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The B-Side of Marriage 💍Husband & wife coaching team helping engaged + married couples build thriving relationships.

Premarital counseling | Real talk | Lasting love
🎉 Book your free discovery call today! At The B-Side of Marriage, we’re a husband-and-wife team with over 16 years of real-life marriage experience, helping couples build strong, connected, and lasting relationships. We specialize in:
💍 Premarital Counseling
❤️ Marriage & Relationship Coaching
🎙️ Real conversations on The B-Side of Marriage Podcast

Whether you're newly engaged, seriously dating, or already married, we help you navigate communication, conflict, expectations, and connection—with a unique balance of both male & female perspectives. We also use the research-backed PREPARE/ENRICH assessment and are a certified provider for the Twogether in Texas program (yes—get that marriage license discount!).

✨ Ready to grow your relationship on purpose?
🎉 Book your FREE 15-minute discovery call today and start building the marriage you both deserve @ https://thebsideofmarriage.com/book-now

When something painful happens in your marriage, it’s understandable to start looking backward.Was something wrong all a...
09/29/2026

When something painful happens in your marriage, it’s understandable to start looking backward.

Was something wrong all along?
Did I completely misread my marriage?
Was any of what we had real?

Those questions can be especially loud after betrayal or discovering something your spouse kept from you.

The pain you feel now is real. It also doesn’t automatically mean every good moment, every connection, or everything you believed about your marriage was false.

Sometimes there are truths about the relationship that you’re only beginning to understand. Sometimes there were also parts of the relationship that were meaningful and genuine. You can make room for both while you figure out what this new information means for you.

I specialize in supporting women navigating betrayal, broken trust, and relationship distress in marriage. You don’t have to have your marriage figured out before reaching out.

Resources are in the pinned comment whenever you are ready. No rush. 🔗

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Some of what I learned about being a “good therapist” has evolved as I’ve learned how to bring more of my warmth, person...
09/22/2026

Some of what I learned about being a “good therapist” has evolved as I’ve learned how to bring more of my warmth, personality, and clinical judgment into the room intentionally. As a Black couples therapist, I'm trained in working with couples, who are in relationship distress, betrayal, and the patterns underneath conflict. I’m curious which one surprised you the most.

Comment REAL and I’ll DM you my scheduling link.

09/16/2026

Have you ever asked your spouse a question and watched them go completely silent while you’re thinking, “Are you going to answer me or nah?”

This week on The B-Side of Marriage Podcast, Jason and I are talking about why people go silent during difficult conversations and what might actually be happening underneath that silence.

And somehow a conversation about "what's for lunch" turned into us unpacking how we manage each other’s reactions, try to fix uncomfortable feelings, read meaning into silence, and bring old relationship patterns into our marriage. Because apparently nothing is ever just about food over here. 😂

If you’ve ever found yourself trying to figure out the “right” thing to say so your spouse doesn’t get upset, or wondering why they can’t just tell you what they’re thinking, this one is for you.

👉🏾 Watch the full episode on YouTube at https://youtube.com/ (or your favorite podcast platforms).

Subscribe while you’re there so you don’t miss next Wednesday’s episode.

Because the real work begins at “I do.”

09/16/2026

Some couples are trying to fix conflict without ever examining the expectations underneath it.

Who handles what? Who sacrifices? Who leads? Who gets to need something? And did the two of you actually choose those expectations?

👉🏾 We unpack this in the full episode of The B-Side of Marriage Podcast on all podcast platforms.

09/15/2026

Somewhere along the way, most of us learned what a “good wife” or “good husband” was supposed to be.

The question is whether we’ve ever stopped to ask if those expectations actually fit the marriage we’re trying to build.

👉🏾 That’s where we land in the full episode of The B-Side of Marriage Podcast. Link in bio.

09/13/2026

Faith doesn’t require us to stop asking questions.

For me, respecting spiritual leadership and remembering that leaders are still human beings can exist in the same room. Jason and I get into why that matters for the messages we carry from church into marriage.

👉🏾 Full episode on all podcast platforms.

09/13/2026

Losing a role in church can mean losing much more than just a position. Especially when that community is woven into your relationships, identity, and sense of belonging.

Jason and I had a bigger conversation about the different expectations we’ve seen placed on men and women in church spaces.

👉🏾 Watch the full episode on YouTube. Link in bio.

09/11/2026

I grew up in church, and this message of not touching God’s anointed, I think deserves more conversation. When does respect for leadership quietly become an expectation that leadership shouldn’t be questioned?

Jason and I unpack how that can spill into marriage, accountability, and community in the full episode.

👉🏾 Catch The B-Side of Marriage Podcast on all podcast platforms.

09/11/2026

We don’t talk enough about what happens when a woman spends years receiving one message about s*xuality and then marriage suddenly comes with a completely different set of expectations.

This part of our conversation went straight into autonomy, desire, obligation, and what we actually expect from wives.

👉🏾 The full conversation is on The B-Side of Marriage Podcast. Link in bio.

09/09/2026

NEW EPISODE IS LIVE 🎙️

After watching Death of the Pastor’s Wife, Jason and I had some questions. A LOT of questions. 👀

What happens when the beliefs we inherit about marriage, s*x, submission, and being a “good wife” leave little room to question whether those expectations are actually healthy for our relationship?

We’re talking about church culture, accountability, s*xual responsibility, autonomy, and why couples may need to examine what they were taught marriage is supposed to look like.

And yes, we had some disagreements along the way because...B-Side. 😂

👉🏾 Watch the new episode of The B-Side of Marriage Podcast on YouTube now. Link in bio.

Then come back and tell us: What belief about marriage did you inherit that you’ve had to rethink?

Because the real work begins at “I do.”

Jason Adams

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