08/19/2026
From teaching middle school students to now supporting high school students temporarily assigned to our school for various infractions for 15 to 30 days, a semester, or even a full year to ensure they complete home-campus coursework, I didn’t expect this lesson so early in the school year.
But I quickly realized something: regardless of age or grade level, the value of being seen, cared for, and heard remains constant.
That realization has also reminded me of the importance of checking my own “bags” before I step into the building each day.
As educators, it’s not uncommon that we carry our own experiences, frustrations, expectations, and emotions into the classroom. This is one of the reasons I developed the RESET Framework and why I emphasize it in my professional learning session, “Teaching Through the Storm.”
1. Release what I don’t need to carry into the learning space.
2. Examine what I’m feeling, thinking, and bringing with me.
3. Self-evaluate how my mindset may influence my interactions.
4. Engage with students from a place of connection, curiosity, and care.
5. Time to Reflect on what worked, what didn’t, and what I can do differently tomorrow.
Before we ask students to navigate their storms, we have to be willing to check what we are carrying into theirs.
Who knew that the 12th grader who asked me to print her a coloring page on the third day of school would hand it back to me two hours later—full of color.