Core Focus Fit

I’m appreciating how Every Mother (EM) App approaches pelvic floor health a little differently.

It’s not just about strengthening. It’s about learning how the pelvic floor responds—how it supports, lengthens, and adapts in different positions and throughout movement.

There’s also a focus on relaxation, which is often overlooked, especially for women experiencing symptoms like prolapse or even constipation.

What I like most so far is that EM doesn’t keep you in one position—it begins to gently progress into real-life movement so your body can learn what to do when it actually matters.

If you’ve been dealing with pelvic floor symptoms or just feel disconnected from your core, this is a helpful place to start learning and building awareness.

If you’re curious, I’d encourage you to explore the app and begin the practice for yourself.

https://every-mother.sjv.io/e13kMD

Many women go through life without ever learning about their pelvic floor.

We learn about muscles in our arms and legs, we talk about strengthening our core, and we hear about stretching tight hips—but the group of muscles that support the base of the body is rarely part of the conversation.

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I use the Reclaim Pelvic Floor program inside the Every Mother app, and in the first couple of days, I’ve gotten a helpful reset on how I think about core and pelvic floor.

Day 1 focused on something simple—but often misunderstood: how to properly engage and relax the pelvic floor (yes, both matter).

Not just “do your Kegels,” but understanding what’s actually happening and how this connects to things like prolapse, pressure, and that feeling of looseness or disconnect.

Day 2 started layering in movement, and this is where it really clicked.

It’s not about doing more…

It’s about doing it in a way your body can actually use.

What I appreciate so far:

• The exercises are short and manageable (I did about 10–12 minutes)
• Everything is designed to be pelvic floor safe
• There’s a strong focus on coordination—not just strength

Because here’s the truth:

A tight muscle isn’t always a strong muscle.

And a strong muscle that doesn’t coordinate well under pressure… still struggles.

This is the part I see all the time—
Women doing all the “right” exercises, but still dealing with leaking, pressure, or core disconnection.

Not because they’re not trying…

But because no one ever taught them how it all works together.

If you’ve ever wondered:

• “Am I even doing Kegels right?”
• “Why do I still feel pressure or leaking with workouts?”
• “Why does my core feel disconnected, even when I’m exercising?”

This is a really helpful place to start learning.

I’ll keep sharing what I’m learning as I go, because I plan to build some of this into my Root → Rise → Rejoice framework in a way that’s simple and sustainable.

If you want to explore it yourself, you can check out the Every Mother app here (I am an affiliate, just so you know!).

Link —> https://every-mother.sjv.io/e13kMD

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Disclaimer:
This is for education only and not a substitute for individualized medical care. If you’re dealing with ongoing symptoms, working with a pelvic health professional can make a big difference.

If you’ve ever wondered what exercises are actually safe and effective for your core and pelvic floor… this is a great place to start.

One of the biggest gaps I see is not just what to do—but how to do it in a way that supports your body instead of working against it.

That’s why I love the exercise library inside Every Mother.

It’s not just a random list of workouts.
It walks you through:

• Foundational core and pelvic floor coordination
• Breathing and pressure management (this is key)
• Progressions that meet you where you are
• Short, manageable sessions you can actually stay consistent with

This is especially helpful if you’re dealing with things like:
– leaking during workouts
– feeling disconnected from your core
– pressure or heaviness
– or just not knowing where to begin

You don’t have to guess your way through this.

Start simple. Learn how your body works. Build from there.

If you want to explore it, I’ve linked it here: [insert your affiliate link]

And as always—take your time with it. You don’t need to do everything at once. Consistency over intensity will take you further.

Dr. Charlotte

Link—> https://every-mother.sjv.io/e13kMD

Most people assume leaking means your pelvic floor is weak.

So the solution becomes: “Do more Kegels.”
But leaking during exercise is rarely just a strength issue.

It’s usually a combination of:

-timing
-coordination
-and pressure management

Your pelvic floor is part of a system. It doesn’t work alone.

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Our bodies are designed to send signals when something needs attention. Tight muscles, fatigue, discomfort, or imbalance are not signs of failure. They are reminders that the body is asking for care, support, and understanding.

Sometimes the first step toward healing is simply remembering that your body was never meant to be a burden—it was meant to support you in living fully and moving through life with strength and purpose.

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Grateful for 20 years in physical therapy, the people I’ve had the privilege to walk alongside, and the lessons that have shaped me along the way.

This season has stretched me, refined me, and reminded me why I started… to help people move better, feel stronger, and live fully.

Over the past year, I’ve felt a strong calling to step into something new, investing in the next generation through teaching, mentoring, and sharing the skills that aren’t always found in a textbook… the ones that help us truly connect and grow.

I’ve loved what I’ve done in physical therapy. And in this current season, doors have been opening and I’ve felt the nudge to step through and take hold of this new calling. It looks different, but it’s an opportunity to continue serving and leading in a new way, one that allows me to live with more intention, while still reaching and teaching with purpose for the next generation.

And if I’m honest, it also gives me something I don’t want to miss… time.

Time to be more present with my kids in these high school years, build deeper relationships with friends that I’ve had to push into the margins, and support my parents into their golden years.

This doesn’t feel like stepping away, rather it feels like stepping into exactly where I’m called to be.

This season looks different, but the heart remains the same: serve well, teach clearly, and keep growing. Grateful for every patient, every conversation, every lesson, and carrying it forward.

Here’s to new, restful beginnings, with purpose and intentionality!

Over the years of working with women and talking about pelvic health, one of the things I have noticed again and again is that many women want guidance, but they don’t always know where to start.

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One of the things I hear from women again and again when we start talking about pelvic health is this: “I’ve heard I should do Kegels… but I’m not actually sure if I’m doing them correctly.”

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