Jeremy Ostler Consulting

If ‘love’ becomes a crowbar, something’s off. Three truths that expose it.

Three signs a group is protecting the wrong person

Three shifts that shut down the mistreatment of others

“Unconditional love” is one of the most misused phrases in conflict

Don’t chase lies told about. Just pay attention to who believes them.

Three signs it’s time to distance yourself

Three phrases that shut down DARVO—without getting pulled into the blame flip

Three phrases that shut down triangulation—without getting dragged into drama

If someone isn’t safe, the most dangerous thing you can give them is access

Three phrases that shut down the silent treatment—without chasing them