Headed west- See ya soon Phoenix!
I used to fly everywhere. I spent 20 years working in corporate America, flying everywhere, boarding planes on a regular basis, living out of a suitcase in a hotel suite, racking up platinum and chairman level points with the airlines- all on my company’s dime.
Everything and everyone was in such a rush, I was important, and important people were waiting.

I hated driving on long trips. I always thought of it as time wasted spent driving when I could just fly and be there in far less time and start getting things done.

These days I look at it completely differently. I still fly, but I spend a lot of time on the road driving and I look at the trip completely differently.
Now instead of getting on the road and thinking about the destination, I consider the entire drive the destination.
If I have to be somewhere in two days, I’ll usually leave three or four days for travel so I can stop and visit places , meet people, enjoy the scenery or be a tourist along the way.

Changing my perspective significantly on travel shows the shift in my mindset.
Whatever or whoever it is, will be there waiting for you when you finally arrive.
And if it’s not then it wasn’t meant for you. Stop focusing on the destination, the outcome, the end result; instead focus on the moment.
Enjoy what’s around you.
Discover things that you would’ve overlooked along the way.
This is where the best part happens.

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09/13/2026

Spent a lot of time with the Motorcycle Safety Lawyers®️ team in Texas.
Such a great group that puts so much time and effort into everything they support.
Thank you Larry & Dave (and fam) for all you do for the motorcycle community and for the women that are making moves .

09/13/2026

Experience the moments instead of just existing in them.
Xoxo it’s never too late to start again .
It’s never too late for the second half.

09/12/2026

These women are bad ass!!!! Thats me on the back !!!!!

09/11/2026

The Second Half
Today I told my story to a group of women in a large auditorium.
I didn’t sugar coat it, I didn’t hide any details, and I didn’t paint myself a hero or only fans noble.
I simply told the story of Tequila Kay - how she came about and who she is .
I shared with women who I am and what I’ve learned.
It’s amazing how telling the story that almost destroyed you brings people together.
The story is the same, It’s only the details that change.
The judgement , the shame , the sacrifice , the heartbreak of betrayal from those you love.
There is no feeling like being seen for who you really are.
There is no feeling to explain how it feels when strangers embrace you and show you more love than those in your “circle “.
There is no feeling to explain how sharing your biggest heartbreaks and things you were judged and shamed for gives someone else hope, understanding and a feeling of not being alone.
I’ve met so many women today that thanked me for having the courage to share , but what they don’t realize is that they are helping me too.
They are helping me understand why my suffering was worth it in a much different way.
I had one hell of a story before any of this, and I thought my story was over and it was time to finally settle into the second half of my life…. but God wasn’t done with me yet.

And to those who turned their backs, judged and caused me pain during my worst time know this :

“What was intended to harm me, God intended it for good to accomplish what is now being done, the saving of many lives. “