Coach Diana Ryan LPC

De-romanticization: Arthur Arron (love through idolization)

1. What exactly does this person do for me every day (actions)?
2. If I met this person today for the first time, would I choose them again (knowing what you know now)?
3. How many times have a I changed, myself, my plans, my boundaries, how many times have they?
4. What do I get from this relationship that I couldn’t get from others or myself?
5. Who have I become next to this person, better or worse?
6. If my best friend were in this type of relationship, what would I tell them?

7. Write down all answers and reread after 24hrs.

Thank you so much for inviting me back for another intimate talk A Motivating Love , & Daphne Anderson! So many experiences were shared and laughter and great energy was in the room. You have always curated experiences for and with women that's desperately needed and I had a wonderful time!

Who was happily looking for a soulmate but feels like they ended up with a degree in psychology, specializing in narcissistic personality disorder? It’s almost laughable — if it weren’t so painful. You went into the relationship with an open heart, ready to love, to build, to grow with someone who you thought was genuine. You believed in connection, in partnership, in soul-deep love. But what you got instead was a masterclass in manipulation, gaslighting, and emotional warfare.

You thought you were learning about love, but instead, you were studying patterns of control — silent treatments, blame-shifting, projection, and all the tactics a narcissist uses to maintain power. You became an expert at reading moods, predicting reactions, walking on eggshells, and decoding lies. You learned the language of emotional abuse without ever signing up for the course.

At first, you thought it was love — the intensity, the charm, the passion. But soon, you started realizing it wasn’t love; it was a performance. The grand gestures, the compliments, the attention — they were bait. Once you were hooked, the mask slipped, and the lessons began. You found yourself constantly analyzing, overthinking, and trying to understand *why* things were always your fault. You weren’t living in love; you were surviving a psychological experiment you never consented to.

You learned about narcissistic rage, about gaslighting so subtle it made you question your own memory. You learned that apologies from them are empty, that accountability doesn’t exist in their world, and that empathy is a foreign language they refuse to learn. You became fluent in defending yourself against emotional manipulation — a skill no one should ever need in a loving relationship.

And when you finally left, you didn’t just walk away — you graduated. You came out stronger, wiser, and painfully aware of red flags you’ll never ignore again. You didn’t get the soulmate you hoped for, but you gained something else: self-awareness, strength, and the ability to recognize true love when it finally arrives.

Because now you know — love isn’t supposed to feel like a test. It’s not supposed to drain you, confuse you, or make you question your worth. Real love doesn’t require a degree in psychology to survive it — it brings peace, not pain.

The Sensual Woman 6.2 ... PAUSE continued

Date: Oct 25 • 18:00

The Sensual Woman 6.2 ... PAUSE continued To discuss in a safe environment about s*x, relations, connections, toys and intimacy; intended for women 21+