09/13/2026
Thoughts of the day from your horse Trainer:
Whatever you expect of your horse, I sure hope it’s something you can also expect of yourself.
Whatever standard we hold our horses to, we should be responsible and willing to hold ourselves to as well.
🔵Balance: If you expect your horse to carry themselves correctly, to hold their frame, keep their back elevated, maintain their body position, and not constantly require you to put them back together, I sure hope you’re holding your own body to that same standard. Are you balanced? Are you consistent? Are you controlling your body, or are you asking your horse to compensate for it?
🔵Fitness: Do you expect your horse to lope multiple laps without becoming fatigued, losing their body position, or sacrificing the quality of their movement? Could you run multiple laps around your outdoor arena in four inches of sand and maintain the same posture, balance, and quality of movement from the first lap to the last?
And if you couldn’t, would you consider yourself lazy, resistant, or unwilling when your body began to fatigue?
🔵Mental clarity and presence: If you expect your horse to stay mentally present…to not look outside the show pen, spook at something in their surroundings, get distracted, or lose focus on the task at hand…I hope you’re capable of offering them that same mental presence.
Can you separate yourself from the million things running through your mind?
Can you compartmentalize the emotions you carried into the barn that day? The frustration from work, the argument you had that morning, the pressure of the show, the list of things you still need to accomplish?
Can you quiet your own mind enough to be completely present for your horse?
We ask horses for an incredible amount of physical and mental discipline. Yet sometimes we become frustrated with them for struggling with the very things we struggle to control within ourselves.
Before we raise the standard for the horse, maybe we should ask ourselves whether we’re willing to meet it too.
Because good horsemanship isn’t solely about holding the horse accountable. It’s about holding ourselves accountable for them