gabitheselfcarecoach

My #1 intention for Blueprint is to offer you another option when it comes to motivation, productivity, and goal achievement…

An option that —

> Asks you to honor yourself above all things

> Acknowledges your obligations to keeping the lights on for you or your family

> Works with your energetic highs and lows — emotional, physical or mental

> Says, “rest is just as productive as work.”

> Affirms that mental health is not bad but is heavy, and creates space for its care in your day to day

> Recognizes the privileges you operate with or without, and how that affects the way you show up

⭐️ An option that is efficient, honorable, ethical, personalized, balanced, neutral, self-prioritized, and ebbs and flows with your ups and downs as a human being.

[This is a drastic change from Hustle-Culture, which begs overworking & self-abandonment in the name of achieving a goal.]

My #2 intention is to make this, the teachings of Honor-Culture, a common place standard for coaches in any space where they are helping humans with their humanity… but more on that next month. 😉

Blueprint is a 12-week, 1:1 life evaluation and is waiting for your application. Link in bio 🎉

What does it mean to “feel safe”?

It means you are protected from danger or injury.

Life can feel unsafe when…

~ your employment isn’t secure

~ you have dependents

~ you worry about being fed, clothed, housed

~ there isn’t enough time in the day to care for yourself

~ you have bills looming

… so why does Hustle-Culture encourage us to abandon our safety (masking as “leaving the comfort zone”) in the name of achieving a goal?

> Have you been encouraged to invest large amounts of money in self-help, therapy, personal training even if it meant causing more financial stress?

> Told to make more time in your day for your goals even though you’re already overworked and exhausted?

> Asked to abandon your instincts to rest and play and create in order to grow and learn and succeed?

‼️ It easier to for Hustle-Culture to tell you to abandon your safety for success, than it is to acknowledge the PRIVILEGE required for said abandonment and success.

It is a privilege to read that 1st list up there ^ and not relate to the feelings of life vulnerability.

Therefore, it is essential that your obligations, what you need to keep the lights on for you or your family, are prioritized when creating your Blueprint.

Link in bio to apply, check previous posts and newest highlights for more info 💡

👀🏳️‍🌈 This is your reminder that when you vote in November, 51 days to be exact, you are voting for the next two Supreme Court justices.
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As your friendly neighborhood q***r woman, I ask that you don’t make this decision lightly. Promises that conservative SC appointees make will effect LGBT+ rights as well as reproductive rights.
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If you love an LGBT+ person, or a woman who is fighting for her bodily autonomy, push past your biases and hatred of whomever and ask yourself if someone’s civil liberties are more important than your death grip on party over policy.
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Family and friends —
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Are you willing to tell 11 million LGBT+ adults in the US that their rights, not only remain on the table, but will be dismantled?
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Or the 165.92 million US women that it’s not their body their choice?
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Are you willing to look me in the eye — a q***r woman — and say “I’m willing to risk your right to choice of bodily autonomy, as well as your right to marry Whomever you please, because _____________ is more important.”

I am a business woman, an entrepreneur on her way to six figures. I’ve been told to keep politics out of my business...

Keeping out of politics is a privilege.

As if you can’t already tell — I will fight till my dying breath for social policy and justice. For women, children, immigrants, my fellow lgbt people.

Use your voice for those who can’t use theirs.

And keep my *fu***ng* rights off your political agenda. @ Orange County, California