12/09/2024
This message is so sad
Someone left this comment on my YouTube video I made a few days ago…
I thought my response to this person may help you as well…
Before I share my thoughts, I want to be clear: I'm not a medical professional.
I'm a holistic health coach and functional nutritionist who focuses on preventative health measures to help people improve their physical, mental, and emotional wellbeing.
While I can share what I've learned and experienced, please consult with healthcare professionals for medical advice, especially regarding specific conditions.
— Here Is My Response:
Reading your message resonated with me very deeply.
I can feel the weight of your struggle in every word, and I want you to know that you're not alone in this journey.
— Let's Talk About Nutrition:
I noticed how you emphasized "CAN'T. EAT. CARBS. REGULARLY."
I hear you, and I understand the frustration when your body seems to fight against basic foods.
Here’s a different perspective:
You've already shown incredible awareness by identifying how certain foods affect you.
That's not weakness – that's wisdom.
Your body is communicating with you, and you're listening.
Instead of saying you can't eat carbs, let's get specific:
- You've noticed grains and potatoes cause issues
- But there's a whole world of other carbohydrates your body might welcome
- Think berries, non-starchy vegetables, legumes, even quinoa
— Understanding Your Body's Signals
Again, I want to emphasize that I'm not a medical professional, and I don't know your specific situation.
However, from my experience as a health coach, when someone has strong reactions to certain carbohydrates like you're describing, it could point to underlying issues that deserve medical attention.
Your symptoms – particularly the joint pain, inflammation, and how dramatically better you feel when avoiding certain carbs – might suggest conditions like celiac disease or insulin resistance.
But please remember: I'm not making a diagnosis.
I'm sharing possibilities that you might want to discuss with your healthcare provider.
If you can, consider getting comprehensive blood work done to find the root cause.
Some key markers to discuss with your doctor might include:
- Fasting blood glucose and insulin levels
- CRP or HSCRP (inflammation markers)
- Homocysteine (inflammation markers)
- ALT Liver enzymes
- Celiac disease screening
Understanding these markers could help you create a more customized approach to your nutrition.
Instead of avoiding all carbs, you might discover specific types your body can process and help with the systemic inflammation..
— Sleep and Movement:
I know that feeling of forcing yourself to move, waiting for it to be over.
I've been there.
But here's what I've learned:
You don't have to love movement right now.
That's okay.
What if instead of seeking enjoyment, we started with acceptance?
It’s something you have to do, like the oil change on your car.
No one likes to do it but if you want to have your car run you need to.
Start small:
- Step outside your door once daily
- That's it. No pressure to go further
- Just build that one promise to yourself
About the lack of sunlight – I hear you.
It's tough when nature doesn't cooperate with our needs.
But even on cloudy days, natural light helps regulate our circadian rhythm.
- Stepping out during the brightest part of the day, even briefly
- Supporting your body with vitamin D supplements (after consulting your doctor)
(this will significantly improve your hormones, mood, sleep, and overall physiology)
— Managing Your Stress
When you say you don't enjoy being alive, my heart goes out to you.
I've been in that dark place too.
But here's what I learned: These feelings, while incredibly real and valid, are often connected to our physical state.
When our bodies struggle, our minds follow.
Your physical health affects mental health & vice versa.
— My Two Cents:
You asked if you have any real chance to fix yourself.
Let me be clear: You don't need fixing because you're not broken.
You need support, understanding, and a path forward.
Start here:
1. Make one small promise to yourself daily
2. Keep that promise
3. Let that victory build your trust in yourself
Remember:
- You don't have to transform everything at once
- You don't have to pretend it's easy
- You just have to take one tiny step forward
Don't focus on enjoying it yet.
Focus on doing it.
The enjoyment often comes later, after consistency creates change.
The odds of being alive and conscious are so rare that scientists need millions of digits just to write the number.
We have a 1 in 400,000,000,000,000 (400 trillion) chance of being alive.
You're not just alive - you're one of the most improbable things in the entire universe, and that's worth fighting for.
Right now, that might feel more like a burden than a gift.
That's okay.
Feel that.
Acknowledge it.
But don't give up.
Your health is the fundamental currency of life.
Everything feels overwhelming when our health suffers.
I believe in you, even if you don't believe in yourself right now.
Take that first step and I know everything else will follow.
If there is anything I can do to help you please let me know, I'm here to support your journey.
With love and support,
— Malik