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This is so brilliant and well put! Highly recommend the watch.

7 Ways to Maximize Misery 😞 Adapted from How to Be Miserable by Randy J. Paterson PhD: https://www.amazon.com/How-Be-Miserable-Strategies-Already/dp/1626254060/VERY IMPORTANT FOOTNOTE: ...

This is good

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The audio on this (and every other video I record these days) is terrible because there is so much dirt in my phone from throwing it in the grass so I can pull up this or that w**d or mess with this or that grapevine. Anyway, I hope it speaks to someone. This is the way bo***ge works. The enemy of our souls is sly enough to make sure the vine growing around us is thin and non-threatening to keep us comfortable with it. Then over time we get friendly with it and then it gets thicker and thicker and tighter and tighter until, like a python, it squeezes the life out of us. Jesus follower, it is for freedom that Christ has set you free. You have a Bondage-Breaker. He can use any number of methods but this much I promise you: the will of Jesus is for you to be free. Know to your core that, if the devil can’t kill you, he will settle for the next best thing: incapacitating you and your gifts so that you are of no threat whatsoever to the darkness. PS. Especially keep an eye out for madipulative people. They are even worse than your every day generic manipulative variety. Lol. Just one time I’d like to get one video right. Just once. I will never be cool enough for Instagram.

I had been working with a client for a while on boundaries and in particular with not enabling a friend of theirs who always had so many hardships and extenuating circumstances and reasons they just needed a little more help each week or month. My client finally drew a hard boundary with love in the late spring, and within a month the person had persevered through the biggest, most disruptive hurdle mostly on their own (my client helped with a minor ask after the hardest part had been done). Now, several months later, I have gotten an update that the person my client set and held a boundary with has accomplished several major goals, with very minimal contact with my client!

It’s a beautiful effect I’m going to nickname “Domino Coaching” where difficult work and healthy boundaries done by one lead to material improvement in those they interact with.

Boundaries pretty much always feel not great to the person on the other side of them, at least initially. They rarely feel stellar to the person setting them! But this is a wonderful example of the bigger picture of how setting a boundary for yourself can jump start positive change and growth in the other person. It won’t always be so dramatic, but it often actually is!

Enabling harms the enabled, not just the increasingly depleted enabler.

If you struggle to set hard boundaries with people in your life and it is hindering your own movement forward, contact us for a free consultation. Who knows? It may even become a Domino-Coaching situation!