09/24/2026
š„ PARENTS & FANS ā COLLEGE COACHES ARE WATCHING YOU TOO.
When college coaches show up to watch your daughter, remember something:
They aren't always watching just the player between the lines.
They're watching how she carries herself after striking out.
They're watching how she responds after an error.
They're watching whether she hustles when nobody is cheering.
They're watching how she treats her teammates and coaches.
And sometimes, they're watching the people sitting in the stands too.
Parents, this is where we have to do our part.
Cheer for your kid. Cheer for her teammates. Be loud. Be proud. Enjoy the game.
But don't coach from the stands.
Don't argue every strike call.
Don't yell at umpires.
Don't criticize the coach because you don't agree with a lineup decision.
Don't make excuses every time your daughter struggles.
And don't tear down another player's kid trying to build yours up.
Your daughter is trying to show a college coach that she can handle pressure, adversity, coaching, failure and success. Give her the opportunity to prove it herself.
If she strikes out, let her respond.
If she makes an error, let her recover.
If her coach gets onto her, let her learn how to handle being coached.
Those moments are part of becoming a college athlete.
And when college coaches are around, don't chase them down and try to sell your daughter. Let her play, her effort, her attitude and her character do the talking.
One of the best things we can do as parents is make sure our behavior never becomes the reason a coach thinks twice about our kid.
Let the coaches coach.
Let the umpires umpire.
Let the players play.
And let your daughter own her recruiting journey.
Be her biggest supporterānot another obstacle she has to overcome. š„