11/23/2024
You know that feeling when you’re carrying something BIG in your spirit, but you can’t figure out how to move forward with it?
Maybe it’s fear.
Maybe it’s overwhelm.
Maybe you just don’t know where to start.
You feel called to something bigger—something transformational—but the doubts creep in.
“Am I good enough?”
“Who am I to do this?”
“What if I fail?”
I KNOW that feeling—because I’ve lived it.
When I first felt God calling me to launch She Takes Initiative®, I had all the same fears. I was scared to put myself out there, overwhelmed by everything I didn’t know, and questioning if I was even the right person for this assignment.
But the moment I decided to stop hiding, step out in faith, and say YES to the vision, everything changed.
I went from doubting myself to building a movement of high-achieving, Kingdom-minded women like YOU.
With the strategies and systems I put together, I’ve been able to consistently generate over $20k in a single month while staying true to my calling to serve and empower others.
And the best part? That same breakthrough is available for YOU!
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That’s why I created the Design Your 6-Figure Coaching Ministry 3-Day Challenge, happening Nov 25–27 at 2 PM CST.
✨ This isn’t just another training. It’s a chance to:
✔️ Learn my EXACT strategy for mastering social media so you can stop feeling invisible.
✔️ Attract premium, ready-to-buy clients who are praying for someone like YOU.
✔️Design the blueprint to sell your programs unapologetically with clarity and confidence (and without feeling salesy).
This is going to be POWERFUL, PRACTICAL, and all about positioning you for the breakthrough you’ve been praying for.
💡 Here’s how to get ready:
1️⃣ Join the She Takes Initiative Facebook Group—https://www.facebook.com/groups/shetakesinitiative
2️⃣ Mark your calendar: Nov 25–27, 2 PM CST.
3️⃣ Come ready to be inspired, equipped, and prophetically LIT UP for your next season!
No more sitting on your vision. It’s time to build what God has placed in your heart.
Join us if you're READY to step into your next level of influence, income and impact as a Kingdom coach!
10/28/2024
What you’ve been through isn’t wasted—God is pouring you out to build something that will transform lives.
You’re being positioned to establish something that matters. This isn’t just about you; it’s about who you’re called to lead and equip.
As a Kingdom leader, every moment of breaking is setting the foundation for others to be activated, healed, and empowered for their Kingdom assignments.
It's time to recognize the magnitude of what God has called you to build.
This is bigger than a side hustle you run in your spare time. You are being called forward in this season to establish something that will last beyond you.
What you’re building right now—a business, a ministry, a movement—is designed to shift atmospheres, to equip others, and to release God’s Kingdom power into every area of life.
The vision God gave you is not just for today. He’s laying the foundation for generational impact.
You’re not called to build something temporary. You’re called to raise up leaders, equip them for their Kingdom assignments, and set in motion a movement that will continue to bear fruit for years to come.
So, the time for hesitation is over.
It’s now time to rise, to lead, and to build.
God has placed a powerful vision in you, and the favor, resources, and leadership you need are already on the way.
Trust the process. You were made for this. 🔥
Are you ready to let God pour you out for His glory?
It’s time.
Step into the fullness of your calling and watch the Kingdom be transformed through you.
10/17/2024
A journal on my desk caught my eye.
I picked it up and started to read.
First line reads: "You are not a product of your environment."
I leaned back in my chair and thought to myself, "Oh this is about to be REAL GOOD" as I kept reading.
After several pages (and many months of reflection and downloads), I read the last line of my journal entry:
"Your ministry is not your business. But your business could be your ministry."
When I read that note, it hit me deep.
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I, like so many other high-achieving Kingdom women, spent years compartmentalizing my business endeavors and my ministry calling, trying to fit into the expectations of the corporate and religious environments from which I came.
Religious Expectations --> this is your God-given calling so don't charge for your service.
Corporate Expectations --> be politically correct and don't talk about Jesus lest you offend your coworker.
But I knew God had not only called me to the business excellence I experienced while serving my gifts under another man's vision...
He had also called to operate in and execute from the depth of spiritual power I had experienced in religious circles.
So, for years I wondered: what if these environments and their ideologies have been limiting God’s ability to work through me in every area of my life, not just ministry?
What if what I've been taught about business and ministry goes against God's mandate for my life?
What if my business IS my ministry?
Armed with new insight and revelation, I decided NOT ANOTHER YEAR WASTED!
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Because the truth is as a Believer functioning in the marketplace, your business is more than a transaction.
It’s not just about revenue-generating activities and a strong bottom line.
Your business is an extension of the influence and authority God has given you to impact the world.
Your business is the vehicle through which God intends for you to conduct your ministry.
Because as leaders who happen to also be Christian, we all have a ministry.
Whether you're leading a team in corporate, running your own company, or serving your community, your business can (and should) be the very vehicle God uses to bring transformation, healing, and Kingdom advancement to those you are called to serve.
It's time to stop separating our success in business from our calling in ministry.
The two are not mutually exclusive—they can and should complement one another.
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If you're a high-achieving Kingdom women who's been wrestling with this tension, wondering how to step into the fullness of who God is calling you to be in both business and ministry, I invite you to join us at She Takes Initiative®.
Our community of Kingdom women is dedicated to unlocking your next level of leadership, power, and influence—so you can lead with purpose and grace in every sphere.
The anointing in our container causes you to walk into every room like you own it—with a full understanding that it's not about your credentials; it's about your calling.
And you are there on assignment.
Because business is your ministry.
Join the movement, and let’s redefine what leadership looks like.
https://www.facebook.com/groups/shetakesinitiative
09/22/2024
It's FINALLY Here!
The She Takes Initiative® Network Mobile App is live in the Apple App store and on Google Play.
If you are a member of the Network, search "She Takes Initiative" to download the app to your phone and login with your credentials.
We are in Phase 1 of the rollout, so major updates and improvements are coming soon. For now, enjoy!
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If you're not yet a member of our Mentorship Network for Kingdom Coaches and Ministry Leaders ready to grow a 6-figure coaching ministry, stay tuned.
Open enrollment is coming in October with special new member incentives!
09/09/2024
You want to be used by God, but you refuse to be broken by God so He can pour you out.
Let me explain.
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Before the oil can be produced, the olive has to be crushed.
And before the oil can be appreciated, it has to be poured out.
Crushed. Then poured out.
So when you pray, "God use me for Your glory"....
He crushes you.
Not to harm you.
But to bring forth the necessary oil for your next season.
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You may be going through difficult times where it seems your prayers are being ignored.
They're not. You're only being crushed.
It may seem like people are rejecting you and mistreating you.
They're not. You're only being crushed.
You may hit a point where the heartache is just too much to bear and you want to throw in the towel.
But don't. Because you're only being crushed.
And on the other side of your crushing is glory.
And if you will stay in God's hand and let Him crush you to break you, you will find that this great affliction has been working for you a more eternal weight of glory.
And with glory, comes increase
Your anointing increases.
Your discernment increases.
Your ability to sustain pressure increases.
Your faith increases.
And your declarations carry weight.
Because when you're crushed, God can work through you.
So don't just pray, "God use me" if you're not willing to be crushed.
It's a prerequisite for glory.
Selah.
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If you are an emerging Kingdom coach or ministry leader who wants to use your oil more effectively in this season, then I invite you to join She Takes Initiative.
Inside this private community, you receive spiritual and practical wisdom to build a 6-figure coaching ministry. We teach you how to confidently go through the "crushing" so you can package a premium-value coaching ministry that converts clients consistently.
Get a taste of our prophetic flow every Tuesday night during UNSCRIPTED: An Evening of Prophetic Release where I speak prophetically to your Kingdom call and help position you for glory.
✨ But don't grow alone. Invite a friend!
I'll see you inside.
https://www.facebook.com/groups/shetakesinitiative
09/07/2024
My Client (sounding shocked): 😟 Dalita, I was working through your module on defining my ideal audience and I realized, I AM MY IDEAL CLIENT!!
Me (slightly amused): ☺️ Of course you are.
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Okay, let me explain.
The oil on your life was produced in your most painful moments and has now become the balm to heal your ideal audience.
You were them. And they are now where you used to be.
As a Kingdom coach -- and the face of your brand and coaching ministry -- you will attract to your business those who identify themselves in your story, your testimony.
Your life experiences have shaped that testimony and your area of expertise as a coach, and it's from this place that you now coach your clients into breakthrough (at least it should be).
But when you fail to realize this or refuse to share your testimony as a part of your marketing strategy as a Kingdom coach, you will have missed the purpose of your coaching ministry: to teach others what God taught you. That's what we call DISCIPLESHIP.
Coaching is your ministry, and effective ministry requires your testimony.
When you share your personal testimony of how God brought you through in a particular area (which is likely now your coaching focus), it will be the example of possibility that provokes the deliverance for your ideal audience in that same area.
So rather than hide your truth, show your scars and share your testimony -- flaws and all.
As I tell the coaches in my community, show up in your dysfunction and let God do His work through your -- because true deliverance happens in a place of vulnerability and authenticity.
The sooner you realize YOU ARE YOUR IDEAL CLIENT, the more potent and effective your marketing will be.
You will thank me later, so.....you're welcome! 😇
09/05/2024
Trust the anointing on your life because God is calling you to move with boldness into this next season.
You're called to this.
You're anointed for this.
And it's time.
07/01/2024
God said 30.
I brought Him 29.
Still waiting on the last 1.
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For me, it's not just business.
It's ministry.
It's an assignment from God to radically shift the trajectory of the lives of the women I'm called to serve.
I do it willing.
With a grateful heart.
Because I remember...
I remember when I needed someone to awaken me.
I remember when I doubted the anointing on my life and therefore remained in rooms too small for me.
I remember the moments someone had to speak life back into me because the world had taken all I had to give.
I remember then seasons I hid myself away because I didn't think I had what it took.
And I remember the voices that called me out of the shadows of the enemy's camp and into God's marvelous light.
I remember the mentors and coaches who reminded me who I was and supported my rebirth.
I remember those who prayed me through because they saw in me what I couldn't see in myself.
And now, it's my turn to help these women remember who they are and stand on bigger platforms because they are already anointed for their next level.
I get to do for them what someone once did for me.
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Because the truth is....
No matter the lies told on social media...
No one is "self-made".
We are all standing on the shoulders of those who went before us.
And as a leader, I may be standing out front in the natural, but spiritually I'm the foundation these women get to stand on.
And by the grace of God, my foundation is strong.
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Obey God.
He'll do the rest.
That's the secret.