08/19/2026
Before my previous marriage, I was actually in a season of preparing for marriage.
I was praying, preparing myself to become a wife and then a man entered my life. Because of the timing, I assumed he must be the answer to what I had been praying for.
Looking back, I believe I mistook a counterfeit for confirmation.
That experience taught me something I want other women to understand:
Just because you’re preparing for marriage doesn’t mean the next man who enters your life is your husband.
This is why discernment in Christian dating matters so much. Pray. Fast. Ask questions. Pay attention to red flags. And don’t allow physical attraction, chemistry or lust to make you overlook what wisdom is showing you.
Preparation doesn’t replace discernment.
If you’re a Christian woman dating with intention, preparing for Kingdom marriage or believing God for a husband, this message is for you.
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And remember, before you say yes, PAUSE. 💍